Bisexual, but....
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I'm bisexual, but I can't get off with woman.
I actually really prefer women, by a good margin. But for some reason they can't get me off. Vaginally, handjob, oral, it doesn't matter. I cannot cum with them even after a really long time (2+hrs). And if I'm wearing a condom..... forget about it - is hard to stay, err, hard
I can come with a guy pretty much any way in minutes on the other hand.
I'm not that gay, I promise. But my current girlfriend is beginning to wonder I think. She hasn't ever mentioned the fact I don't come in an angry context, but the past several times she's made passing comments about it. She knows I'm bisexual, but I think she's convinced I'm gay. I feel like I'm falling to make her feel good about herself, because whenever we finish she kind of like Samus in the OP pic..... kind of annoyed.
Anyone else he have the same issue?
Sorry for the dumb grammar errors towards the end there. Meant to say failing, not falling, among other things.
Gay, Straight or Lying.
Does it help if you imagine she is a guy?
>>16562462
Oh my fucking god you are such a faggot just suck dick and be proud like the rest of us.
>>16562462
>I'm not that gay, I promise.
You ARE that gay.
>>>/lgbt/
>>16562637
Not necessarily. Orgasm can be hard to reach for some
Is it the lack of stimulation? Obviously getting jerked off while getting analysis is more stimulating than vaginal intercourse.
Man, I got the same issue, just without all the dude-fucking.
Your best bet is to stop looking at porn, like at all, and stop masturbating, or at least limit it to once a week.
Once your mind and body flush themselves out, in about 2-3 months, you'll be diamonds whenever sex with anyone is mentioned.
Or, ya'know, you're gay. You're already packing fudge, so don't be coy about it.
Do you find your girlfriend sexually attractive?
OP Here
>>16562994
Very much so.
>>16562729
That's part of it. I'm substantially more attracted to women than men. That's no lie. I absolutely idolize women, and love them passionately. There is no comparison.
I'm a bottom with men, exlusively. Won't do it the other way around. I'm not really attracted to men, I just like getting pounded and sacking dicks. That sounds pardoxical, but it has more to do with the fact I'm sexually submissive and tend to relate more with women than men, so it makes me feel feminine and dominated and turns me on. It's fetishistic fantasy, not my driving sexual desire.
It takes a lot to get me off in general, and anal is super stimulating. So that is a big part of what makes it possible for me.
She's a cool lady, and it wouldn't be the biggest deal in the world, but it's a bit awkward asking my girlfriend to equip a dildo so I can get off.
>>16563107
Just ask her. Some women dig that kind of stuff. Sounds like you probably tend to go with dominant women anyway.
People often worry others will think them freaks for having a fetish. Not the case usually.
Are you afraid of getting her pregnant?
>>16563246
Frog what?
OP Bump
>>16563281
Oftentimes men can't cum because they live in terror of getting their girl pregnant.
>>16563995
That's not the issue at all
>>16562462
Interesting.
I'm not bi myself, well, I've never acted on it, but I also have trouble cumming with girls.
I wonder if maybe girls just aren't good at jerking dicks the way guys are?
>>16564370
This has happened to me. Girl just couldn't give a normal blowjob.
Was awkward when trying to explain it to her.
I don't get how some guys can't cum. Most guys have the opposite problem. It's crazy.....
>>16564460
Wtf
I had a bad experience tonight with incredible sex, but I couldn't ejaculate. We did missionary, doggy, and cowgirl, but I just couldn't cum. It's only my second time and I haven't masturbated/watched porn since we last did it earlier this week, so I don't know what is wrong with my penis. I thought it was the condom but when she blew me I just couldn't. I feel terrible because I really like her and she's tight, but my cock is useless.
I'm very attracted to her, I get hard just from cuddling/kissing. My dick just doesn't supply the milk when needed, and I think she's starting to feel bad.
You're a faggot. I find women hot too. That doesn't make me strait.
Sorry, faggot, this must be hard for you to accept.
>>16564496
same man
for me its a combination of nerves, deathgrip, sensitive penis when pulled back, feeling pressure to cum, and years of porn
sometimes I feel im not attracted to my gf which is stupid bc ive masterbated to girls that look just like her, but when its time to do the do It doesnt as good
ive tried giving up alot of things, and they have helped, but it takes time
