we both just got dumped pretty hard is he trying to get in my pants or something?
hes always complaining about being single and i usually ignore it
Maybe? Is he a good choice for a rebound?
>>16552800
this is pretty much my first major break up so i've never had a rebound BUT
hes a great friend and hes attractive
but i'm worried of ruining our friendship
Why aren't you telling him that? Move in together if you want, then after a few weeks if you're comfortable with it try being together.
This board wouldn't even exist if people just communicated instead of being whiney wanna be introverts.
>>16552810
high risk, high reward.
if it works out, you get a relationship with a great friend.
if it doesn't, maybe he wasn't THAT great.
How long have you known him? People are totally different communicating vs living with (Experience talking here)
It seems a little suspect, especially if you haven't know each other that long, but as the other anon said it's high risk, high reward
Please tell me you at least met this guy in person before deciding to move in with him.
>>16552771
Don't just go live with him.
1. He's definitely trying to get into your pants
2. Why is that such a terrible thing?
But, the fact of the matter is you only know him online. If you want, go and visit him for a week or so. Go on a few dates with him. But don't move in with him - if it doesn't work out, you're boned. If it does work out in the week that you visit with him, I'd suggest instead of living with him, that you get your own apartment nearby so you can visit whenever you want. Again, you want to be self sufficient in case shit hits the fan.
>>16552833
around 4 years
>>16552834
..nop 3^:>
>>16552841
yea of course, i'd want a job lined up if i did move
>>16552859
What are your initial reactions to the idea? It seems that you have some obvious doubts but anything else?
>>16553010
I live in a pretty shitty rural town with pretty much nothing to do anyways, i think a change of scenery would be nice
i'm 19 so i'm not sure how my mom would feel about me suddenly moving out
even going for a week long trip would probably piss her off
Just fuck him already.