I need your help guys.
>girl and I went out for a few months a few years ago
>I was crazy about her. Led to me being really clingy.
>she breaks up with me
>remain friends though and end up going to the same uni
>Fast forward to a few months ago
>she's acting really weird around me. Constantly flirting.
>end up making out at a party
>been texting each other since
>conversations last for hours. Just constant jokes and flirting
>go to party last night
>she's invited but her friends aren't so she stays home
>spend the whole evening snapchatting each other anyway
>eventually ask her what she's doing this weekend
>she just says some schoolwork
>I'm pretty drunk so I respond with "and a hot date with me"
>she just says "you're a terrible person"
What do? I feel like she was just joking around (she knew I was drunk and her response was similar to the tone of a lot of our texts). Should I ask her out properly or has she already rejected me? Fuck I'm so autistic.
>>16465024
Fuck that cunt. You are just a back up in case all the other dicks she has tasted are a bit more salty.
What better at uni than having a back up. Seriously man fuck that bitch be fucking free.
Continue as if her last text didn't happen. Consider it a shit test.
Ask when is she free to <insert do something fun>
See what happens.
>>16465036
This girl has literally never had a boyfriend. Shes obssessed with schoolwork. She hadn't even kissed anyone until we went out those years ago. She hasn't been with anyone since.
>>16465048
Should I ask her if she wants to go out or just tell her I'm taking her out and maybe seem more confident?
>>16465069
no dude, like >>16465048 said, pretend like the last text didn't happen. Spark a new topic. If she's really mad you really shouldn't even be wasting your time. It's just a fucking joke
>>16465236
This anon gets it.
New topic.
If you want to be assertive, phrase it like "I was thinking we should go and see the so-and-so, maybe grab som sushi or whatever. When are you free this weekend?"
It's not a question, you don't ask if she wants to, and it's not a direct order, you're just sharing your thoughts. If she declines, say something like "no worries, I just thought to let you know. Have a good week x"
Outcome-independent.
>>16465262
Got it. Was thinking of going "All jokes aside what are you doing this Saturday. I was thinking we should go so and so and get dinner afterwards."
Sound alright? I'm really shit at this stuff.
>>16465327
>Sound alright? I'm really shit at this stuff.
do it!
>>16465327
Nearly perfect.
Instead of "what are you doing", ask "when are you free" - less pressure on her to inform you about what's essentially none of your business.
Instead of "dinner" just say "get some food" - makes it seem less of a formal thing.
No matter what you do on the date, should you bag one, make sure to build attraction with her. You know the drill, right?
>>16465353
>>16465395
Done. Cheers bros. I know the drill on dates yeah, it's just different with this girl.
report back anons r curious!
>>16465476
She said she likes me but doesn't think we should go out. Oh well. At least I know now. Can get on with other stuff.
