My gf told me a coworker of hers asked her if she wanted to go for coffee after work. She said no politely and left it there, not wanting to say that she has a boyfriend because she wasn't sure if he was just being friendly or coming onto her.
To me it seems pretty clear because he's also been texting her in the mornings (though seldom). It's not that I dont trust my girl but is it natural to feel uncomfortable about this? I know the guy doesn't know she's taken either so he's not doing anything wrong. How should I handle this situation without looking jealous or controlling?
>She said no politely
How is there even a goddamn situation here that needs handling? I wouldn't bat an eye at my gf going out for coffee with a co-worker, much less her DECLINING it immediately to protect your fee-fees.
fag
>>16449525
The guy's obv going for her, kek
>not wanting to say that she has a boyfriend because she wasn't sure if he was just being friendly or coming onto her.
This statement bothers me, OP.
To me, I would see this as "she is keeping her options open" and may not see you as long term material.
You might want to consider talking about this in more depth.
>>16449541
She explained that if she said flat out that she did have a boyfriend, and it turned out that he wasnt asking for a date, she would look stupid and it would be awkward since they work together.
She said she'd rather wait until it's obvious then turn him down, which makes sense to me
>>16449550
*turn him down, saying she had a bf.
>>16449511
He is hitting on her unless he is homosexual or related. The fact he works with her makes it difficult. Any crack in your relationship that he sees he will try to expose. Even if your gf is the loyal type all it takes is one moment of weakness.
They are around each other a lot and lots of relationships happen at work.
>>16449557
I know as much Sherlock. He's not homewrecking because he doesn't know she's taken; and i highly doubt he'd keep going if he knew.
>>16449550
This is exactly how women operate normally, so you've got a girl with more self-awareness than most. Lots of guys don't understand this because they're beta shits who don't 'get' what it's like to have people attracted to you.
>>16449532
>>16449541
>>16449557
>beta faggots
who gives a fuck what some loser is doing? My gf is super hot and I watch dudes come up and try and hit on her all the time (some of them even her long term acquaintances), and she tells me stories that would terrify you faggots. I believe she's a quality woman so I have no fear - and if she turns out to be a cheater then so what? I've dropped someone who turned out to be shit and I can go fuck other chicks to my heart's content.
If you're really worried, send her some flowers at work--that will let everybody know she's taken.
>>16449511
>Memerap
Fuck off back to /mu/ faggot.
>>16449628
>My gf is super hot and I watch dudes come up and try and hit on her all the time
>and she tells me stories
Being this naive is actually funny. You realize she's only telling you what she wants and when you are not one can imagine what happens.
>I believe she's a quality woman so I have no fear
That's almost what they said about the titanic
You sir are the king of beta faggots.
