So I'm a 21 male virgin and I want to establish my sexual identity. Long story short, I was a fairly attractive young guy at 16-17, set to lose my virginity to my high school girlfriend, but she committed suicide and it ruined me in every way. I'm beyond it almost entirely, but I've missed out on a lot of social and emotional experiences the last few years.
I'd try to have casual sex with girls at my college like a normal person, but I've become unattractive. I'm a 5-7 depending on whom you ask, but I have scars and a skin condition that would drop me down to a 3 probably; with a prostitute or escort, I wouldn't have to worry about that and would just learn the act, right?
Is this a good idea? Where can I get what I want? I'd go to Vegas for an escort except I'm poor.
Every guy I know who resorted to escorts out of insecurity/shyness had a bad first experience.
Ironically escorts are much better if you're a confident, normal guy just looking to have some quick fun.
I'd suggest self-development and finding a girlfriend to have sex with.
>>16557215
I feel my expectations are unrealistic for actually interacting with girls sexually. I want what I could have had before, but right now I'm abnormal sexually and physically, with scars and skin conditions.
>>16557202
You'll feel absolutely terrible afterwards. Don't do it. It's not worth it.
just get a hooker off backpages or craigslist?
stop being such a puss about it, I was in the same boat, 22 and virgin, and I did it and I'm so glad I did
just do it, its easy as fuck
I lost mine to a prosty at 19 or 20. It wasn't that bad even though she was probably early 30s and had some baby damage. She gave me incredible head but condom sex doesn't feel that good then or now. I don't regret it, I had a weird block where I was unable to commit to fucking girls my age because I thought I'd premature ejac and have a panic attack and they'd never talk to me again. So I fucked a hooker and learned that sex is just sex and I was blowing it way out of proportion.
>>16557253
Not OP, but can you outcall escorts to a hotel room? How do you avoid getting your shit kicked in by their pimp or having her steal your stuff?
>>16557264
You are better off with incall. Use theeroticreview. com to check for ripoffoffs and law enforcement. You can read enough of the reviews without making an account.
>>16557264
I mean you could but what's the point of that if she already has a hotel room? Her pimp probably drives her to the outcall anyway. That said I've never had any troubles with pimps. They're typically just lazy pieces of shit who force their gf to do sex work so they don't have to do anything except sit around. Unless you're dealing with some real mad niggerish pimps you'll be ok.
>>16557264
Incall = you go to her place
Outcall = she comes to you
Generally, outcall to a hotel is the safest, incall to her place in the middle, and outcall to your residence the least safe
Almost 90% don't have people with them, they usually have a text system where once they get the donation and feel safe, they text that all is clear and you commence.
As for avoiding your shit getting stolen, if she looks like a junky or just trashy, just avoid like the plauge. Also a lot of escorts have TER Id's that you can look up and if they have more than a couple of reviews, they are legit.
Trust me I've done it all, it's incredibly easy and rarely will you ever run into a sketchy situation/'pimp' unless you go to shady parts of town/girls or try to play games like not handing over the money right away
Just avoid trashy looking drug using women and you will be fine. My second escort experience I walked into a house with 6 niggers, all cooking cocaine and watching TV, and had some nasty ass old woman who didn't even look like her pic give me an uncovered blowjob with a knife on her night stand. When I went to leave, the door was locked and I had to unlock it myself in front of everyone. Thankfully I never got any diseases, but it was more than a close call, so you do have to be careful.
#1 rule is just act like everything is normal, if you are sketchy/jumpy you are just gonna have a bad time and make the girl think you're gonna rob HER
>>16557279
OP here. Outcall to a hotel is the way I want to go. I live in a small and uneventful town; can't find anything on theeroticreview. Where else can I look, and how much should I spend to get the most out of my money?
>>16557279
Lmao at that dirty hooker story, I've been with like 50+ hookers over the last 10 years and my worst stories aren't even that bad.
>meet girl on backpage
>go up to her hotel room and put the donation on the dresser
>she's not the same girl in the pics but still a 6/10
>notice a small meth bong half hidden behind some paper towels when i inspect the room
>she says doesnt have any condoms for sex but we can do it bareback for an extra 20
>i decline so she starts blowing me for a few minutes
>all of a sudden her "roommate" comes bursting out of the bathroom
>its the girl in the pics
>they start yelling at eachother
>the original girl gets her shit and gets the fuck out
>the girl that came out of the bathroom apologizes for everything and sucks my cock to completion
on second thought losing my virg to a hooker made me a lot more open to prostitution and "propositioning" in general, so if you fuck a hooker once, you'll probably do it again
Read "Paying for it" by Chester Brown, it's a little graphic novel about prostitution. I'm a 21 y/o kissless virgin, in about the same boat as you. The book made me look at prostitution in a new way.
>>16557288
You'll have to go to a bigger city.
I can't afford an escort. Paying 200-300 every day for sex is too rich for my blood
I don't know how you guys do it. When I had a girlfriend we would have sex in the morning and at night, so that would be like $400 a day...
I only make 50k/year
What skin condition?
>>16557502
I make 62k with bonuses. I usually go once a week.
You don't need to be sexually gratified every day, do you?
>>16557513
psiorasis and vitiligo. treatable in the long run, not good now.
>>16557547
I have seborrheic dermatitis so I feel you bro
Is yours very bad? Like lots of scaling? Or just the redness/patchy discoloration?
try applying coconut oil every night to your bad spots, it helps control my shit
>>16557547
>>16557565
eww irl ghouls.
>>16557514
>go once each week
that's what $800 a month? I dunno if I can swing that for having sex just 4times, plus it's under a time limit :/
I got a big appetite and I'm on steroids so my sex drive is pretty stupid high.
Probably gonna look for other options, escorts don't seem worth the cost.
>>16557582
better to have a treatable skin condition than to have fucked a dog, lol
>>16557279
legit
