I gave up my "anal virginity" to my current boyfriend a while back. He never had any particular interest in anal but he wasn't against it either. We started to do it more often until one night we were drunk and an "accident" happened. Since then we've never done it and while he seemed unfazed about it at the time I think he's disgusted by it and doesn't want to do it again, since he's never attempted to. I really like anal and want to do it but I feel fucking mortified still. What to do?
>>16502098
If you want to do it, tell him you want to do it, if you don't want to do it, then don't.
>>16502098
How bad does your butt crack smell?
>>16502107
But he's grossed out by it for sure. He always makes a point of avoiding that region whenever we have sex now. He used to sometimes put his finger in there before we actually started doing anal and now he even avoids doing that. -.-'
>>16502112
I mean, I'm hygienic and smell ok and all. The accident happened that time because we were spontaneous about it and didn't .. prepare for it.
>>16502116
Then talk with him, not us about you wanting to do anal.
>>16502122
Can you post a picture of your bum? I am good at detecting smells through the internet.
Anyone who wants, or agrees to anal should be prepared for accidents. It happens, we aren't porn stars.
>clean yourself better!
Can still happen, and sometimes men themselves insists on spontaneous sessions without preparation. ''Come on, it can't be that dirty babe''. Oh boy, if men knew how shitty it can be down there sometimes without any cleaning up.
I wish the only thing regarding anal I had to do/think about was ''just stick it in lmao''.
How serious was the accident?
I've done anal dozens of times but never seen more than a small stain occasionally
I don't get people.
Let me get this straight. You have this boyfriend, you have a guy with a dick who hangs around you. This guy puts his dick in your holes. This guy fucks your ass and sticks his fingers up your asshole. You can do all that, right?
You're telling me you are ashamed of just talking to him about this shit? After he fucked your asshole multiple times, you can't just go ''oi, what's up with not wanting to fuck my ass?''
Are you people serious?
If he is anything like you he is probably avoiding it because he doesn't want to talk to you about it. He probably has nothing against anal, he just can't bring himself to address the issue of you shitting on his dick.
>>16502581
>After he fucked your asshole multiple times, you can't just go ''oi, what's up with not wanting to fuck my ass?
good analogy for 90% of problems on /adv/
>>16502583
Only the relationship ones
>guys, my bf said this and I can't just ask him what he meant :(
>guys, my bf has sex with me only once a week, does he not love me :(((( btw haven't and will not talk to him about it :DDD
>guys, guys, guys! My gf dresses in a way I don't approve of, what DO I DOOOOO?!??! Also not going to talk to her about it LOL
Stop
>>16502583
nah I'd say 90% of /adv/ is people making a thread to confirm the course of action they've already decided upon, then when the overwhelming advice is to do something else they get mad
