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Is it wrong to want a BDSM relationship? The idea of it sounds so interesting, but would that make me abnormal? The worst part is that I'm a female.
Stop with these insecure threads already anons of 4chan.
>but would that make me abnormal
>maybe. maybe not. who cares?
>next
I don't understand anything in the OP
What the fuck is wrong with that and why does your gender matter, go find someone else who's interested in it and give it a try
Are you looking for people to tell you it's fucked up? 'Cause it's really not.
If bottom:
Of course it can work, but you need to be veeeerrry picky about who is allowed to tie you up and flog you.
If top:
It'll work briefly, but you will rapidly lose interest in men who submit to you. Just go into porn and make as much money as you can.
Depends on how you define "wrong"
If you want my opinion, I do not see it as wrong.
The only thing that can be "wrong" is the inflicting of what someone does not want onto them.
As long as you and whoever you're with are at peace with your dynamic, there is no wrong.
>>16591329
It's a tricky one, I think.
I love it. But, I can't help but wonder why I would prefer to order her around and treat her like a whore than to make love to her and celebrate our relationship in a positive way.
I've always been an idealistic faggot, so that's probably why.
But do what you want, OP. If it makes you feel like a a whore in a non-arousing way - then don't do it again.
>abnormal
Not at all.
Try it and find out. There's fetlife, but I think there's mostly gay man and landwhales there. When you get another boyfriend, ask him if he is down with that stuff.
It's more common these days.
>>16591336
Take a break from /adv/, my friend
>>16591364
>>16591362
>>16591361
Thanks a ton. Very helpful.
As a female dom, I say, don't give a fuck if it is normal or not. Do what you want. Who cares. If people look at you a different way because of it, tell them to fuck off and move on. Works for me just fine.
I'm a sub. Thanks for the help.
>>16591511
Freak. You'll never be truly accepted by normal people and society no matter what they tell you. Degenerate loser.
>>16591539
If you have to do it keep it private and to yourself and only let like your bf know. It's weird but still natural, not as weird as a girl who wants to be a man/be the boss. So you're not the worst.
>>16591664
Lol
