Watching porn with girlfriend and talking about it.
My girlfriend watches porn, I don't, she showed me a video and told me that's how she wants me to fuck her, I'll of course happily oblige but, what are the pros and cons of this porn watching? Is it healthy for the relationship, how should I talk with her about it? She seemed unsatisfied with how I responded to her at first, I didn't really know what to say.
Watching porn is totally normal.
People watch porn.
It's a thing that people do.
Don't try to change your partner.
>>16564919
So how should I talk with her about it? This is confusing.
Despite what that anon says, watching porn isn't "normal", it's something that a group of people in this day and age do, and it yields nothing positive to anyone does.
I know you already sense it, just talk to her about it. Ask her why she's really watching porn and if she ever tried to break out of her habit. She'll probably say it's just a thing she does for pleasure and she might reply that she may have a hard time if she stopped or something to that effect.
I'm a guy with strong sex drive and I used to watch porn masturbate multiple times a day, knowing it's bad for the body as well as the soul, just because I thought if I went on too long without masturbating all my thoughts would be filled of sex and women and that I would have trouble functioning within people etc. etc. I stopped masturbating a good while ago and it turns out it's the opposite, you simply forget about it after a while and get your focus, your will back and you get to direct it to constructive things.
Most people who frequently watch porn are people with not much to do with their day, their lives. Idleness begets boredom and people lean to fleshly pleasures, but referring to outer sources for things that should be intimate between the two of you has no 'cons' and will only do harm, at best it will waste your and your partner's time, at worst it'll end your relationship. Talk to her about it.
>>16564991
*has no 'pros', is what I meant.
>>16564991
You're like the reformed alcoholic who preaches to people they shouldn't even drink one beer because it's the devil's juice and destroyed their marriage or something.
>>16565006
I'm not saying that she should drop it out immediately and never think of the thought of it again or anything, but she should understand that watching porn is simply harmful. If she's in a relationship and someone close to her like her partner can explain this to her, that's great. With the understanding she'll want to stop watching it anyway.
I think it's unhealthy is she looks at it most of the day.
My friends gf is trying to setup a gangbang between everyone in the apartment. Her fetishes seem like they get more extreme by the year.
She watches a lot of porn and usually has something sexual on her mind.
Once my friend is unable to meet her expectations I predict she'll go retarded again and attempt to cheat
Porn is bad senpai I'm still trying to give it up.
I was also reading somewhere that the more porn and mastfurbating someone does in a day, the harder the fetishs need to be to gain arousal from the person. Maybe that's how people get into the really weird stuff
I can attest to the fact that the more often I've watched porn and masturbated in the past the harder it is to become aroused. When I have stopped and been in relationships it's so much easier to be aroused and easy to be motivated to do other things
-Femanon
why are you complicating things op?
you watched people putting their genitals on a video. oooh, a big fucking deal.
just fuck her and enjoy your love.
as it lasts, at least...
>>16565006
I thought this too. What a cunt. Like a fucking veggy forcing opinions on people.
