Haven't been horny in years. Will nofap help? I still fap even though I never get horny. I'm worried nofap might make the problem worse (use it or lose it).
>>16439413
why do you fap if you arent horny?
>somebody trademarked nofap
>>16439415
still feels good
guess out of boredom too
I really don't know the answer to that question, maybe it's nature
Same situation as you OP. On week 4 of nofap no, still no returning horniness.
>>16439437
You're fuckin' retarded.
>>16439456
now*
>>16439456
how long have you not been horny? Any ideas how to get it back?
>>16439457
Elaborate
I get it makes no sense, but humans are programmed to reproduce, so even without feeling horny, your body still wants to fuck I guess. Could also be desensitization or conditioning body to react to stimuli I don't even know about.
>>16439413
if you are fapping you do get horny anon.
>>16439474
Define horny for me
Day 4-ish, haven't been keeping close track.
Decided to start because suddenly I was hit with an overwhelming urge to start frogposting (didn't do it,) and couldn't get a thing done that day besides treadmill and lifting. Stopped fapping to see if it would help, so far the condition has not changed. =/
>>16439473
Years and years. I'm at a point now where I wonder if I've ever been horny.
I have no idea how to get it back, I'm talking to my therapist about it but they don't seem to take it very seriously which is frustrating.
>>16439498
>psychology majors
There's your problem.
>>16439498
Of course you were. I was too, if you weren't you must be asexual. I know it feels like that now.
Have you tried nofap and if so, for how long? I haven't really giving up fapping so this might actually be the cure.
Here's what I think anon, we might have replaced our fantasies with visible images and videos from the internet. We need to get our fantasies back, this IS what makes us horny.
I've lost this ability to fantasize because as a young kid I always watched sexual music videos, magazines, softporn and eventually internet.
>>16439522
I can't recall ever having random erections though. I don't think I'm asexual.
I tried nofap a year ago, I lasted 100 days, hornieness didn't come back then either, nor did any random erections.
I'm giving it another chance now because last time I didn't really start turning my life around, I just quit porn and jerking off.
>>16439529
Why do you still fap and watch porn? Did you use fantasy when you did get horny years ago?
>>16439563
Orgasms feel good, I like watching porn. I started watching porn when I was 9 and jerking off when I was 11. Before internet porn became available I fantasied about all sorts of weird things. Been going at it for 20 years after that, with porn I didn't have to use my imagination and could just find weird stuff.
>>16439574
Exactly, what do you think the cause of your libido disappearing is?
>>16439579
Well it's either chemical, physiological or psychological. I'm open to all three. Why do you ask?
>>16439590
You've got the same problem as me and I'm open to anything as well
Did all kind of tests to find something physically wrong with me so guess I can rule that out, but
no facial hair even though I'm almost 30
>>16439605
I have facial hair, but very little body hair. I took a t-test but my physician was not very informed about what to test for or when in the day you are supposed to test.
I have an appointment booked on monday, so we'll see what happens. I'm determined to fix this because I feel like I never really had a chance to start exploring my sexuality and I now fear it might be too late.
>>16439413
I stopped for a couple months and I lost all sex drive whatsoever. Then, I watched porn again out of curiosity and had the largest chemical reaction in recent years. I felt like a teenager again.
Now I'm addicted to porn again and it's reached that point of diminishing returns.
>>16439635
same here. I'm clueless about what to do other than try nofap. You got any other ideas?
Already tried;
physical exam
alternative medicine (herbs and whatnot)
psychologist (this wasn't a big help at all)
>>16439649
interesting, were you horny before you stopped watching porn though?
Seems you at least know how to get it back.
>>16439652
I'm going to start working out again, never could commit to it before, take cold showers, change my diet.
Demand another t-test, demand the psychologists takes my problem seriously. And that's all I got really. Haven't been able to find anyone with the same problem I have through my research so.
>>16439657
Not really. It's just like how you are now. Once you get onto porn again, you stop being horny really. You stop jerking off because you want to jerk off, and more because you just want to cum.
>>16439692
I see, but you got this chemical reaction. Must mean you are close to a solution. I would stop porn and focus that energy on real women.
That's the difference, I never even got a spark of hornyness back, if I did I would know how to deal with it.
>>16439687
I see, well I wouldn't bother with the psychologist, rather change or quit altogether.
Seems to me like we need to re-learn how to fantasize.
Most people who do no-fap are doing it wrong.
Instead of abstaining from not fapping instead do it ONCE A WEEK.
Don't look at porn either, and when that final 7th day comes around fap all you want. Be sure to smoke a lot of weed and go on a porn binge fap fiesta to get it out of your system. Fap until you no longer have any desire to fap.
Then wait another 7 days, and then repeat the cycle.
People who try to go 90 days without porn or masturbation are only making it harder on themselves for no reason. Testosterone levels peak on day 7 and anything after just becomes pent up sexual frustration that increases levels of stress. Don't be afraid to jerk off, just do so responsibly just 1 day a week.
