By being open about taking advice and by stopping to feel like a victime and try to blame everything on others and circumstances

>>16591205
Unfortunately , being open could get me in trouble , or make people despise me.

>>16591196
It depends on why you are denying that thing.

Is it a person? A belief? A bad habit?

Swim to whichever bank is closest and walk once it gets shallow enough.

Oh, wait...

>>16591214
Being open about advice? I think you missed the point completely. What i was saying is that if people give you some piece of advice, don't just throw it away but take a long hard look at it, because most of the time they just told you about a major flaw that hinders your sucess in one way or another

>>16591216
A bad habit.

>>16591222
It's not advice form other people , so maybe in wrong and technically this isnt denial. I'm afraid to believe what I think is happening , cause that would make me a bad person.

>>16591236
So, what exactly are you talking about?

>>16591246
I think I might indirectly , or subconciously try to get children to say innaapropriate things to arouse myself. For instance, I took a child's teddy bear and asked her if I could have sex with it , and when she asked me what sex was that made me feel tingly. I'm not saying I actually did that.

>>16591227

Well that can be a lot things as the root problem. It could be self esteem issues, it can be just simple laziness. If it's a really bad habit like killing people, stealing, or other terrible things, that has a lot more to say with mental health on a deeper level then I think anyone on 4chan could ever help you with.

I am going to assume that it's not immediately serious like you're denying that killing people isn't okay or punching your wife isn't okay.

Bad habits form from repetition. Finding ways to break that cycle, even if it is very very tiny, can be the key to getting out of them.

For example lets say I spent way too much time on the computer and not doing other things that could be more beneficial.

Maybe I say "okay I am going to take a break and eat something/ go for a walk/ text my friend for 10 mins"
or "I really need to do laundry"
or "I should sharpen my axe so I can kill people better"

Even if it is small you know? "I am going to clean up my room a little"

Something that you can do every day to manually get yourself away from that habit. The further away from something that triggers the habit the better.

Say you like to eat a lot of ice cream and you're getting way too fat but every night at 8 PM you eat ice cream, then at like 7:45 go do something else until it's a little past that time. Something that breaks up your scheduled feeding.

>>16591259
>>16591268


Yeah never mind about all that. You're a pedophile. That's gonna be a lifetime of conditioning/ struggle to get you away from those urges/ away from hurting someone forever.

I would say see a therapist but that will more then likely end you up in jail or on a list.
You probably need specialized care, I would google that and start digging now before you end up getting skullfucked in prison after you raped a little girl.

>>16591279
I don't want to be a pedophile.... What if this is just a weird phase in my life?

>>16591297
So, how's your life besides that?

>>16591297
its not.

control your thoughts. especially when youre jacking off. for real dude its a slippery fuckin slope, i was teetering on the edge for a long time. i still am. i blame my years of fapping on omegle from 16-21 (now). no more. no porn. nothing. just dont. get off to the sensation of being aroused - not to some fucked up shit.

>>16591320
Ok I suppose , just going through college , been with my gf for two years to this day.

>>16591322
What do you mean by "fucked up shit" ?

>>16591331
When did you started to find yourselfe aroused by things involving kids?

>>16591196
Go get some help. Like honestly if you are in fact having thoughts that are sexual towards little girls go get some help. Go to a fucking therapist or even better sign yourself up to a mental rehabilitation centre or something. I mean ask yourself this : do I have a problem that could hurt others? Should I go get some help? Yes...Good now go get some help before you hurt someone.