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Iv'e been in a 8 week class that lasts 1 hour and 30 mins each week. i like this girl and try to be friendly to her but there is hardly anytime at all to talk.
the class ends next week
should i ask for her number even if i don't know her too well or would it seem a little awkward?

TLDR: should i ask for a girls number even though i don't know her that much?

>>16465537
What do you have to lose? The worst she can do is say no

Girls, how romantically successful do you think you'd be if you had been born a man?

>girl texts a matter-of-fact response that's hard to respond to
>work up a shitty response
>all she says is "yeah"
This means conversation's over and stop bothering, right?

>>16465785
Just say random shit. Not stupid shit, but shit that could spark up a convo.

>>16465732
I don't think I can imagine what I would be like as a man because I'd have a fundamentally different brain and different level of hormones affecting it. I'd be a different person.

>>16465875
Thank you for not entertaining such a stupid question and giving the real and only answer.

Girls: What do you want to hear when talking to a guy for the first time, assuming you don't want to just skip straight to sex? Yes, I'm talking about the banter part. It seems like some banter is "too immature" or "not good enough" for a lot of girls.

Also, how much do you value a high level of education? If he tells you he went to college instead of university, does that lower his value a lot?

>>16465919
Something that makes me smile.

No. His ambitions matter. People can do a lot in life without a wall of diplomas.

>>16465957
>Something that makes me smile.
I was planning to type "and something other than makes you laugh" but I guess the only point of banter is to be lighthearted and laugh. I need to get better at that. If there's anything other than laughing though, I'd like to hear it.

>>16465963
We just want a good reason to feel happy.

>>16465966
This dick could make you happy though

Ayy lmao

I know women like a guy with life goals. But what if he was significantly further behind than you?

I won't be graduating college till I'm 25 in a best case scenario, and most of my peers are starting their own careers right now. I still plan to keep moving forward, but I feel rather stunted.

>>16465512
What goes through your mind when a guy needs to talk to you?

How do I get a girl to talk a bit less? She can talk non-stop for hours at high speed which really kills the mood no matter how much I try.

>>16466014
Want to trade girls? Mine barely talks at all which really kills the mood no matter how much I pry.

>>16466014
You don't. That's really rude of you to even consider. If that part of her personality doesn't appeal to you, you need to pursue other people. How unfair would it be for her to tell you to not talk about whatever you're interested in, for example, because she thinks it's boring? You'd certainly feel pretty awkward and hurt by that comment. She too would be really hurt if you insinuate she needs to not talk as much.

>>16466020
Haha, sure!

>>16466025
She said it's a family trait and laughed when I joked that I barely managed to say a sentence between that machine gun fire of words. Seems pretty self aware of that quirk of hers.

>>16466044
I'm sure she is aware of it. All the more reason that it's nutty of you to tell her to quit. She obviously likes who she is and feels no need to change it, and again, it's really rude of you to even think you could/should.

Lot of women out there of all kinds. Stop talking to this one if you don't like how she talks.

>>16465512
24 year old male without any dating etiquette knowledge here.

ive been in relationships before but ive never just asked a stranger for her number and went on a date. all the girls ive been involved with before, i was already friends with for awhile and then we got together, so it was easy like that. but i just met this girl at a show, got her number, and went to a coffee shop (i paid; might seem irrelevant but i will get to this) and talked for awhile.

things went pretty well and now we have plans to go to a concert on friday. gonna be $25 per ticket, more if i buy them online. should i pay for this too? i dont have a problem with paying, im just wondering what the normal thing to do in my situation is because i am literally clueless.

On the topic of annoying quirks-
Why is it that people laughing too much pisses me off so bad?
I have a few friends and family members that throw in a chuckle at every little thing. If something is barely strange, or awkward, or cute, they'll just throw their heads back and laugh. Every couple of sentences.
I know I should be happy that they're in such good spirits, but it makes my blood boil. I've ended up avoiding them.
It feels disgenuine to me and trivializes laughter. They look at me expecting to laugh along, but I can only smile/grimace. One in particular feels really fake, and I know they have depression. Should I talk with them concerned? Maybe they're overcompensating.

How do I get over this? How do I suppress the anger? There are some who I cannot avoid and really want to enjoy their presence.

>>16465974
Not a girl, but I happen to be a 25 year old guy just graduating college myself. I know what you mean about feeling stunted. I have a hard time keeping my mind off of how behind I am. It's a constant nagging feeling.

As for what women think about it, I can only say that it hasn't really hurt my dating life over the past few years. Dated a handful of girls, have had a steady girlfriend for the past year and a bit. None of them batted an eyelash at it. Just don't make a big deal of it and neither will they.

>>16465975
You mean like if a guy tells me "we need to talk"? If anyone tells me that, I automatically assume the worst

OPs response to "would you date a virgin" triggered me. I have a college friend, now 2nd year, who's still a virgin, and i think i find that attractive. Its hot thinking id be the only girl he'd be with, or feeling like he wants me like someone who's never had it, and wants it really really bad.

>>16466128
well youre a rare case. most women by that age dont want to deal with a virgin though. they want someone with experience who knows what theyre doing. not saying he wouldnt be able to find someone to date him just cause hes a virgin though. theres someone out there for almost any type of person.

Girls, would you be offended if a guy you're dating asked you to put in more effort?

I'm dating a girl who completely seems to have stopped caring. She used to be so warm and flirty towards me and my phone never had a quiet moment, but now she has become the complete opposite. I have to fight for every response, she dryly says what's necessary with phrasing that can be downright harsh at times. In person she's like a non-sexual version of a dead fish, taking everything I throw at her but giving nothing in return.
I've dated her for too long to not care and move on. Could giving her a wake-up call fix this?

>>16466194
dont ask her to put in more effort. just have a talk about the way you feel and see what she says.

sorry to tell you though, it seems like shes just not that into it anymore, and thats not something you can fix.

Either gender

When would you say is the right time to go official or exclusive with the person you're dating?

>>16465732
Probably more than I am right now. For one, my parents wouldn't neglect me as much.

>>16466291
I skip the dating phase all together honestly. Get to know them as a good, close friend for years and then be exclusive.

>>16466291
Three dates to stop seeing other people
Six dates to decide on becoming "official"

Women/girls.

Is it weird for a guy to ask a woman to come clothes shopping with him to help pick out clothes? It sounds like a good idea in my head.

>>16466336
Only if you try to shop for an entire wardrobe. Remember to give her some time to look around for herself too. And tack something on to the end like food or drinks so that she doesn't feel like she was just a fashion consultant.

>>16466310
making official rules on when to become official is stupid. do it when you feel its right.

>>16466385
No. Also making a rule on how other people can't make rules is hypocritical. I had just answered with what feels right to me.

>>16466336
are you interested in this girl? i wouldnt do it if i wanted to be more than friends. thats something id have a female friend do with me.

>>16465512
Didn't get an answer, re-asking >>16465261
Basically, girls, how seriously do you use the term "soulmate?"

>>16466389
did i say im trying to make a rule, dipshit? no, im sharing my opinion. i think its stupid to have a set amount of dates before becoming official. that just doesnt work in the real world. not all relationships move along at the same pace and everyone is different, so having that kind of rule is retarded. you shouldnt think too much about it, just go with it and then when you feel like its a good time to go to the next step, give it some good thought and then do it if you think its right.

saying "do this" and "do that" doesnt mean im trying to set a rule, im sharing my opinion and giving advice.

>>16466345
>>16466395

Those are pretty good points.

I'm not interested in the girl I was going to ask but she did say that she had absolutely no money before whilst we were talking about something else so maybe I'll ask someone else.

Thanks guys!

>>16466411
Saying what I think are the right times are also not a rule.

>you shouldn't
This is called telling someone what they should or shouldn't do. That is exactly what a rule is.

>>16466415
oh my god youre dumb...

im not saying youre trying to make rules for other people. your advice is for him to have a rule for himself. and that rule which you are suggesting is retarded.

>This is called telling someone what they should or shouldn't do.

im not going to put "i think you should" and "in my opinion" before everything i say so that you can rest assured that im not trying to establish everything i say as fact.

I want to try and get closer to a new guy friend. I've just known him since july, and we've hung out not too regularly and only twice by ourselves, so there is potential for improvement I hope. I've tried being physically forward/playful but he never lets me get too frisky and acts like we're just joking around, sometimes I feel like he sees me as some dumb kid or something. It's fucking frustrating. What can I do about this?
Will elaborate if needed.

>>16466429
If I'm advising someone to have a rule, and then suggesting a rule, those two added together are "making rules for other people." I think the word you were looking for was "impose." I'm not imposing rules, but you are absolutely accusing me of having made them. I didn't, by the way. The question was what I think is the right time with the person I'm dating. Go look. I answered for myself.

>im not going to put "i think you should" and "in my opinion" before everything i say
Actually that's what I'm suggesting. If you stop saying the word "should" altogether, you'll stop being a hypocrite.

>>16466194
If we're just dating and not in a relationship, yeah. I'd probably ditch him

>>16466291
When both of you want to

>>16466336
A random woman? Yes. A girl he knows? Nope.

>>16466453
See the OP: ask him out

>>16466471
>Actually that's what I'm suggesting.
exactly why youre a fucking retard. its on you for assuming someone is trying to force rules on others instead of realizing that its likely an expressed opinion. if everyone was saying "in my opinion" and "i think you should" before every fucking opinion shared it would be fucking annoying and overly wordy. so no, im not going to do that to quell your insecurity that i might be trying to present my opinions as facts.

>If I'm advising someone to have a rule, and then suggesting a rule, those two added together are "making rules for other people." I think the word you were looking for was "impose." I'm not imposing rules, but you are absolutely accusing me of having made them. I didn't, by the way. The question was what I think is the right time with the person I'm dating. Go look. I answered for myself.

looks like im going to have to really simplify this for you.

okay bud. you SUGGESTED (trying to force rules on others) that he should have a rule for HIMSELF.

now, after that, i explained why that is a bad idea.

in conclusion, fuckwit: im not saying youre imposing a rule on him. im not saying that my opinions are facts. im saying youre advice is bad (sorry, IN MY OPINION).

i cant believe idiots like you exist.

Ladies, do you discuss men you collectively know in-depth to the point where you discuss what you'd do to them if they tried to get in your pants?

At the risk of sounding like a nut, I'm beginning to notice a trend with local girls I've talked to.

>>16466495
>SUGGESTED (you werent* trying to force rules on others)

>>16466495
>if everyone was saying "in my opinion" and "i think you should"
I was suggesting that you not say it. Not. This entire paragraph is based on the opposite of what I just wrote.

>you SUGGESTED (trying to force rules on others) that he should have a rule for HIMSELF.
No, I didn't. The post asked me what I personally think. I answered only that.

You didn't go back and check, did you? Here let me repost it for you just so you don't have to look.

>Either gender
>When would you say is the right time to go official or exclusive with the person you're dating?

>Three dates to stop seeing other people
>Six dates to decide on becoming "official"

>SUGGESTED
I didn't suggest anything.

>>16466496
Strategies of turning down guys? Uh, no. That's weird and usually common sense unless you group up frail and retarded club girls. If I just guessed your type then
>bazinga

what should i do if i'm supposedly "dating" a 23 year old girl and she squirms whenever i mention anything remotely sex related?

we've made out and shit, i feel her up and ask if shes turned on and she pushes me away. but supposedly we're dating as she calls me her boyfriend and shit (which i never really "agreed" to but i dont deny it either)

are there actually girls that reach their mid 20s and are really immature about sex stuff?

>>16466505
Well, that, but moreso like what you'd do if a certain guy approached you. How you'd try to get in his head and whatnot.

>>16466519
There are, and you should talk to her.

>>16466492
>See the OP: ask him out

Tried this multiple times, he brushes me off then says we can hang out together with our other friends later. It's like he's oblivious.

>>16466536
>ask someone out
>brushes you off
>rephrases it has a friendly "hang out"
>tries to include other people
Yeah HE'S the oblivious one. Yup.

>>16466503
>I didn't suggest anything.

so you only answered what you personally think. barely different than a suggestion. youre just splitting hairs with semantics. it doesnt change anything. its still a bad idea.

>I was suggesting that you not say it. Not. This entire paragraph is based on the opposite of what I just wrote.

so taking out "should" would absolve me of being a hypocrite. nah, not really. once again, its on you if youre so thick that you take everything literally and need everything spelled out for you.

youre just being a pedantic faggot.

>>16466519
>are there actually girls that reach their mid 20s and are really immature about sex stuff?
yeah, theyre out there. do you know if shes a virgin? either way, shes prudish as fuck.

>>16466549
>barely different than a suggestion
It's entirely a different thing. A personal answer isn't a suggestion.

>so taking out "should" would absolve me of being a hypocrite.
Yeah, because then you'd be criticizing rules without also making them.

>nah, not really
That's all your post has amounted to, dismissing explanations that don't sound good to you or for you. I think you confused me with your mom.

>>16466570
>I think you confused me with your mom.
yeah, maybe i did, you two are pretty similar.

>>16466519
Are there girls who aren't immature/backwards about sex?

>attaching ridiculous importance to it
>making guys "work for it"
>getting jealous of porn

It's a biological function (and an essential one at that), and they want it as much as we do, yet they insist on making it unnecessarily complicated.

>>16466014
Price of admission

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>>16465512
>>Brandon or Female Brandon
>Piss off.

Okay.

>>16466407
I rarely ever use it in general, but to me it means "life partner". Someone who is to be my exclusive partner for life.

>>16466496
No, I don't talk about that at all.

>>16466603
You do realize that the reason girls are more wary of sex than guys is because of biology, right?

So I'm a pretty attractive male, but literally every time I try to talk or as a girl out that I'm genuinely interested in they don't ever show interest. I'm confident and I would think that I'm pretty interesting. I really just don't know what the problem is. I try to improve on every aspect of my life but I just cannot get out of this slump. I can never find a relationship.

>>16466691
You're finding out the hard way you're not as great as you think you are

>>16466704
I just don't get it. Girls think that I'm attractive but it's literally always just not the kind of girls I'm interested in.

>>16466708
Well then either they think you're a cynical asshole or you aren't flirting with women in your attractiveness range. Remember looks are only 50% of what women think is attractive for dating (FWB would be at least 90% looks). You might have the physical traits, but they don't like how you act as a person and that bumps you down.

>>16466691
How many completely new girls have you talked to (or tried talking to) for a monthly average over the last six months?

>>16466749
Well probably 1 to 2 a month maybe. I'm kind of picky.

>>16466764
That is very low. Talking with someone isn't a commitment to dating them. You might be surprised who you find. I talk to most everyone who isn't absolutely repulsive, in my age range, and is local enough. (And doesn't have any of my short list of deal breakers)

In the height of my date search, I talked to 6-12 people monthly. The majority I talked to once, realized right off (1-3 conversations) I didn't like them, and moved on. Over time it narrowed to 1-3 who I could stand talking to for more than a week. Those I would either file as friends or I'd up the flirting but I/they realized it wouldn't work out.

It was kind of fun hearing different people from different walks of life. I learned a lot about how to hold a conversation.

Now I'm not saying you should make it your one hobby like I ended up doing. But it does take some work. A lot of weeding people out. But you've got to weed them out by talking to them. You can't really know if you'll like them or not otherwise.

>>16466708
So you AREN'T as great as you think you are. Tone down your ego a little, no one likes a cocky asshole

>>16466519
You talk to her and drop her if you can't handle it

>>16466496
Not unless they're a guy we're dating or interested in

To women: Is a weight losing dude who legitimately works hard on it every day a turn on or a turnoff for women?

Have lost over 12 kg since Mid September this year.

>>16465512
>>Would you date a virgin?
>As long as they aren't insecure about it. Complex's are a total turn-off.

>implying the answer isn't "No." but women just want a better sounding reason for it. "Oh it's his insecurity about it, not the fact that he was a virgin"

>>16466014
Give her something to eat?
Also what the fuck, how does it kill the mood?

>>16466194
Holy shit, that's pure desperation, man. She's not interested.

>>16466291
Whatever both decide on? Talking helps.

>>16466519
Maybe she's American or from similar backwards culture, where sex is considered something special/bad/specially bad? Also some people just need more time to grow up.

>>16466724
>they think you're a cynical asshole
That shit would turn him into a magnet. IF he also had confidence, which seems not the case either.

>>16466917
I'm not saying I'm great dude. I'm not trying to be a cocky asshole. I don't get why you think that.

I'm a 22 YO khv who's slowly been coming out of his shell for the past year or 2. I started bartending and talking to my co--workers and staying for a shift beer after work in the past couple of months.

There's a 34 YO who I work with who is friends with my dad who also works at the restaurant I work at. I've been to her house with my dad before and I've known her outside of work, but not enough to interact with her other than my dad.

Over the summer, I started staying a few houors after closer to watch shitty tv shows with her, and once we had coffee while I was getting my car serviced, just me and her, and the other night me and her went to a bar after work and drank with another coworker. We went and got breakfast at 3 AM, just me and her, and I'm really starting to fall for her, but I don't want to fuck anything up. I'm not concerned about the age difference, I'd actually prefer someone older and more experienced, but I don't want to say anything that would make our friendship turn sour or awkward.

Provided that I don't even talk to her about my feelings, what's the best way for me to stop giving a fuck about being any more than friends?

>>16467022
Who says she isn't interested in you?

Whats a reason you would 'ghost' out on someone? Why not just say "sorry i don't like you, never contact me again"

To other guys:
How do you be more calm when touching girls.
I spaghetti every time I think about it.

>>16466068
bumping this question, never got an answer.

>>16467103
Nervousness. I've got extreme OCD though, I can't handle social situations I don't have absolute control over.

>>16467090
I mean, I hope she is interested in me, but I'm not sure how to go about approaching her about it and if she isn't interested I feel like it could make things awkward between us

>>16467103
are you dumb? its just easier, you dont have to take responsibility and let the person down easy.

Any time I argue with my gf and criticize her actions she turns it into 'IM SORRY IM SUCH A HORRIBLE PERSON' and other stuff (she also shuts down and gets pissy). Why does she do this and how should I deal with it?

>>16467138
Dumb? No. Considerate, yes. If a person tells me "fuck off" then i can nove on with my life.. instead of wondering i this person busy? Is it dead? Did he break his hands.

You're obviously not very considerate. Thats ok though, there's plenty of people who are.

>>16467149
It's called emotional manipulation and you dump her ass and gtfo. OH and before hand, tell her her shit doesn't work on you and it would be beneficial if she would stop getting her relationship tips and clues from fucked up TV shows.

>>16467129
It's a cultural question. The Dutch split everything, and the women prefer that. Others are different. some don't care. Depends on her. But the rule of thumb is to offer to pay, even though it's a societal construct I disagree with. offer to pay and just pay it. if she doesn't like that, it's a subject of talking, not a deal breaker. but if you don't pay, it might be a deal breaker for her, which then raises a different point. If she wants to break it off just because you didn't pay one time, then you're better off without her.

In short, offer to pay, and if she doesn't absolutely insist with a conviction that you split the cost, then you pay.

>>16466953
Someone fit > someone in the process of becoming fit > someone not fit

Keep up the good work anon.

>>16467157
Not that anon, but why did you even ask then if you know the answer already?

>>16467157
im not saying thats what i would do you goddamned fucking retard, you asked why people do it and i told you.

>>16467227
Will do.

>>16467222
i dont want to offer to pay though, of course shes going to say "no i got it."

Ladies, how much fashion sense/fresh and new clothing is good enough?

I've never been that much of a fashion enthusiast, and some clothing can also be expensive as fuck as well.

>>16467353
As long as you're not terribly dressed, it's fine. I'd rather a guy just stuck to tshirts and jeans rather than dress on trend when he actually has no idea what he's doing

>Found out I was pregnant about a week ago due to our defenses failing
>worst possible time, don't want to carry it
>boyfriend wants to keep it despite the fact that we don't get paid much
It's nice that my boyfriend wants to step up and be a dad, but I honestly do not want this right now. And every time I try to tell my boyfriend that I don't want to be pregnant, he just tells me that we'll do it together and have the support of his family behind us. I'm half tempted to just stab myself in the gut.
Either gender have experience with this kind of situation and what you did? Because I'm incredibly torn.

>>16467358
your boyfriend is a fucking dumbass. having a baby when youre not financially ready for one is the most retarded thing you can do. for the sake of yourselves and the would-be baby, fucking abort and move on with your lives.

>>16467356
>tshirts and jeans

People still wear blue jeans and white T-shirts that often?

I might have to reconsider my jean options.

>>16467358
How old are you two?

>>16467353
I much prefer a guy in practical, but clean and well-fitting clothes (like a tshirt and jeans) than someone effay.

>>16467358
This kind of thing should be discussed and decided on before sex

>>16467366
Yeah? My boyfriend's staples are slim fitting jeans and a plain tshirt. Not necessarily white, but other colours too

red flag for a girl if she has a lot of dogs? I like them too but it seems excessive.. 3 big and one small. I don't know if it's a bad thing

>>16467370
>>16467376
>T-shirt and jeans, T-shirt and jeans everywhere

Damn, this trend has survived really well over the years.

I mean it was pretty hip in the 1990's as far as I can remember.

>>16467370
>not being effay

I wouldn't want to date a girl without a fashion taste

>>16467388
Like I said, I'd rather a guy dress in jeans and a tshirt than try to follow trends and fail miserably. There's nothing wrong with them for a casual look that requires no thought, it's how I dress most days myself

>>16467377
If she's a great owner and you like dogs too, that's amazing.

If she's a shitty owner, or you just don't like dogs enough to be compatible with that lifestyle, that's a red flag.

>>16467392
It looks gay m8. I suppose that explains why you like it though.

>>16467395
well one is a puppy so he isn't really trained yet and the little one is a Pomeranian who hates everyone except her, but she rescued him from a guy that used to beat him so I guess that's expected. otherwise they're pretty great, but I just hear horror stories from guys who got with girls who were "dog people". and all but the Pom are pit mixes or something so I'm a little worried

>>16467430
I've never heard anything about girls who like dogs being bad. Cat ladies though

>>16467430
Someone who really knows their shit would be able to help an abused dog not totally hate everyone.
I'd say that's hugely excessive and irresponsible. Four dogs? I hope she's a stay at home dogmom because who has time to properly train and walk four dogs.
A close friend of mine is getting certified as a dog trainer, and it was really hard for him having three dogs when he worked full time. He would bring one to work sometimes, sometimes all three.

How old is this girl? What kind of home is she in?

>>16467368
Both 21
>>16467373
We did. I told him if I ever got pregnant at a time like this, I would abort it. He agreed but when this happened, he started having second thoughts and his pro life mother showed him videos. Now he thinks we should keep it and I regret telling him.

>>16467455
You can always get it and say you had a miscarriage.

>>16467454
she's 20 and lives in a rental house with a yard. but the Pom was a lot worse when she first got him from the shelter she works at, and she hasn't had him that long. he's gotten better but he still gets shifty with me if I try touching him too much. and when I say "puppy" for the other one, I think he's about 9 months, or at least that's what she said. she brings him to work a lot

the 3rd dog she got from her parents because he's 14 and blind with bad arthritis and they got tired of dealing with him. he just sleeps most of the time. And the 4th has some heart condition so she can't do much running around and is pretty mellow. got her from the shelter she works at too

>>16467460
I've been considering doing this. I feel shitty for having to lie to him but at the same time, it's a better alternative to being a crappy parent.

>>16467494
If she works at a shelter, she probably knows a bit more about dogs and maybe isn't one of those dog collector types. Though sounds like she might be the big heart accidental collector types from the sound of the last two. I wouldn't expect her to stop at four. I wonder how she's paying for everything.

I'm a bit grumpy with dog owners in general since dogs need a lot of attention and work that the average person can't put in. Add in a literal pack of dogs I'm just hesitant to trust her as the diamond who can deal with dogs, and the extra subset who has the skills to deal with so many at once.

But maybe she is.

>>16467516
she's a vet tech at the shelter, and I'm not worried about her being a bad owner because I know she isn't. she's said numerous times that after her parent's dog passes (which according to her vet friend is going to happen in the next year or less) she never wants this many dogs again and would have surrendered him to the shelter for them if she didn't grow up with him and know how sick he was

my concern is that I've heard that it's a sign of a crazy girl or a bad relationship or something

>>16467536
Well bad owners tend to be crazy girls, which is where that stereotype came from. People who think dogs are fashion accessories, toys, amusements. That's the red flag.
Sounds like your girl is ok.

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Fellow guys

Has your dick ever peeled like pic related before? Mine did 2 years ago during the winter in Alaska. And it seems like ever since then I've lost sensitivity. I don't get pleasure from stimulating my dick. Fapping and sex feels dull. Is this permanent? I didn't know your dick could peel like this

>>16467629
Literally go to a doctor.

>>16467643

Why? What will they do for me?

Hey girls,
Is it a turn off when men were skinny jeans or tight clothing?

>>16467665
Yes. I want to date a man, not a fag

>>16467671
But I want a gay boyfriend.

>>16467674
Then you can have date him

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>>16467676
Yay

>>16467685

Oh shit! That's a badass looking Long-Tailed Weasel! :)

>>16467674
But I'm not gay i just have a slim sorta toned build.

>>16467692
You're a hungry hungry skeleton if you can fit into skinny jeans.

>>16467695

Not the fag. But you can be toned and skinny.

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>>16467692
If you look like a manga styled character then you have the bottom shape, hun.

Would you date a 21 years old guy who doesn't have a car? I'm surrounded by really high class girls so for them that thought is almost offensive and as such they're "out of my league" if you will, but what about you?

>>16467695
>hungry skeleton
Just because i have a 29" waist doesn't mean i don't eat.

>>16467701
Being toned would mean there is at least something there.

>>16467706
But anon I never said so. You'd die if you didn't eat anything.

>>16467117
I slow down, and calm down. It's not really a race. Once you're comfortable with the girl it shouldn't be an issue anymore.

short girls. I like said girl, but i suffer from the bears(im tall) so i think i scare her. she always smiles and laughs when we talk. but she tells me i make her nervous and laughs about it. but when i brushed loose strands of hair away from her face, she didn't even blink. im confused and i dont want to scares her away. I want to ask her out but I know she'll say no cause im almost twice her size and I wouldnt want to be alone with someone twice my size either. plus im kind of an asshole. anyway a beast like me can show a girl like her what i really might be(a jerk with a soft spot for her)?

>>16467728
I weigh 137 and am 5'7"
How am i a skeleton?

My boyfriend is often too tired from his office job to have sex, even on weekends. How do I fix this? Ideally I would like it every single day, even if it's just me giving him an orgasm and getting nothing in return. (That's never been how our sexual encounters have gone so far, though.) Currently we sleep together maybe 3-4 times a week.

>>16467800
Force him. Tell him that you want to have sex with him and that he has to do you if he is your boyfriend.
I think it's stupid to think that 2 ppl are in a relationship if one of them doesn't please the other when he asks for something.

>>16467809

But if he doesn't want to do it, then I don't want him to. I don't want to have sex with the person I love just to get off, I want the closeness/connection that it brings (but also to get off, of course).

Is there any way to increase his libido, short of drugging him or something?

>>16467814
Does he get enough exercise?

If he has an office job where he sits all day and then comes home to sit in front of the tv/computer he's not gonna have the energy or even libido to fuck you on a daily basis.

>>16467820

He used to exercise a fair bit, but now he only rarely does, only a few times a week. Sometimes his job is more physical, but those days he usually has to get up early and come home very late (I wouldn't even ask him on those days, anyone would be too tired after that).

I'll ask if he would be interested in getting more exercise with me. Hopefully that might improve things.

>>16467814
Hard question.

The easy way is to excite him with his fetish but you have to know what it is.
An other idea would be to walk around almost naked.
The hard way consists to know how to make him stress less from his job.

But anyway that's fucked up. I don't know any of my friends who would say no to his gf or would not be in the mood just because his job made him tired. And some of them have very stressfull jobs.

>>16467826
>The easy way is to excite him with his fetish but you have to know what it is.

He doesn't really have any fetishes, he likes to be told what to do I suppose but if I told him to have sex with me that wouldn't make him capable of it.

>An other idea would be to walk around almost naked.

I already do this every night and morning, daytime if I can (like if it's been my day off and I could change into something skimpy before he gets home from work). Doesn't really make a difference to whether we have sex or not that day

>The hard way consists to know how to make him stress less from his job.

His job is mildly stressful, it's mostly just because he hates his boss that he is stressed from it. A lot of the time he just gets to play games on his phone while he's at work, unless he's on site building things.

>>16467829

Has he always been like this? Some guys just have low sex drives. That's how I am.

>>16467829
>likes to be told what to do
Girl you just tie him down and fuck him. If he tries to tell you no just give him a good whipping.

Obviously go through safe words and shit beforehand.

>>16467829
Guve the man a goddamned blowjob when he gets home, like srysly when he walks in the door make that cunt shower and when he gets out lay him on the bed and fucking goto town on his dick then just jump on him. Job done

>>16465512
I think since Female Brandon has been dead for a while now it would be best to remove her mention from the opening posts in future threads

>>16468081
>implying she wouldn't just come back

>>16468094
From the dead? Even that bitch isn't that insistent

How do you recommend approaching a grill who's just an acquaintance? I can't just "ask her out", she never goes to parties or anything of the sort. We're both seniors in HS and going to the same college next year but I'd rather do this now, I've been a pussy this whole semester already.

>>16467222
Nice thing I use is the 'you get the next one'. Sets her up for another date and she pays so it's a win win.

Works flawlessly so far.

>>16468131
>I can't just ask her out
Yes you can.

>>16468131
And what exactly prevents you from just asking her out?

I'm pretty sure you can figure out something other to do with her than going to a party. And if partying is literally the only thing you can come up with where to take a girl on a date I can tell you right now that you have no chance with her if she doesn't like parties.

If a guy's been dating a girl for a few months and she seems less interested or no longer interested at all, is it appropriate if the guy asks to make sure? Or should he just take the hint and move on?

This girl is naturally aloof and distant, but more so than usual. I really don't know what to make of this.

Girls and guys to a far lesser extent, why do you stare at other people? Do you enjoy looking at freaks or something?

I keep myself looking pretty neat except for facial hair so I'm pretty sure I'm not giving off the "creep" vibe but who knows.

>Backstory
I'm a 22 y/o misanthropist doing a double degree at uni (chemical engineering and general science)
Made it clear to people in my class I don't want to participate in their social activities or study groups.
Don't talk to anyone.
Literally have no friends at uni but I don't care I'm not at uni to make friends.
Sit alone studying all the time, when not sitting alone punch cigs and lean against the wall in one of the gardens. (it's quiet)
I always catch people looking at me, mainly girls, I meet their gaze and they DONT look away, this really pisses me off and I usually mouth "bitch" or "cunt" at them which turns into a staring match and I end up fighting the urge to flip them the bird or do it very subtlety.

Why the fuck do you do this? Guys will almost always look away once our gaze has met, girls won't, I'm not attractive so it's not that.

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>>16468323
Because I like watching people.

>>16468364
>>16468368
This is why I'm a misanthropist.

Would you like a punch to the throat?

>>16468376
Why do you even care?

Besides why are you even at uni if you can't interact with people? You're gonna have to do it once you get a job.

>>16468323
You're pissed off and muttering curses when people don't break eye contact with you. If someone says or mouths something when you look at then, the normal response is to try to figure out what they're saying.
Going out of your way to say you never want to be social along with all of that, yeah you come off as aggressive. People probably stare wondering what your problem is and if you're actually dangerous.

>>16468407
Doesn't that seem like a stupid question to you? If I knew I wouldn't be here asking would I? It completely infuriates me, I don't know why.

There's a big difference between not being able to interact with people and not wanting to interact with people, I have a job already lined up so that's not a problem.

So how about you give me a serious answer as to why you stare at others instead of trying to undermine me?

>>16468411
People stare at people they think are dangerous? Yeah makes sense anon.

You lot are absolutely useless.

>>16468413
I already told you I like watching people.

Why are you so adamant to not interacting with people? How do you think you're going to do in that job you've got lined up if you have no idea how to interact with people? Or if you get completely infuriated mouthing curses at them if people look at you.

>>16468435
It absolutely makes sense. You want to know where the potential threats are and what they're doing.

For females: have you ever done something sexual that you regret and would never tell your partner? How would you react of he found out?

>>16468435
They stare to assess danger. But that was only the second part, they stare because they wonder what your issue is too.

>>16468439
Wasn't going to validate your disgusting rhetoric with an answer but here you go;

THERE IS A BIG FUCKING DIFFERENCE BETWEEN NOT WANTING TO INTERACT WITH PEOPLE MOST OF WHICH ARE COMPLETELY FUCKING USELESS DISGUSTING PIECES OF SHIT OF WHICH YOU ARE A PERFECT EXAMPLE AND NOT BEING ABLE TO INTERACT WITH PEOPLE.

I had no fucking trouble telling my classes to stay right the fuck away from me, I'll have no trouble telling people at work what's what and if some piece of shit wants to stare at me I won't mutter I'll walk up and tell him to go fuck himself and I won't lose my job because good fucking luck finding another chemical engineer.

Jesus fucking christ this is why I chose not to interact with people.

>>16465512
Women of /adv/, one of my closest friends is an attractive, sexually active woman. The only issue is I found out a little while ago that she often has unprotected sex.

As a guy, what are my rights here? It's strictly platonic, but can I be mad about her being this reckless? I don't want her to ruin her life but I know I can't tell her what to do

Please help

>>16468323
>I keep myself looking pretty neat except for facial hair
But that's the most important part. Neckbeards and pedostaches look creepy.

>>16468546
How did you even find out that she has unprotected sex in the first place? What the fuck?

>>16468570
She brought it up. Didn't think that was an important detail, sorry.

>>16468575
Well, I was trying to figure out how open you two are with each other because with most friendships you'd be crossing a line bringing it up at all. Still, it's not really your place to mention it and it will probably only cause friction.

>>16468532
>implying the people you'll work with aren't just as useless
>implying you won't just get fired if you act like that right out of school

You clearly have no real life experience but I can tell you that people don't suddenly change when they get out of uni. If you hate them at uni you'll hate them at work. Also if a straight out of school guy comes to any job and starts acting like you described they'll be out fast. It isn't even a case of not being easy to find a replacement. They'll find one and will be willing to pay them much more than they're paying you just to get rid of a toxic cunt.

Some people might be in a position where they're irreplaceable but some punk full of himself coming straight from school with no real experience isn't one of those.

>>16468578
It's bothering me so much though. If she won't stop, how do I get over it?

>>16468435
>People stare at people they think are dangerous? Yeah makes sense anon.
Are you retarded? If you had read up on this you'd be knowing that you're spouting shit. But I guess you don't even give a fuck so long as you feel you have the moral highground and can complain about other people. Ironically you're just as huge a piece of shit, seemingly people are horrible for not breaking eye contact yet you refuse to do the same, you paradoxical twat.

>>16468546
You're entitled to tell her that you feel it's inappropriate and nothing more at all.

>>16468585
>how do I get over it?
The fuck? It's her choice. You don't have a say and can't even begin do decide. If you try to decide you can only fail. What's there to get over in that?

>>16468532
This is a troll right? You're just stating examples of you not knowing how to interact with people.
Anon doesn't mean you're incapable of having an interaction with another person. You're just incapable of interacting with people in a way that doesn't make you sound psychotic. That is why you get stares.
If you didn't interact with people and you were just quiet, you might still get a few stares. Then I'd side with you, and say you don't deserve it. Instead you blow up and tell people not to interact with you, which itself is an abnormal/negative interaction. That raises eyebrows, and surprisingly, gets stares.

>>16468599
I mean how do I move past it and continue to be her friend?

>>16468607
Begin with realizing that you actually have no say and no control over the matter. If it bothers you too much you're free to break contact. If it doesn't bother you too much you can remain friends. It's no different than any other trait she has. Why do you think it's different to anything else?

>>16468607
You realize it's not really none of your business as long as you're not having sex with her and move along.

Girls of /adv/, is it acceptable to tell a close friend that she's getting fat? I am gril myself but do not know if this is allowed.

>>16468610
>Why do you think it's different to anything else?
Obviously protected would be a non issue in my mind. You do you and all that. But she could be spreading diseases to people and could do permanent damage to her own life as well.

>>16468611
I'm really trying to do this. I wish I could go back in time to stop her from telling me

>>16468622
People always undertake self-destructive acts. I drink alcohol. This affects me and people around me. If somebody doesn't like that they should not remain close to me.

It's up to individuals to take care of themselves. No matter how much you care she'll be the one in control of herself, all you can do is voice your concern. There is no "getting over it" because there's nothing to get over. Things are as they are and they cannot be any other way without her deciding she wants to have it some other way.

The best you can do in my opinion is to ask her to check herself for STDs regularly.

Girls,

I live at a college town. I have a serious interest in BDSM and can't imagine being in a vanilla relationship again, but there are no munches and fetlife is essentially dead around here.

How do I go about finding out if a girl interested in bdsm without seeming creepy, and also without investing too much time/effort in her before hand?

>>16468657
Can't I learn to be her friend despite this? I really, really want to but right now that feels impossible. I just don't know what to do. She's my friend despite a lot of shitty things that I do, I just can't seem to return the favour

>>16468726
Jesus Christ stop shitting up the thread with your friend zone bullshit. The real reason you are mad is because you want to fuck her someday you forever alone fuck.

>>16468701
Bring a rope with you on the date and ask her how she feels about it.

>>16468726
>Can't I learn to be her friend despite this?
You either are her friend or you aren't. Are you her friend?

If you are her friend you accept the advice you've been given from me and other people, you tell her humbly how you feel it at that. Then you leave the issue at that. If you can't deal with her decision you stop being friends. There's nothing horrible about that, you don't need to accept that part about her. In fact, if you don't like it you REALLY SHOULDN'T ACCEPT IT.

If you actually value her more than the fact that this one decision makes you feel queasy you should stop being such an obstinate faggot.

>>16468726
She's never going to fuck you at this point because she views you at as kek. You're friend zoned as fuck. She probably makes jokes about you to the guys she's fucking. Just let it be, go find some other girls or work on yourself.

>>16468726
How many times have you cried yourself to sleep after wanking to her? Be fucking honest.

Girls, is cold behavior, less initiating and less eager contact a rejection?

I'm paranoid yet optimistic, so I'm continuously switching between hope spots and the pain/fear of rejection. Should I ask her to make sure? We have been dating for a little under two months, by the way.

to both: What kind of dating apps are good for hook ups, dating, stuff like that?

I like my girlfriend a lot and we really get on. In person we can chat away for hours about anything and we're happy enough but every time we text each other it can feel forced. Do I really need to text her every day? Why am I fine with face to face contact but not text?

>>16468934
Because it's a fucking chore man. I hate texting too. I mean, a couple of texts are okay but it seems like my gf wants to have entire conversations through text while I'm playing vidya or browsing. And God forbid I take more than a couple of minutes to reply because all Hell breaks loose.

>>16468612
Do you think she's not aware? I suppose it's possible she's in denial but I think it's not worth the damage it might cause to your friendship.

>>16468939
It's not even that it's just the way she talks makes it seem like she finds it a chore too and we're doing it for the sake of it. Like we have no chemistry texting at all.

Why ignore someone on a dating website rather than just block/disable messaging from them?

Both genders but mainly women.

>>16468934
If you don't want to, don't do it

>>16468780
If you're dating, talk to her about it

>>16468612
Would you want her to tell you if you were getting fat?

>>16468546
I don't think you really get to voice your opinion on it at all

>>16468323
>misanthropist
There's your answer. Also the word is misanthrope. If you're going to label yourself, do it properly

>>16468131
>I can't just "ask her out"
Yes you can

I'm finally going to ask her out, /adv/.

She's a girl in one of my classes. My funny game has been on point lately and she's made some light physical contact, but that's started to slow down so I think I need to just ask her out and get it over with this week.The longer I wait, the worse my chances will be I figure.

After class, I'm likely going to end up walking with her for a while (a minute or two) to her next class as we've been doing, and when we have a lull in the conversation, I plan on asking her:

>What are you doing this weekend?

and based on her answer

>Do you want to get dinner on Saturday?

I figure if she wants to go out with me, she'll say yes, and if she doesn't, she'll say no, so I might as well just confidently ask her and get my answer. Anything wrong with that logic?

Ladies (and men with success), is there any reason why I shouldn't just ask her out to dinner outright?

I have a place in mind, but I feel like it would be even more awkward to say "Do you want to go get (place) this weekend?" because I want my intentions to be clear.

And I already have her number, but I figure doing it in person is the right way to go.

>>16468975
Your approach seems fine to me, but what are you going to do if she's busy this weekend?

Girls, is there a "proper" way to share an umbrella?
I had a rainy date on a rainy day with this girl a whike back, and she brought this tiny umbrella for us. Since she's a little over half my size, I held the umbrella in one hand and put my arm around her waist to keep her close. She didn't mind at all, but walking like that felt very awkward and forced. After a while the rain started letting up and we just dropped the whole thing, but when I laughed it off she told me
>you're making it sound far worse than it really was
and that's been bugging me since. Sorry for the blog.

Sure we're not usually very touchy because neither of us are very experienced, but is this normal then?

>>16468977
I live under the assumption that if she still wanted to go out with me, she'd say "what about X other time instead?" and if she didn't, she wasn't interested.

Is that the wrong way to think? I assume having at least a day in mind would be better than not having one.

How would others do it?

>>16468996
No, I mean in response to your first question
>What are you doing this weekend?
>I'm doing XYZ
What will you say if she's got plans?

so this morning during the heat of an argument I slapped my girlfriend pretty hard.. she left and I didn't remember until now that her older brother is a police officer. how fucked am I? do I need a lawyer?

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Do you think mens suicide rate would be lower than it is compared to women if you werent so picky?

>>16469004
women wouldn't be able to have such high standards if men didn't attempt to fuck everything that moves. it gives them the opportunity to be picky

>>16469004
Nah, I think men's suicide rate would be lower if they grew some balls, got the fuck over themselves and realised that women aren't obliged to date them.

And even if women weren't as picky, I still doubt they'd date you, that's how low down the chain you are

>>16469012
But men's suicide rates would be much lower if they didn't have the balls. When men try to kill themselves they fucking do it and don't just try and fail like women.

>>16469012
>let the hate flow through you

>>16469023
Are you implying that's something to be proud of or...?

>>16469026
No.

>>16469026
>Honesty and conviction aren't things to be proud of
Women.

>>16468995
Walking under one umbrella is always the worst. What you did sounds adorable. I always manage to hit my boyfriend in the face with it.

>>16469003
Try apologising first.

>>16469000
I was going to just ask anyways in a way that still reflects whatever she throws at me.

I mean, once I say "what are you doing this weekend," I've already conveyed interest and need to take it all the way.

>What are you doing this weekend
Working
>How about after work on Saturday?

>What are you doing this weekend
friends/some event
>When is that?
Saturday/Sunday
>How about Sunday/Saturday?

>What are you doing this weekend
Date
>Oh, cool, haha
>(make small talk and gtfo of there to keep shit platonic)

Am I missing anything?

>What are you doing this weekend
Really busy :(
>Doing what?
(talk to her about it and see if there's any opening)
(if not, try again later)

That the wrong approach?
Am I missing anything?

>>16469055
That's fine, but try not to be too 'scripted', otherwise you'll come across as awkward and mechanical

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>>16469012
Personal attacks in the face of real world data. How very womanlike.

Also to the other response. The data showing mens attractiveness to women is a bell curve so the age old "men will fuk anything" trope doesnt seem to be consistent with reality.

If a girl loves you she will most definitely show it? And if she doesn't express it but says she does does she love me?

>>16469070
>The data showing mens attractiveness to women is a bell curve so the age old "men will fuk anything" trope doesnt seem to be consistent with reality.
Well that doesn't really disprove it. It just means that even if men are willing to fuck anything they'll be able to realistically rate how attractive the girl they fucked was.

>>16469089
Be an ugly chick on tinder. See how that goes for you.

>go out with girl
>drink dance have fun etc
>next day she asks me to come to her room in her dorm, said she didn't wanna fuck but w/e
>go there, try to make conversation
>suddenly she goes "this is awkward"
>I just say "yes"
>asks me to leave
>leave
>An hour later texts me "we should just be friends"

How the hell did I dun goof'd? She asked me to come, she was clearly interested in me (asked me to go out with her), and then suddenly she's just like "no". I don't even know what I did.

>>16469070
Just because a man rates a woman as unattractive doesn't mean he won't still fuck her. God you're autistic, do you even hang around other men?

>>16469096
Not person you're replying to but I am ugly and have a consistent amount of messages and views each day on a dating site. They mostly want to just hook up. Men will fuck anything

>>16469099
Shhh, you're going to destroy his narrow world view in which women are to blame for all his problems and he is absolved of all responsibilities

>>16469096
That depends on what they're trying to find and how they go about it. If they're just trying to find casual sex it doesn't matter how ugly they're as long as they're upfront about it there will be plenty of guys to fuck them.

However if they start playing games and trying to find a relationship then it might be quite a bit harder to find anything.

>>16465512
Is there a logical easier way of knowing if someone has feelings for the other half? I'm in love with this female friend, she's single atm. We've been going out on dates as friends. How do I know if she's feeling something for me too?

>>16467739
But I take too long to feel comfortable. I end up getting friend zoned because I don't show I like her.

>ignore the facts
>call me autistic
>assume i blame women for all of my problems

Im just pointing out that women are becoming more and more entitled and its having a negative effect on society as a whole. Women eventually hit 30 and start to panic because of biology. Men either get depressed and off themselves or just say fuck it and dont even try.

>>16469214
it's not a "fact", it's one survey from an online dating site, get over yourself and go to /r9k/ if you just want to have the response you want just spoon fed to you

unless men start being more picky, women have no reason to be less picky, simple as that. not my problem that guys are offing themselves due to other guys not being able to think without their dick. killing yourself over not getting your dick wet is ridiculous anyway

>>16468726
Confirmed for c u c k.

>>16465785
It means she didn't have anything else interesting to add. You can keep trying if you'd like, but if you do, just change the subject.

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>>16469246
http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2015/09/07/why-college-educated-women-can-t-find-love.html

They only want men who are as educated as they are but there are
More women in the world. Yet they still think they get to be pickier.

http://www.askmen.com/dating/curtsmith_300/338_how-women-perceive-attractiveness.html

They dont want single men either.

I dont want another generation of bitter 40-50 year old single harpies saying that all men are evil. Men arent constrained by biology the way women are. Assuming they arent huge pussies and kill themselves/become basement dwellers they are generally happier being single

http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/dating-tips-advice/why-don’t-men-hate-being-single-as-much-as-women-do/

>>16468581
It's a bit different when your family owns 79% of the plant.

Literally fucking kill yourself you piece of shit.

>>16468592
Again, kill yourself.

Girls. Do you always find yourself getting attached from hooking up with a guy? I have been wanting just to keep a sort of fuckbuddy relationship with certain girls but they always seem to want to make me their boyfriend after a few encounters. Despite what they tell me from the start. Am I just finding girls who get overly attached or is this quite common?

>>16469338
>Again, kill yourself.
>I have no way to refute what he says to instead I hope I can cover up my insecurities by telling him to kill himself
Way to go friend, you sure showed me. Not sure why you said again though, this was the first time I replied to you.

>>16469338
>It's a bit different when your family owns 79% of the plant.
Aah nothing like good old nepotism. Please tell me what company is it so I can avoid it like the plague.

You better start getting prepared to be the most hated person on the plant and everyone telling the new hires they should avoid you at all cost and you're only working there because your family owns the plant.

Also be prepared to get abused at any company parties when the booze has been flowing for a bit.

I'll go kill myself now.

>>16469355
LOL and you think you "sure showed me" with your opinionated bullshit?

Make claims without evidence claim bullshit when people call you out = adv

>If you had read up on this you'd be knowing that you're spouting shit
Read up where? Off fucking wiki? link me the peer reviewed article cunt or shut your fucking faggot mouth up.

I'm now realising /adv/ is a spill over board from /b/

>>16469362
>Also be prepared to get abused at any company parties when the booze has been flowing for a bit.
We have laws here saying youc an be held accountable for your actions at a workplace social gathering, god I love Australia.

Origin, the energy provider, yeah good luck avoiding us a child like you won't be dealing with us for years.

>>16469352
not really, it's only happened to me once. tends to be the other way around in my experience

>>16469377
>We have laws here saying youc an be held accountable for your actions at a workplace social gathering, god I love Australia.
I'm pretty sure they also have laws against workplace abuse. Telling people you don't like to go fuck themselves or to kill themselves falls under that category.

>yeah good luck avoiding us a child like you won't be dealing with us for years.
>implying I'm not already out of school and been working for years.

But I'll go kill myself now

Anyone willing to help.

How do I stop myself from falling for a girl I mustn't fall for, though still meeting her. I think I'm quite close to falling for her, as I'm already thinking way too much about her.
But there's absolutely no way I can/should do that. (Not illegal, like incest or such stuff, but there's about no way we could have a functioning relationship.)
The situation is a bit more complex so I can expand if needed.

>>16469436
Unless the context does a 180 on your question, the answer's simple. Stop putting yourself in situations where you can let yourself fall for her. Stop meeting her. Stop opening yourself up to her. Stop letting her into your life.

If the two of you getting together is such a bad thing, stop getting together. It's harsh and it's painful, but that's all you need to do.

>>16469456
Shit, that's quite a problem. But I guess you're right...
Maybe are there still some options more like distractions? Or a way to get myself convinced that there's nothing between us?
If not I guess I'm heading straight into hard times.

>>16466194
Something must've happened between then and now that caused this shift in personality. I would talk to her about it by addressing it as a concern for the state of the relationship. Ask if she's feeling okay or if anything's bothering her, and encourage her to be honest with you.

>>16466536
Uh...it sounds like he's rejected you multiple times now and you're somehow not getting the hint. Do you wanna date him or just fuck him? If it's the former then I'd say that's out the window and you'd be wise to accept it. If it's the latter, there may be a chance if you're hot enough lol.

>>16469371
>Make claims without evidence claim bullshit when people call you out = adv
>Ironically you're just as huge a piece of shit, seemingly people are horrible for not breaking eye contact yet you refuse to do the same, you paradoxical twat.
Ignore the other sections for sure, I think you'll seem mature for ignoring the parts you cannot refute. Not as if you even give a fuck, you're just out to troll people obviously or you'd be able to think further than your own anus.

>>16469424
Verbal? Not in this country, I've already been working and my father loves to tell people "I'd like to drag you out the back and shoot you"

If he hasn't been let go yet I won't, but please anon keep pushing the point you know so much about our business and legal practices.

Good, do you want pity or something because I don't give people like you a second thought.

>>16469541
Sounds like a wonderful place to work at.

>>16469490
I'm sorry, Anon. I've been there before, and I can assure you that lying to yourself like that only gets you hurt worse in the long run.

Let's say you keep her around and pretend there's nothing between you. Shooting her down while you don't want to hurts to begin with, but suppose she finally gets the hint and gives up. She meets someone else, gets all loveydovey with him, and because you're still a close friend you get a front-row seat to all this.
Unless you're secretly Anthony Burch, I wouldn't recommend it.

And distractions, that'll depend on what you mean. Keep doing things together, but focus on the activity instead of her? Let's not. You'll still bond.
Keep yourself occupied so your mind doesn't drift to her? Better idea. It will help you cope more than quit cold-turkey. Think of it as an addiction you need to get rid of. In rehab they keep you occupied as well.

>>16469565
Australians aren't pussies, you fuck up you get called a stupid cunt, you take it on the chin and you keep working remembering not to make the same mistake again.

We're talking about a single fuck up costing between 100k-1.4m.

>>16469533
Try adding something constructive.

>>16469575
Try constructive thinking.

>>16469574
Thank you kind Anon. You're right.
To be honest I'm already kind of in that front-row seat, but now I can still cope with it. It's just that I'm thinking more about this situation than I would consider normal.
I'll have to sneak slowly out of the situation, otherwise it will be really suspicious.

>>16469575
Yeah but you can let people know they've fucked up without telling them to kill themselves. Most people can figure out they fucked up and not to do it again if you give them constructive criticism. A good work environment goes a long way when trying to improve productivity.

Don't act special. Every single industry has possibilities to burn through millions with mistakes.

>>16469603
>don't act special
Says the narcissist, I'm done with you but I know you'll reply again.

Guy here. I don't really know if these should be opposite gender questions, but I might as well ask because a separate thread only draws in robots with useless robot reactions.

Suppose you're dating someone. First date, second date, eightieth date. Doesn't matter. Is it true that you should always act like/assume that the other person's 100% interested in you? What if you get the idea that they're not?

Second question ties in with the above, I suppose. If a person doesn't reciprocate affection, but doesn't shy away or act uncomfortable by it, does it necessarily mean they're not interested? I'm talking about putting an arm around someone and they don't put theirs around you, or sending someone flirty texts and they respond to the non-flirty part or just smile at you if you do it in person.