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I know that dating your coworkers is generally inadvisable, but I've done it anyways and had some success with it. For anyone who's dipped in company ink, how much is too much? I've had a public relationship with one of my coworkers, which ended mutually, would asking out another coworker be a poor move? She's a shy, lonely qt.
For perspective, I don't care terribly about this job but it'd be nice to not throw it away for nothing.
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>>16491588
My rule is always: is this a job or is it a career? If a job, who gives a fuck? As if being paid 8 bucks an hour to man a register is worth any consideration for the long term. It doesn't matter. If it's a career job, where you have graduated college and are making very good money and the policy is such that it's not OK to do? Don't do it. This is big kid time. Follow the rules, keep shit simple at work and find people outside of your work circle. It's not that hard.
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>>16491588
I'd advise against it. don't shit where you eat, and a breakup can easily become a shitty situation
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Seems like a bad idea to me. I've seen it crash and burn twice. Once at Fred Meyer the couple split after 2 years and the girl filed a sexual harassment claim and the guy lost his job in management.
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>>16491600
This guy knows what's up.
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>>16491600
It's really not a job I care about, I just don't want to try this if it's stupid to try and date someone at work after everyone already knowing I dated someone else we worked with.
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>>16491649

People are going to judge you harshly and talk behind your back, even if they seem like the nicest people in the world. I know a handful of guys at my job that do what you're trying to do, and everyone knows intimate, disgusting details about them.
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>>16491676
Thanks for the heads up about that. I'll keep it to myself; I'd prefer to not have everyone think I'm a big slut.
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>>16491688
Not that anon, but if you're someone who values your privacy in relationships, workplace relationships are the polar opposite of what you want.
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>>16491649
people are going to secretly shit all over you for that one. they might even go as far as trying to make your life at your job miserable for it. I've seen it happen.
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>>16491708
>>16491676
Okay, this would be worth avoiding.
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