I'm a girl, mildly unattractive, shut-in, virgin, blah-blah-blah...
I finally mustered up the courage to try dating someone online a few months ago. Of course I didn't get matched to people who look like Brad but I ended up meeting a very nice guy. He's so sweet, and he has so much energy, and he's really really tall (I'm 152cm, he's 184) and he just has a great personality about him.
Yesterday he finally convinced me to go to the pool with him now that it's warming up, and I reluctantly accepted and I to never get in the water and always wear my sweater. But then when he came to pick me up in his swimsuit... He's huge. Freaky huge, down there. I've never had sex, I'm petite, and I honestly haven't seen a dick in real life before. I don't want to break up with him, but at the same time he has... Well... Too much.
Should I just stop talking to him?
>>16448436
Where do you live? I'll take him if you don't want him.
Is it b8?
If it isn't just make sure he uses lube and gives you an oral job before penetrating you for the first time.
Don't stop talking with that poor guy just because he has "too much".
Not sure if some kind of reverse bait...
>>16448448
AUS
>>16448452
Is that really all it takes?
>>16448461
Y.E.S. 100% 1+1=2 it is true and verified.
>>16448461
>has a boyfriend with a huge cock
>doesn't want it
This is bait, right?
>>16448475
Size queens are rare. Your average woman may like to look at big cocks, but she won't want to take one. It's not a pleasant experience for most. I'm petite, like OP, and my ex was 6". He went too deep and it felt like my insides were being eviscerated. I doubled over in pain and cried until I passed out.
>>16448473
>>16448475
No, no, you gotta understand, it's not like I'm used to these kind of things! He's probably like 18cm when he's soft considering it practically wrapped around his waist so I mean how exactly am I supposed to not be panicked by that when I haven't even done it before?
I just didn't know. I mean I thought that I would like have had to work my way up to something that size or something :/
If hours dick is so big, why is he single?
>>16448436
If you haven't had sex, you have no way of knowing if he's "too much". Make sure you take it very slow and gently for a while and let him know if he goes too hard, deep, fast whatever.
>>16448489
nice, I'm bigger than 7 inches, i can't wait to disembowel some gals.
>>16448495
>penis size determines relationship status
As a virgin with a big dick this kind of thread hurts my feelings. Everyone supports small penis men and is quick to hate on big dicks. I think this shows that big dicks truly are a good thing because no one feels bad criticizing big dicks like we're lucky so it doesn't matter
>>16448500
It's probably the worst feeling I've ever experienced, and I've been through some shit. It didn't help that he did it on purpose and was irritated when I didn't react the way he wanted me to. I'm never going above 5" again.
>>16448491
Some penises don't really grow much when erect, they just get harder. This is usually more true when they're that size when soft.
Or maybe he has a monster dick, but whatever. You're both adults. Nothing is going to be gained by flapping your arms around and not making eye contact. Talk about it. Work on it. Or don't and see where that gets you.
>>16448513
>I think this shows that big dicks truly are a good thing because no one feels bad criticizing big dicks like we're lucky so it doesn't matter
This is 4chan. We'll criticize anyone over anything. You're not special.
>>16448522
Well, that's one way to solve your problem I guess.
Alternately, you could get with someone who actually likes you and wants you to enjoy sex regardless of their penis size, who will work with you on finding a way to make it mutually pleasurable.
But then you'd have to actually be mature about a relationship and communicate with your partner, so fuck that I guess
>>16448522
Are they really that damaging?
>>16448535
>Alternately, you could get with someone who actually likes you and wants you to enjoy sex regardless of their penis size, who will work with you on finding a way to make it mutually pleasurable.
I did, and we've been together for over a decade.
>But then you'd have to actually be mature about a relationship and communicate with your partner, so fuck that I guess.
Assumptions are fun.
>>16448557
Like you assuming that any man with a dick over 5 inches is going to speedbag your cervix?
>>16448550
And that's how you affray virgin girls xd.
Stop worrying, if the guy isn't stupid and doesn't go in like a beast while it's dry there won't be any problem.
>he's really really tall
>he's 184
184 centimeters? That's not fucking tall. He's a manlet. His dick probably only looks big because his body is so fucking tiny.
>>16448550
Only if they're attached to people that don't give a shit about you in bed. Unfortunately, for a lot of guys with big dicks, they'll rarely get to experience going balls deep.
>>16448567
He's literally a foot taller than her, /fit/. Don't you have a leg day to skip?
I've got a more modest-sized dick you might enjoy, OP.
>>16448567
nice b8 m8
> tfw I'm 1m84 tall
> tfw I'm triggered by that post
>>16448557
>I did, and we've been together for over a decade.
>>16448522
>I'm never going above 5" again.
>>16448562
>Like you assuming that any man with a dick over 5 inches is going to speedbag your cervix?
I'm not assuming anything, I'm being cautious. Don't get butthurt because some women don't want to sleep with you.
>>16448436
flacid size sais nothing, there's growers and showers. The growers can multiply in size but the showers star roughly the same.
>>16448576
Yeah, he's about average, but he's the perfect fit for me.
Maybe he stuffed his trunks to impress you?
>>16448577
You're not being cautious, you're being paranoid and reactionary. I don't want to sleep with you, anonymous maybe-girl on 4chan. I'm just letting you know you should work on your reasoning.
>one time i fell down while i was walking
>i'm never walking again
>>16448585
To be fair, stuffing a speedo is something that's extremely noticeable. Still a possibility, but what would he gain from doing that to her, and then going to a public pool?
>>16448592
It's not even comparable to that in the least. More like:
>one time I jumped off a building and broke my arm
>I'm never jumping off buildings again
I have a pretty high tolerance to pain, but I don't think you can even imagine what going through that feels like. It didn't just last for a day either before going away, like the stinging feeling of a hard slap. It took over a month for me to recover.
>>16448594
Yeah, what would he gain from showing a girl his giant dick? Doubt that could have any perceived benefit.
Even if he didn't stuff, I bet he made sure he picked the tightest swimsuit he could, ensuring his bulge was as prominent as could be for the girl he wants to bed.
>>16448592
>he tears her internal organs
>"walk it off, champ!"
Are all men this retarded? I'd like to tear your pelvic floor and see how you react.
>>16448604
Sex is a lot closer to walking than jumping off a damn building. It's just something normal people do every day, it's not a stunt or some monumental act.
>>16448609
I think you've seen too much hentai. That, or you have penis envy.
>>16448610
This guy is retarded and wants to win that debate. Of course if a monster dick destroyed your intestines it's easy to understand why you want smaller dicks to feel more comfortable.
>>16448610
I've had testicular torsion, I'm pretty familiar with awful pain in the genital region. If I were this girl I guess "CUT THEM OFF, I NEVER WANT BALLS AGAIN" would be my response, but I'm a rational human being.
>>16448614
I don't doubt the guy is big. I'm just saying that if I was packing and meeting with a girl I wanted to bed, I'd be wearing clothes that accentuated that asset. Would get that bitch's pussy moist without having to do anything.
>>16448620
You're aware that the majority of girls in this thread (including me) aren't fans of anything above 7 inches erect, and yet this man is 7 inches flaccid, yes?
>>16448613
>Sex is a lot closer to walking than jumping off a damn building.
Sure, if you're having sex with a normal sized person. But if you're not, and someone fucks up, the pain is comparable to jumping off a building.
Now I really don't know if I should break up with him or not
>>16448622
You're aware that penis size has nothing to do with sexual skill or technique, yes? I imagine a lot of men with larger penises and decent sexual experience have some idea how to use them properly.
>>16448619
>I've had testicular torsion, I'm pretty familiar with awful pain in the genital region.
Jesus Christ, it's not just pain in the genital region. My cervix was torn. That radiates throughout your abdomen and you feel like you're being stabbed repeatedly.
>If I were this girl I guess "CUT THEM OFF, I NEVER WANT BALLS AGAIN" would be my response
But I'm not abstaining from dick entirely. You're being ridiculous.
>>16448635
Do it. Stay pure forever.
>>16448635
>Now I really don't know if I should break up with him or not
He'll have to be very careful, but don't break it off without giving him a chance. If he's a considerate person, there's a good chance he'll be that way in bed too.
>>16448638
Testicular torsion is characterized by excruciating one-sided testicular pain, with sudden swelling. Since the cord structures twist (like the strings of a puppet), the testicle elevates as well. Patients may have nausea and vomiting. Patients may also have abdominal pain. There may be a history of previous testicular pain. Fever may also accompany the testicular pain.
I'm sure the pain levels are pretty comparable.
>>16448647
You realize he's only being considerate to get her into bed, right? He won't give a fuck about her once she lets him inside her. He'll just be looking to get off and bag the cute virgin girl.
>>16448655
Based on fucking what, you sociopath?
>>16448436
You remind me of the second girl I had actual sex with, OP. A girl I had been interested in for years and due to a combination of circumstance and hormones finally got together with. I found out that I was considerably larger than she expected, and she herself was a surprisingly fragile woman with a rather short yoni.
Sex was pleasurable for us both, but awkward and frustrating in equal amounts every time, especially with someone as paradoxically aggressive as she could be some times. We lacked a place to do it at without discovery, and that played a role too. If you are going to be with this guy, consider the following options....
1- You need a place to do it uninterrupted because you are going to need time to get into the right headspace. I wish I knew this back then/at your age, but yeah...the world has changed- backseats of cars, parents basements and such are only for the most desperate because you really need to...
2- Set the scene properly. I'm not talking about roses and chocolates and all that, but a place to have sex comfortably if not in luxury that has pillows and soft cushions- things that will help you to angle your body/lay on top of so he can get into you in such a way that offers the most pleasure for you both when the time comes for p into v(or a, but I wouldn't suggest that your first time out). Of course you shouldn't start there, because you are going to need a lot of...
3- Preparation beforehand. You have an outlier with respect to size, and even if he isn't as big as you think he is, it's your first time. As nervous as you are you're probably going to need something more than a condom- like lube, a good meal/movie/entertainment beforehand(you'd be surprised how much that helps), possibly some vino, maybe even a little weed. Note that these are listed in order of likelyhood of need and possible legality for you and your area.
>>16448655
This is Eliot Rodger levels of stupidity. OP, ignore him. If he's been with you for months and hasn't made any sexual advances, it's pretty obvious that he's not after you just to get into your pants. Just follow the advice of the positive people in this thread, and really, talk to him about it. It's not like guys with big dicks don't know they have big dicks, so he might be able to answer any questions or concerns you have about having sex.
>>16448655
>You realize he's only being considerate to get her into bed, right?
He'd have an easier time going after someone experienced, and having sex with a virgin isn't exactly fun. Especially if you're well-endowed. It's a lot of effort with very little gain.
>>16448654
>I'm sure the pain levels are pretty comparable.
I don't agree, but as we'll never know what the other person experienced, it's probably best to drop it.
I want big dick normies to leave
>>16448622
Flaccid size isn't set in stone it constantly changing. 7 would be a semi boner no guy would flaunt that for fear of others assuming he's erect. I'm 9 erect and 2-6 flaccid.
>>16448620
Wrong, you have no idea what living with a big dick is like. Hung guys do all they can to conceal their bulge. It looks like a semi to others which Is an embarrassment and I want to keep it a surprise for the bedroom. I don't want women to pretend to like me just because they know I'm big. Too bad they gossip so there's that paranoia they already know.
>>16448668
Not samefag.
Testicle pain is one of the most urgent injury treated in french hospitals, close of injuries putting life in danger.
I guess cervix pain must be also really hard to endure, but hospitals may have a better point of view.
>>16448685
My life wasn't in danger, so it wasn't something urgent--I'm not debating urgency. But I was bedridden for about 3 weeks because I couldn't move due to the pain.
>>16448681
So much this. I hate how TV and porn has portrayed that everyday scenarios for a guy with a huge dick is nothing but admiration from women and envy from men. When I was running late to work I just hopped out of bed and grabbed some work gear so I could clock in on time and change in the bathroom, only to get sexual harassment charges because I didn't bring proper underwear and I was visible in my khakis.
Real life doesn't equal fantasy. I know we won't be able to change your point of view because this is your fetish, but I guarantee it's not as great as it seems.
>>16448698
Women don't even spend three weeks in bed after literally having a child.
>>16448781
But they don't always tear their cervix either.
>>16448659
Good advice, sir.
