Hey /adv/ do you ever have those days were you seem to have a hard time getting it up or keeping it up? I sometimes do and it worries me...it get's to my head and I have a girlfriend, I get worried at one point I don't end up getting it up...Is this all in my head? Never used to have those worries untill last year when I was avout to have a threesome and choked cause i couldn't get it up.
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>>16470416
How old are you? If under 35 or so it's a mental hang up most likely. Worrying about it will just make it worse.
>>16470473
I'm 19, and ya I think it's a mental thing but like is that normal? Having those days where it's just like meh...not sauing i don't get somme, just somme days where ehhh...
>>16470416
Simple. Don't spank off or watch porn. Some say it takes 3 months for this to really effect you in terms of rewiring your brain if you do it compulsively.
If you don't constantly do either of those things, then try to extend foreplay and ease yourself into the mood or try having sex with someone else. Maybe take a break from sex, too, as what I'm getting at is if you don't spank constantly, then it's probably mental.
>>16470477
It's psychosomatic.
Chill.
Literally, chilling will make it go away. Worrying will make it worse
>>16470487
I do fap alot, tho have considered quitting, the fapling has been going on alot less since i been with her
>>16470490
I beleive so, cause when i'm with her and don't think about it, poof, automatic boner
>>16470495
You're just a kid nervous about his girlfriend.
Relax.
Almost everyone has got a moment where lil Willy gets shy.
It's all in your head.
You got another 10 years of solid boner power.
Enjoy it while you can. Trust me, you'll miss it when its gone
Taking certain types of medications can reduce the power of your erections. I take antidepressants for a couple reasons, and some times I find it a bit harder to get it up, even though I'm 20. If you're with your girl and can't get it up, it's just shyness. More foreplay will help you relax.