Dating a furry
Images are sometimes not shown due to bandwidth/network limitations. Refreshing the page usually helps.
You are currently reading a thread in /adv/ - Advice
You are currently reading a thread in /adv/ - Advice
So, I'm dating a furry. Or, technically, a scalie, I guess. I've spent the last few hours reading up on this stuff. I met a great girl a few months ago. Absolutely wonderful girl. I could probably fill up several posts with all the 'why she is so great and I love her' nonsense, but I won't.
Back when we started dating, we were hanging out with a couple mutual friends. Moreso my best friend, who is dating her best friend, and then a couple of her best friend's other female friends. Her best friend at some point in the night had made a joke about furries/yiff in hell/etc etc. I thought nothing of it at the time, but I didn't really laugh at it because honestly it was more cringeworthy to me to be throwing around memeshit like this chick had been doing all night than to secretly be a furry. Which this girl, I have now learned, is.
She asked me out that night, we ended up dating. Not a day goes by anymore that we aren't seeing each other for multiple hours. I learned that she makes a decent chunk of change by making tails/ears/backpacks and stuff of animal shit. Foxes/wolves/cats etc. She has an etsy and does this for a living. I thought nothing of it, because it wasn't like she was a furry. She was just cashing in on them. Besides I'm no stranger to /d/ and I've seen my fair share of shit.
So, I come over the other night, and she had been up for over a day and a half doing a rush job on someone's sweater-hoodie thing that's all my little pony shit. She's getting like $350 for this thing, so I tell her it's fine, I can go home and we can see each other tomorrow. She insists on continuing with our plans for the night, so I tell her to take a nap, I'll just busy myself.
She goes to nap, I dick around on my phone before it dies because I'm an idiot and don't charge my phone like I should. I decide to hop on her computer, thinking nothing of it. She's been to my place and been on mine plenty. But I'm very careful with my perv shit. Separate hard drive. Not her.
>>16448042
I hop on her computer as she naps nearby and the first thing I notice is pictures all over her desktop. Just...porn. Everywhere. Haphazardly saved wherever it happens to land on her computer. In the downloads, in my pictures, the fucking desktop.
I spent a good half hour looking through stuff. I felt horrible afterwards but I was just enthralled by it all. I couldn't NOT look once I had already inadvertently landed in it.
>5% real photos
>5% videos of domshit
>25% Scalie shit, primarily dragons but some other lizardly characters in there
>50% Giantess/Shrinking/Growth stuff, mingled among this is also a lot of dragon stuff
>The rest is what seems to be her own art that she draws, and some of the most recent stuff is clearly meant to be me, and what I assume is her dragon...sona(?) using me like a toy.
I'm at a loss for words here. I feel stupid for even having an issue with this. A person's perversions are irrelevant if you're not hurting someone, really, but I'm having a hard time wrapping my head around this stuff. The curiosity is burning me up and I want to ask her a lot of probably awkward and uncomfortable questions.
At the same time I'm worried that the disgust I'm not quite feeling will eventually surface after interest has faded and it'll kill the relationship.
I guess I'm just hoping for people's thoughts on this. Fuck. I'm gonna go have a smoke. Be back shortly.
>>16448042
>>16448049
Judging from what all the porn is I'd say she's got more of a fetish for power/domination than anything else.
Just try to keep an open mind, after all I imagine you think you've got porn you think she might find disgusting.
>>16448049
Lucky fuck this girl sounds crazy in bed.
Ask her if she likes dragon cock and buy her one of those crazy dragon dildos. See if she'll fuck a dog for you.
She's a keeper.
ffs POST THAT SHIT, OP
Sleep on it dude, see how you feel after you've processed this potential dealbreaker, no need to bring up the conversation until you know your feelings.
>some of the most recent stuff is clearly meant to be me, and what I assume is her dragon...sona(?) using me like a toy.
possible red-flag, or just a personal fantasy? You decide, you know her better than us.
https://bad-dragon.com/products/roland
Here we go. Show her your understanding by getting her the XXL and she'll worship you forever.
>>16448089
I didn't save any of her porn. I didn't have anything with me at the time other than my phone. I could've probably sent myself some of her drawings or porn somehow but I didn't think to at the time.
>>16448087
She's most definitely a keeper. My only hangup is the weird fetishes. A good chunk of it was vore. I don't particularly enjoy the idea of being eaten alive or anything. Let alone by my girlfriend as a dragon.
>>16448080
Well, in comparison the stuff I'm into seems kind of tame now. And some of it is kind of in alignment with her own interests, with the aggressive/dominant partner stuff or whatever. I just really need to come to terms with this.
>>16448090
Pretty sure it's just some fantasy she's got going, or just because we started dating that her fantasies now involve me specifically. There were other drawings of this dragonself of hers with non-descript furries/people.
I guess it's worth noting that some of the images were of her like breathing fire on towns of furries and them burning alive, and none of the drawings of me I seem to be in the process of getting murdered. The few of me I saw, I seemed to be enjoying shit, so that's like a good sign right?
>>16448049
My thoughts?
She's a keeper. May need to have an honest talk sometime, about fetishes, but if she can distinguish between fetish and reality, you've got nothing to worry about.
>>16448101
I'd say so.
... Keep in mind op that your gf is NOT a dragon and likely CANNOT eat you even if she tried.
>>16448106
Well I mean yeah, I mean, it'd be more disturbing if all her drawings were of me getting like tortured or whatever.
If she was into BDSM/Gore/Etc and was fantasizing about brutalizing the shit out of me I'd find that more worrying/unsettling than her fantasizing about being a massive dragon and shoving me up her ass.
>>16448099
If she is "normal" and this is all fantasy stuff then it's fine. I've got my share of fantasies that can only be touched upon in reality,but I don't let that ruin my sex life.
Always remember that drawn fetish porn is totally fantasy. She doesn't want to eat anyone in real life, her fantasy-dragon-self wants to eat helpless furries and amass riches and magic items in her hoard.
I am turned on by scat fetish furry porn (eating and stuff), but can barely force myself to put it in my mouth in real life.
What I am saying is that her fantasies are just that, and her real-life sexuality might be much different. She won't try to eat you, but maybe she wants to peg you and tie you up for some kinky bondage.
>>16448042
Big whoop. She has a furry fetish. You don't have to participate in it. Have vanilla sex, maybe do a furry thing on valentine's day.
People's porn is irrelevant to what people feel in real life, half the time. I like watching two dudes fuck, but I would be super upset/disgusted/hurt if my boyfriend fucked some guy.
>>16448130
This really helps. I guess in the absurdity of it all I lost sight of the whole "fantasies are fantasies" thing.
She's not dressing herself up in scalie dragon costumes and going to conventions and insisting on being called whatever her dragon character thing is called, so she clearly hasn't lost her shit mentally.
At least I don't think she's doing all that. We spend almost every day together I think it'd have popped up by now if she needed to take a weekend away to go to Yiffcon or some shit. And she obviously has the talent to make herself a big ol' cartoon dragon fucksuit if she wanted.
I'm making a mountain out of a molehill.
>>16448049
>>16448042
I don't know anon, I've done some creative work before, collecting large galleries of shit for references and inspiration I don't think is out of place, that's what I would do. So that can explain away a lot of her shit.
But obviously the custom porn of her fursona and you incorporated into her fantasy is her. Her not hiding it could just be due to her normal expectation of privacy and lack of knowledge related to computers.
Honestly she's an artist/creative person who has her fetishes and kinks and she's also successfully monetized a business. All those things are pretty attractive qualities to me, but to be fair I'm a pretty fucked up person.
Also I say this a lot when stuff like this comes up, there are people that have fetishes that they engage in only in fantasy and would never actually want to engage in them in real life, women seem to have these types of fetishes more often than guys, but people in general certainly do have them.
Also I'd think it's cool she finds you attractive enough to even include you into her private fantasy shit.
>>16448130
>barely
>>16448154
Also I forgot to mention, people hate on furries normally because they act fucking gay and are generally actually autistic(and cringy)
You didn't even know she was an actual furry until you stumbled upon all this shit. It's the same reason every one hates faggots, it's not because of what they do, it's because how they are.
if this is just another thing you can use to help her get off and she's a cool enough person for you to date than why not jump into it a little?
>>16448154
I hadn't thought of it that way but I should be pretty flattered I guess.
As far as fantasies go this isn't too nuts really. I've played dungeons and dragons with people who had sicker fantasies.
>>16448155
> D-d-don't judge me, a-anon-kun
>>16448157
To be perfectly honest, if she was wanting to roleplay some of this stuff out or get kinky I'd probably be on board. Now that I've had time to mull it over and talk it out with some anons I'm pretty fine with this discovery.
More than anything my interest is piqued. Don't really even feel disgusted. It might've been worse if her art was shit but she doesn't draw childish cartoony stuff, her art was actually pretty good. Kinda hot. You know, for a building sized dragon mixing it up with normal sized people and all.
>>16448099
Tell her to swallow. Then she can eat all of you she wants.
where/how did you guys meet?
>>16448049
Who cares.
I've got metric tons of porn and not all of it is meant to be lived out irl. Ask her what she wants to try of the things you think you can handle and move on from there.
DO NOT break up with her.
![CRCR_6MFpJIveMujZ3FV1wroo-RBfhFQA52vzXnw7uuMSY_glUuLMzXDTD5m-Ck0W_wxgD1WxqAeQfp8KxToVw6D30G7KbJMZBqpjvLxcuX8s39Xlzc3hf5Jz74yzXz9Md58TKA[1].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/eQyNRPm.jpg "CRCR_6MFpJIveMujZ3FV1wroo-RBfhFQA52vzXnw7uuMSY_glUuLMzXDTD5m-Ck0W_wxgD1WxqAeQfp8KxToVw6D30G7KbJMZBqpjvLxcuX8s39Xlzc3hf5Jz74yzXz9Md58TKA[1].jpg")
Telling you, man.
>> get her naked
>> turn lights off
>> make like you're gonna put your dick in her
>> bait and switch with XXL dragon dildo
>> start making growling and roaring noises
>> put your dick in her ass
>> best orgasm of her life
She'll never leave you
>>16448042
I'd be perpetually single if I broke up with guys after finding out the kind of porn they like, or the shit they look into. Hell, I was a trooper and put up with a rabid Star Wars fan for a couple of years. Your chick sounds tame as fuck. Not to mention a savvy business woman.
>>16448222
lol, women are stupid.
>>16448240
Back to the basement, Chewie.
>>16448242
What did you roleplay as? jabba the hut, or was it pizza the hut?
>>16448242
>>16448222
oh look, i found a picture of your role playing, ya ugly ass BITCHHHH
>>16448042
>>16448042
>knowing beforehand all the fetish of the girl you're dating
>not seizing the perfect opportunity
You're a giant dragon faggot OP
>>16448251
hahaha wow what are you 12
>>16448251
>>16448249
>triggered
Oh wow it's too easy. Nerds pls
>>16448254
this
suggest that she and another dragon roleplay a fight over who gets to shove you in their pussy
>>16448217
This
>>16448196
I was hanging out with my best friend, her with her best friend. The two are dating. My bf and her bf had plans. I went along just for the hell of it cuz I hadn't met his girlfriend. She went along to meet her bf's boyfriend.
>>16448279
u wat m8
Dress up as this nigga and pound her into oblivion
>>16448187
Alphys!
>>16448499
>>16448217
I'm not sure if she wants to fuck a dragon. She has dragon porn but most of the drawings are of her being a dragon and fucking around with normal, much smaller folks.
>>16448511
well that's boring
I still say try it
>>16448042
so, what advise do you need? it's not really a gross fetish or anything, quite cute actually...
just if she's too obsessed with it, things may get difficuilt and then you have to determine too what level it is negotiable and if it's worth dealing with.
>>16448706
Mostly I just needed to hear people's thoughts and opinions on it. Needed another perspective of the situation I suppose.
I guess now all I really need is to figure out how to approach her about it or just wait.
>>16448042
>>16448049
Think of any weird fetish you may have, would you like her to dump you because of that? No, of course not. Also quit with sneaking on her computer and checking out her private stuff that's just low, she deserves better.
>>16448797
>>dragon dildo under the christmas tree
>>best boyfriend ever
>>16448797
well, I personally don't think I'd be put off by something like that although it's not my thing.
It probably take it as a sign that she'd be more understanding of my own kink, bdsm. anything you've always wanted to try with a girl but didn't dare to go into?
I would definetly talk to her about it, without mentioning what you saw on her computer, but it's definetly something that she deeply cares about.
see how weird the stuff gets and what you can deal with, if she likes to wear bunny ears and a furry tail buttplug every now and then while you fuck her what's the problem? if she can't enjoy sex unless you both wear dragon costumes and get enemas with chili sauce, then i understand you may not want to deal with that.
>>16448042
Post her FA
