Need opinions from men. What is the best strategy or signs to find out if my husband is no longer into me or cheating? I know I'm not able to get an honest answer through communication. I haven't let my looks go at all and still have continued being sweet and loyal just as I always have been, so if he did stray or has I think it'd be due to boredom possibly or circumstances beyond my control.
>>16584510
Why do you suspect he has?
You have to go through his phone anon, only way to confirm it 100%.
That is how I found my girlfriend cheating on me while she told me everything else was great.
>>16584513
I've just felt an off vibe, noticed less compliments, angers easier, doesn't talk as much, slightly defensive when I ask questions. Things of that nature. Even if he's not cheating I wonder if he could be bored or less interested. Maybe distracted?
>>16584519
There's nothing in his phone, but I know due to previous issues he would be more careful to leave any trail on it.
Are there any clues to look out for or a non-confrontational way I could ask certain questions that would give me any hints? If so what kind of questions? Like I said, anything that seems to be implying suspicion will make him more defensive and upset
How's the sex?
>>16584626
Its good. At least still just as frequent-once a day usually or at the very least every other day if we are busy. Sometimes he's gets harder than other times but I think that's normal, right? Like if I give him head or do something different he gets harder versus if its more routine. Any red flags you think? I just don't understand why I feel this way, if there's more to him complimenting me less or if maybe I'm reading into it too much.
>>16584526
short of hiring a detective... I wouldn't really know. I've always assumed that any woman would eventually cheat and I just needed to be prepared for that, "monogamy's fine but 'till death do us part' isn't" and all that.
>>16584526
have you tried asking him "hey how are you doing"
>>16584657
Yeah, I've been cheated on in almost every relationship I've been in. I think that's why I worry when things seem even slightly off.
>>16584680
I've tried but since our trust isn't great, I don't think his answer would give me much peace of mind. I have it in my head that even if things weren't okay he would just pretend that they were fine like he did before when he cheated.
