>get a gf
>one time after we have sex she says my penis (6") is "perfect, not too big, not too small"
>well that's nice i guess, don't really need to be reminded that it isn't big but ok
>"my ex was HUGE, i'd hurt afterwards every time"
>didn't actually need to hear that
>"like 8 and a half inches long and REALLY thick, you can't even imagine how sore i'd be all day after he'd fuck me for an hour and a half with that thing, it was like torture"
>...
Now for the past two weeks I don't even feel horny around her any more. She doesn't seem to understand what I could be insecure about but every time I think about fucking her I then start to think about her getting demolished by another guy's monstercock. Should I just break up with her now?
Yes, dump the roastie and find yourself a non whore gf
>>16452380
>someone dates a guy and find sout he has a big penis
>she continues to dat ehim anyways, but is not happy because the big penis ruins sex
>she is a whore despite leaving him and appreciating men with smaller penises
jesus, do virgins really think like this>?
>>16452375
er.... stop? mines six and a half, and its often called big, even by guys with bigger cocks then mine (Faggot here). six inches is just barely over the average, so its like you're a B- student. whats wrong iwth that?
if you are going to let something that is a huge part of your life bum you out, an hero now, cuz ur cock aint going to get any bigger.
considering she appreciates it, calling it perfect (mine is often called perfect as well, because of how well proportioned it is) why are you even bothered? on the contrary, she gave you an honest opinion, a good one at that, you should feel less self conscious than before.
>>16452375
6" is above average, but to the point where sex is still enjoyable. Anything bigger than that can cause a lot of pain and serious internal damage, to the point where some women will swear off sex unless they can find someone with package that actually fits. Insecure guys always seem to want that bigger package without actually thinking about the downsides.
She shared a little too much information, but she was likely sincere.
God, don't be a bitch. What is the problem she had sex with other people? What is the problem about talking about sex?
Mention a past girl you were with that had huge perky tits that stretched out your tshirts. and you're glad she is average.
>>16452390
Mine is 6 and a little too, never heard any complain. This is bullshit.
>>16452401
Big tits come with problems. No one but the most insecure girl wants huge tits
>>16452375
she wasn't trying to fuck with you. from the sound of it, your dick probably IS perfect. looks to me like she is saying you're better than her ex! own it!
>I secretly hope that your gf is my ex
>she used to endlessly cum on my 8.5x6.5 beast
>hehehehehehehhhe
Trolling aside? Dude, she gave you a compliment (as backwards as it sounded).
Don't be insecure man.
Talk to her! Explain that hearing about my dick really upset you and killed your libido.
>lol
Grow up. You are insecure. Nothing to do with her. The problem is your insecurity.
If you dump her over this, you will just bring your insecurity back into another relationship without solving anything.
She is with you, not with monster cock right? Maybe that means a monster cock ain't the be all and end all to a relationship?
>>16452375
how can a girl be that oblivious
>>16452502
Women think that men do/should enjoy assuming a beta provider role and being treated accordingly.
>>16452412
Exactly, every girl wants big tits
>>16452412
Totally true. Just like how not every guy likes big tits, not every girl likes big cocks. I bet there are even grills who like a teeny peeny. Your size is great because you get to fully penetrate and you get to hit all the gud gud spots for her every time.
Has your ego been fully stroked yet, OP?
>>16452560
Correction: most girls.
Breast reduction wouldn't even exist if it was true that EVERY girl wants big tits.
I know of at least one girl with biggish tits who didn't want them so big.
>>16452375
She was an idiot for telling you that, but you should take her word for it when she says she was hurt and prefer to have sex with you without pain and soreness
Btw, six inches are very fine, stop being insecure
>>16452560
Well, no. Big tits are great in theory, but not in practice, and most girls know this. Just like a big dick. Telling her that his ex had big tits is probably just going to make her go 'meh'. OP is insecure, and that's why he's getting so worked up about this
She has little tact but she meant well.
>don't really need to be reminded that it isn't big
She said it's not TOO big. That's a huge difference from not being big. 6" is above average.
Similar for the ex boyfriend. Way too much information, yes, and she should have realized that. But you are so insecure that you focus more on the part where he was huge than the part where she was busy painting just how unpleasant sex with him was. Again, she should've realized this was something that should never be told to her boyfriend, but the main point was that the sex was awful.
The issue is that she's looking from a female perspective, in which the perfect cock is one that fucks her most comfortably - a good balance between feeling big in her pussy and not actually hurting her. You are looking from a male perspective in which bigger is better period, no clauses, you have the monsterdong you're the man end of story. While in the end it should be about whether it works out for the woman, right? Your dick's more needed for pleasuring women than for impressing your ego or your friends. There's a reason 5-5.5" is average and not 8".
Think about what kind of vagina you'd like in a woman - sure, you want it to be firm and tight, but not so tight that it's painful for you to fuck her, that takes the fun out of it.
>inb4 hurrdurr my ex could take my nine inch cock without flinching
Women have differently sized pussies as well as men have differently sized dicks. That some women can comfortably fit a whole lot up there doesn't mean any woman can.
>>16452375
Lol yeah go ahead and dump her.
I dunno tho, I just laughed at your epic post and you are fucking awesome for making me loose my shit and blow my fucking sides after reading it. Do what you want brah, you are fucking cool lol
>>16452736
I'm glad at least someone recognizes my talents.
>>16452396
I agree with this.
>>16452560
Yeah and the shitty back problems and lack of fitting shirts that come with them
why would she bring this up?
shes a cunt. you dont put down someone you love.
>oh, you might be poor and my ex had a ferrari, but it's ok I still like you!
what a bitch.
she's probably one of those people too stupid to realize when they shouldn't be too honest and just shut up
you have nothing to worry about, just that she might be a tad too oblivious...
next time you have sex say this please:
"your vagina is perfect, it isnt too tight, and isnt too loose. my ex was asian and REALLY tight. got me off in like, 1 minute. but it's ok, I like that your vagina is more loose, it allows me to last much longer."
>>16453101
Not the same at all, she said her ex's was too big to enjoy, how can you compare that to a vagina being too enjoyable to work out practically? If he said he couldn't get it in or it was physically uncomfortable for him you'd have an analogy.
>>16453116
she's mocking the guys manhood. literally the worst thing a girl can say to a guy.
she made him insecure, he should return the favor.
>>16453116
Even so we all got the idea
>>16452375
Stop reading in to things- she gave you a compliment. Her ex was not the right size for her. Whether it was too big or too small isn't important. He was sexually not a good fit for her- and you are.
>>16453101
>>16452401
>implying she won't see through the passive aggressive lie
>>16453126
>being this childish
>>16453126
No, OP heard it as mocking. She actually only said positive things about his dick, that it was the perfect size, and that sex with him is more pleasurable than with her ex.
Also if he sincerely feels that way he should just break up. Once you become invested in making your "loved one" miserable because you feel wronged by them, your relationship is over.
>>16453126
That's pretty fucked up and petty anon.
>>16453153
SO WAS WHAT SHE DID
maybe she needs an echo chamber to realize how hurtful what she said is.
do you realize there is no worse insult a girl can do to a male?
>>16453181
>telling a guy he has the perfect sized dick and she's glad he doesn't hurt her is fucked up
>telling a guy he has the perfect sized dick and she's glad he doesn't hurt her is petty
>telling a guy he has the perfect sized dick and she's glad he doesn't hurt her is an insult
And I thought being called creepy was the worst thing a woman could call a man?
>>16453181
If you objectively look at what she said, there is nothing but positive intent. She meant to compliment him and get across that she enjoyed his dick.
OP's insecurities are separate from what she said and intended and not her responsibility. If you call a voluptuous womanly girl "so sexy and curvy" in admiration and she throws a hissyfit because she's always afraid she's fat and she feels you are using an euphemism to call her fat, is that your fault? Does it mean you called her fat?
She did not call him small, she called him perfectly sized, it's not on her that he can't hear it in another way than that he's too small.
>>16453191
why would she bring up her ex
why would she bring up that his dick is bigger
ok, since you are a girl, lets rephrase this for you.
"sex with my ex sucked. her vagina was sooooo tight. but you are a lot more loose, which is good!"
tell me you wouldnt be offended at being called loose.
>>16453181
shut up freak
>>16453181
Or OP could talk to her like a socially adjusted member of society instead of lashing out.
Acting like a faggot in response to faggotry is literally how a breakdown of interpersonal communication happens. I mean, you can act like a faggot if you want, but that never resolves the miscommunication.
>>16453201
no really.
lets flip the entire situation. lets say the guy tells his gf that her vagina is a lot more loose compared to his ex. but he likes sex more, and that it's okay.
see why this is a problem? it's a backhanded compliment.
>>16453198
A more insecure girl might be offended, but not me. If I was offended by that, it would be on me, not on him. Just like OP being offended is not her fault.
Also more loose =/= loose, just like not too big =/= small.
>>16453198
>why would she bring up her ex
Because to her it's obvious that it is a positive comparison for OP. She doesn't hear "my ex was big and you are smaller", she hears "my ex hurts me and you fuck me good" because she does not share OP's masculine hang ups.
Fight fire with fire but don't do it so obviously, be like "my last gf was too overly wet, always had messy sheets and stains, sexually she was too sensistive and horny too much, thought it was cool at first but nah." .
See her reaction too it(YOU'RE ONLY DOING THIS TO SEE A REACTION), if she's totally cool with it, VVERRY good but if she starts whining and complaining, she's selfish and doesn't want to be fair, have her cake and eat it too.
Anyways big isn't always better, you got to fuck her mind before you fuck her. If you know how to turn her on and make her madly in love with you, you've done your job. Just enjoy sex, don't think too much about it. Have a lot of foreplay.
I have 8 inch penis, so i'm not justifying shat lol btw, i think a lot of women who search for the biggest penises don't really enjoy sex. It's not about that, once she cums she has to wait for him to cum, she's dry af and he's pounding her, it painful. It's about how she feels about you that is most important.
>>16453206
If a guy called me loose, sure, I'd be upset. If he said his last girl was so tight that she tore his foreskin once, they always needed half an hour of foreplay at least for him to get in, and it was all around uncomfortable, I would be very happy to be less tight.
>>16453211
if you like someone why would you say something that would make them insecure?
"my ex was a size 4. you might be a little bit more chubby, but it's ok, I like you more."
there is no reason to belittle people for no reason.
>>16453206
I find false attribution annoying in general, but here’s what I find particularly offensive about this post.
I get that I’m not the sort of person who seems likely to register a public comment on the smell of balls, so I understand the joke in associating me with the above text. But there’s something else going on here: The author of this poorly written erotica is trying to shame me by saying that I like to give oral sex to people with penises. But that’s NOT SHAMEFUL–there’s nothing wrong with people who like to give oral sex to people with penises.
So I just want to say to anyone who saw this post and may have felt like their sexuality was being used as a way to humiliate me: I’m not humiliated, and you needn’t be either. The only person who should be embarrassed here is the author, who has a lot to learn about both how to insult someone.
>>16453219
I don't understand why this concept is so fucking hard. If the guy who says what you quoted is a chubby chaser, then that is NOT belittling. It is complimenting her according to his personal preferences. Not everyone likes exactly the same. Not every woman can take an 8" dick, let alone comfortably and deep. Life is not porn.
>>16453219
What is so hard to understand about the fact that she said a POSITIVE thing about his dick? She was using her ex as a comparison which makes OP's dick BETTER. Get over your tiny dick hangups
>>16453253
there is absolutely no need to bring up an ex
there is absolutely no need to mention that he had a bigger dick
why would you do something to make your partner insecure? just why? your vag might smell terrible but am I going to bring that up? no.
>>16453261
>>16453260
im 7" so a little over average, that isn't my "hangup".
the issue here is that girls know guys worry about this stuff a lot and she felt the need to bring up her ex and his dick. for no reason.
why bring up an ex at all? if you want to talk about your ex go suck his dick then.
>>16453261
I already answered this here; >>16453215
She would no doubt not have brought it up if she realized the way it registered with OP, but it did not exactly because she did not share his feelings.
And I do agree that she could've been sensible enough to realize most people don't want to hear such vivid accounts of past sex you had, I just don't think there was bad intent.
>>16453269
same scenario again.
"my ex had a super tight vagina. sex wasnt fun, I could barely get it in. but you are a lot more loose, and sex is more enjoyable now! im so glad you are more loose than my ex."
do you see the problem yet? I just gave you an equivalent scenario where sex was better for reasons.
>>16453276
This is my post >>16453218
So yeah I'd have no problem with that. I also know that I am not loose in the bigger picture and OP being six fucking inches should know that he is not small and in fact bigger than most men are.
I need some sex advice/help regarding girls that are hard to make cum.
girls like feeling really wanted and to have good sex you gotta really be all over them and shit, i know that, but my gf is really difficult to make cum.
This is a problem because if I were to make her cum, it takes just constant fingering for like EVER, I have to focus to get it done and when I do, I lose my erection and I find it hard to keep up that level of passionate intensity when i'm just fingering her into oblivion until she finally cums.
help/advice
I've been with girls that are super easy to make cum and my current gf is a toughie
>>16453281
if you love someone why would you bring up an ex, or compare them to an ex?
the last thing I want to hear as a guy is how many dicks you have sucked. I DONT CARE. ignorance is bliss in this case.
so why bring up a story about a guy that fucked you so hard you couldnt walk, then say "oh, but I dont have that problem with you".
she's an inconsiderate cunt.
>>16453293
Because you are too wrapped up in your own perspective to realize it can be heard in a hurtful way. People do this all the time. It's shitty but it's not out of spite or desire to hurt you (if it's a good relationship).
And yeah I do agree, she could've realized he would not like to hear that even regardless of the whole size issue. But many women are not as physically territorial as men are. They would still hate to hear that an ex was better sexually, but they tend to have less issues with the bare fact/knowledge that their partner has been sexual with others as well. So I can see how she would think that the mention of her ex pales in comparison to telling OP that he is sexually a far superior fit for her.
>that fucked you so hard you couldnt walk
When people say shit like this positively, they mean the fucking was so passionate etc they are sore. There is nothing remotely sexy or arousing about actually being in physical vaginal pain during sex. It kills the mood and makes you dry up quickly. The way you phrase it sounds far more positive than the reality of it.
>>16453291
Try other things... I'm sure that even if this is the only way she can cum now, she'd like to find out about others. For example going down on her (or fingering her with added intensity from dirty talk, keeping her hands behind her back, making her beg for it, whatever) then fucking her while you finger her/tell her to touch herself/use a vibrator on her.
Also of course ask her if she knows what works for her, certain positions, specific stuff like also having her nipples touched in between...
>>16453314
but the way she makes it sound is that his dick is incapable of that, or inferior.
it's smaller, or more gentle. obviously sex shouldnt be painful but it's still an insult to say "oh, I dont have that issue with you".
12.5 inch dick, never had sex. My last girlfriend we almost where to the point of having sex. Then she said lets have an open relationship.
Guess traveling, doing astronomy, goes to concerts, clubbing hanging with each other friends, doing cool and comfy shit wasn't enough. I brought up sex, she told me about previous boyfriends who she slept with within 1st week of dating.
We dated 2 months. She "open relationships" me, I agree like an idiot not truly understanding what that meant. I'm not from the US so this was not a term I understood. Should have asked all well. 1 Week I went away for red cross work. Came back, oh yeah me and my boyfriend etc... "I thought I was your boyfriend?"
Silence, hang-up change number right there and then. I give up, staying a virgin fuck you all cheat and fuck like idiots. I'll keep my huge package to myself. Frankly, its too big and clearly doesn't benefit me. Least I have no bills, a home and can afford to enjoy my life without a bitch. Dick size doesn't matter you fucking idiot.
>Thread
>>16453390
No homo, but post a pic.
>>16453403
>>16453390
yes please do, for scientific purposes
>>16453390
>>16453403
>>16453405
thirding.
post a pic of that bottleneck cockpedo of yours
