My boyfriend of 3 years and I broke up for about 2 months. Now we got back but there is a little issue:
During the time we were broken up, he started talking to a girl whose blog he followed for a while when we were together.
She really likes him and they would talk on the phone at night until she fell asleep.
When we got back together, my boyfriend said that it's not a big deal. He stopped talking to her (after explaining to her why) after I asked him to, but he tells me she still sends him messages.
He says he wants to talk to her as she is his friend, but he won't since I asked him not to.
I don't know if I am being too jealous here, but the reason I don't want them to talk is:
>As mentioned, the phone calls until she falls asleep. That's not really something "friends" do...
>She calls him the same "baby name" I call him
>The whole reason he even started talking to her is because we were broken up. I'm not sure what else is there to talk about now? He said he can ask her for advice about me since she's a girl, lol... But she is in love with him!
So anyway, am I unreasonable in saying I don't want him to talk to her?
>Pic Related
This can only end in tears
>>16489429
>relationship already broke down and went to shit
>got back together because you werent used to being lonely
good luck lol
stop harping on about the girl. who cares. if he wants to do it he'll do it. he already knows you dont want him to and thats fine, you dont need to worry about it anymore.
she was his rebound sex, now she is orbiting him
>>16489464
>>16489466
I know most people say this, but I feel that we really have another shot. No one cheated or something terrible like that.
>>16489472
They didn't have sex, just spoke on the phone.
>>16489429
Because she was there for him when you wernt. She saw him vulnerable when you hurt him. He's better off with her. Maybe next time champ. He found the better girl but he's to afraid to do the right thing
>>16489429
Why did you break up In the first place
>>16489501
>They didn't have sex, just spoke on the phone
so he tells
Sounds like he's tired of your shit OP
>>16489511
If he wanted to be with her, he wouldn't contact me and say he wants to try again.
>>16489514
I started taking the relationship as granted, and during a period of anxiety and depression just didn't make him feel loved.
>>16489531
I know for a fact that he never met her in real life. Maybe they had phone sex, who knows. :P
>>16489572
He is the one who reached out to me after I cried for 2 months. Yes he was tired of my shit but I tried to show him that I've changed.
>>16489511
>>16489572
trolls. the only method of extermination is to stop feeding them
OP, I would take a gander and say that your bf likes her more than he wants to admit to himself.
do not allow him to speak to her. he'll forget about it, and itll die out.
