I started working in a small company (10 people) a few months back. I've become decent friends with a girl who works there, and in the past few weeks we've gone to a few concerts in the city together. During the last one, we spent most of the time talking, and when we parted, she gave me a long hug and squeezed my arm. I read this as affection, so I invited her to another gig, but she had a flimsy excuse which seemed to me like she wanted an out. Since then, we've still been talking and have been friendly as ever at work.
So am I reading too much into things? And should I even think about things progressing with a coworker?
Her flimsy excuse was that over the weekend was her mom's birthday, and she didn't know which day they would celebrate. But there were 4 different shows over the entire weekend, so it could have easily been worked around.
Women sense when you are onto them.
>>16561441
Wut
no
no
and no
You will end up losing your job in some kind of drama
>>16561464
Why do you say that?
>>16561413
Sounds like a legitimate excuse. Maybe she's picked up on you liking her and didn't want to hang out with you to give herself some space? Either way you don't wanna start shit at work because it'll almost always end up horrible for you.
She's not interested
Dude, she's just not into you.. Just leave her alone.. If she still talks to you then she may want to be friends, like in the work place, and doesn't want things to be awkward.
>>16561387
Grow some balls and tell her how you feel. Straight up. She'll either appreciate the directness or say she doesn't feel the same way. If she rejects you, don't make it awkward. Don't act any different. Then you'll just push her away. Don't look at her as a potential life partner constantly, or else you'll just get upset at her rejection. You're not entitled to anything, but you have to earn her affection.
Just ask her out homeboy.
