I've been invited to a surprise birthday party/bar crawl tonight for a girl I slept with once but am not actually close with. We don't talk. The party would be almost entirely people I don't know (mostly basic frat girls, most of which have boyfriends). I think I was invited because it was assumed I'm closer with this girl than I actually am. There's a small chance I might get laid, but I doubt it.
The party is a 2 hour drive away. Chances are I'd end up sleeping on the floor of my roommate's dorm, drunk at 3am. However I might meet new people and network a bit.
Do the pros outweigh the cons? Do I go?
The girl would have told people if she didn't want you around, so go.
>>16531629
It's a surprise birthday party. She has no idea it's happening, or that I would be there.
>>16531631
No, before. She would have said negative things before.
>>16531638
Ok. That's +1. A friend just told me it's not worth the gas, so that's -1.
Hoping to get more input before I decide to commit to this shit.
>2 hour drive away
And that's where I nope'd. Everything else was a coin flip. But 2 hours? Haha not a fucking chance.
>>16531711
Aye, that's the clincher for me as well. I mean fuck, I said I would go. & I could have a blast.
But dat drive distance senpai.
>>16531622
If it's a surprise, how do you know?
Anyways, you could have a nice time or awkward time. Your motivation to go should not be about sex, 9 out 10 times you'll be disappointed.
>>16531725
My motivation isn't sex. It's to network and meet people, as I've said.
>>16531622
I wouldn't go.
It'll be kinda awkward and time consuming. The trip is a hassle and the chances that'll you'll have a blast seen very slim considering that youll have to drive for 2hours and return in 2hours.
4 fucxibg hours for a party.
But its up to you.
If you want som puss puss then ya, go.
>>16531725
Oh and because I was invited to the facebook group event by one of the planners.
>>16531728
That will depend on how well you will communicate with those people. 2 hour drive can be pleasant, i love driving myself.
>>16531728
If a 2 hour drive is worth socializing to you, do it. Seeing an old hookup harlot hooking up with other guys is another thing to consider.
>>16531729
>>16531711
Yeah fuck it. I'll tell them my car is having issues and I don't feel comfortable driving or something.
That's so much weight and anxiety off my shoulders. Today is nice, might go for a run and hit the gym.
Thank you guys so much.
