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>I get horny when I'm drunk
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>I drink
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>>16306739
>>16306786
You guys sound fun.
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>>16306793
>needing to poison your body to have fun

You seem intelligent.
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>>16306800
>implying people poison themselves to have fun
How's junior high coming along? I miss those carefree days, y'know.
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>>16306793

>Le ebin drinking culture xD
>My personality is defined by how much and often I drink :^)
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>>16306806
>>16306800
>>16306786
You need to have a partner in order to see any red flags in them.
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>>16306810
>>16306803

I'm not any of them
so I'm sorry
but in what way is "i get horny when I'm drunk" not a red flag?
They're basically setting up a reason for them cheating on you before they even do
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>>16306803
>age meme response

Add some mercury to your diet

Don't you want to be a radical cool dude like this?
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>>16306739
>i'm a tripfag on 4chan
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>"I drink"
>"I smoke"
>"I have tattoos"
>"I have piercings"
>"I'm a girl gamer"
>"I'm a feminist"
>"I'm a liberal"
>"I'm pro-choice"
>"I was raised by a single mom"
>"I can't cook"
>"I've slept with x number of men"
>"I have a tumblr"
>"I'm a vegetarian"
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>>16306845
>"I'm an atheist"
>"I'm voting for Hilary Clinton"
>"I don't like dogs"
>"I take birth control for cramps"
>"All my friends are male"
>"I've had an abortion before"
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>>16306845
Found your perfect match
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>>16306854
>"I've dated a black guy before"
>"I like to go clubbing"
>"Men should pay for everything"
>"I have a child"
>"I don't know who the father is"
>"I have some condoms in my drawer"
>"I have to go see my psychiatrist next week"
>"I'm spiritual"
>"I wear yoga pants because they're comfy"
I think that covers everything.
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>>16306845
>>16306854
>>16306874
Sasuga.
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I mean with checklists that long and so far from reality don't whine about muh no gf

Go to a monastery or something
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When she threatens to leave/cheat on you over every little argument?

>if you don't go to the mall with me, I will find some other guy to take me

Then go ahead bitch. I don't fuck with you
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>>16306845
>>16306854
>>16306874
I passed all of these. Do I win a prize?
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>>16306900
>not being pro-choice

Nope you failed
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>is a grill
>has only/mainly guy friends

timetoleave.jpeg
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>>16306906
Abortion is already legal so saying you're "pro-choice" just means "I'm entertaining the idea that I'd like to get one if I wanted" but I'll never want or need one. It's a pointless stance to have.
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>>16306845
>>16306854
>>16306874
As long as this list is, aside from maybe 2 or 3 things I don't see how this is actually unreasonable. It's pretty much saying "I'd like a girl that isn't a raging slut attention whore single mom that pretends to be otherwise"
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>>16306927
I met this girl who has a few guy friends but she seems super wholesome.

I'm pretty into her but I'm so afraid that she is actually a huge slut. How do I find this out? She doesn't seem like a slut but I can't help but think she is..
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>>16306845
Half of these are bullshit tbh

>>16306854
Agree with these

>>16306874
These are bullshit too imo
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>>16306913
Its an important stance to have because there is an entire party that wants to take that choice away.
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>>16306936
There are people against gay marriage too but it's not going to go anywhere even if you ignored those people because the voting power is with women.
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>>16306854
>"I take birth control for cramps"
What the fuck is wrong with that?
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>>16306936
Women outnumber men in the US.
Women are more likely to vote than men.
The majority of the US is socially liberal.
Women especially are more likely to be socially liberal.

How exactly is abortion going to get taken away with these odds? How is anything on the liberal agenda that's currently legal going to get taken away?
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>>16306955
It's a lie.
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>>16306845
>>16306854
>>16306874
>"I'm a girl gamer"
Why is this a red flag?
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>im insecure
>i run from a relationship to a relationship because its easier for me
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>>16306803
>drinking your troubles away instead of facing them like an adult
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>>16307115
>I watch WWE instead of Lucha Underground
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>single mom
>party girl
>drinks
>smokes or drugs
>tattoos
>liberal
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>>16307115
How much problem facing am I expected to do friday at 10pm?
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>>16306890
My wife passes the list just fine and she's 37. Not unrealistic at all, your standards are fucking low.
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>>16306913
No, it's also just the opposite of pro-life. What the fuck is someone against pro-life supposed to call herself when asked that question?

>being against pro-life people is different from being explicitly pro-choice
No it fucking isn't
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>>16306739
>doesn't drink
>can't banter
>content with a go-nowhere job
>intrusive dietary restrictions (I onced tried to date a girl who was allergic to seafood, dairy and garlic. It was such a culinary cockblock)

I don't ask for much
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>ITT: salty faggots who ruin people's fun
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>>16306975
>he has trust issues
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>>16306845
>"I drink"
Nah.

>"I smoke"
...I don't think this one is.

>"I have tattoos"
Yeah, this one could be depending on the amount.

>"I have piercings"
This CAN be one. Depends on how many I think just like tatoos.

>"I'm a feminist"
Dear god yes. Run away the moment you can.

>"I'm a liberal"
She can be liberal, but if she flat out says it like it really matters to her, then I could see this. Ideologues really aren't good in men or women. Unless they are actually well versed in economics.

>"I was raised by a single mom"
Can be if the mom was bitter. So... yeah. At least in a long lasting relationship its a red flag.

>"I've slept with x number of men"
Can be, yes.

>"I have a tumblr"
...Maybe. Yes?
>"I'm an atheist"
Nah.

>"I'm a vegetarian"
Only if they are ideologues about it. Some women are just picky eaters. This is not a red flag.

>"I'm voting for Hilary Clinton"
Pretty much. It isn't that she's a democrat, its that she's THAT type of democrat. Find the exit.

>"I don't like dogs"
...nah.

>"I take birth control for cramps"
Yikes, I have never had this one. I'm ignorant about this.

>"All my friends are male"
Yep.

>"I've had an abortion before"
....hard to say.

>"I've dated a black guy before"
Yeah lol

>"I like to go clubbing"
Yep.

>"Men should pay for everything"
YEP.

>"I have a child"
YEP.

>"I don't know who the father is"
Didn't I already say Yep?

>"I have some condoms in my drawer"
....?

>"I have to go see my psychiatrist next week"
Yeah...

>"I'm spiritual"
I need context for this.

>"I wear yoga pants because they're comfy"
Around the house? No prob. In public, hit and run.
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>"I'm a born again Christian"
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>>16306806
I never implied either of those. Even drinkers have better reading comprehension skills than you.
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>Has used tinder
>Passive aggression
>lying / white lying
>smokes

All dealbreakers for me :^)
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>>16306874
> "I have some condoms in my drawer"
> red flag
Good luck, Dad.

Remember, no glove, no love.
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REAL TALK

If your girl gets horny when drunk and shes quite a sexual person anyway, how comfortable would you feel about her going out drinking with her friends knowing theres gonna be guys hitting on her?
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>I visit 4chan
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>>16307472
I don't know seems like he's justified with that.

Her having condoms in her drawer and you having condoms are two different things.

He isn't saying he won't have sex with a condom, he's saying if a girl keeps condoms in her drawer she is probably a cum dump
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>>16306739
for a female
>male friends
>talks to exes
>bright colored hair
>ultra liberal values
>divorced parents
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>>16306815
people can be horny without cheating.
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>>16307496
But I have pink at the very ends of my hair and I super love my bf :(
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>>16306874
My boyfriend hates me for having dated (f-ed) black guys and always brings it up and it's breaking us apart
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>>16307574
You do this for attention, to warn others to stay away. Or to make yourself stand out to get noticed.

>red flag

Notice me senpai, notice me.
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>>16306874
>>16306854
>>16306845
I'm a complete kissless virgin at 21 and I'm going to hate that if I ever get a girlfriend I'll have to put up with most of these.
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>>16307580
Man being black sucks, just getting laid gets people in trouble.
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>>16307491
>He isn't saying he won't have sex with a condom, he's saying if a girl keeps condoms in her drawer she is probably a cum dump
Exactly, I don't know how this flies over anyone's head.
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You guys keep saying drinking is a red flag. I'm new to dating and my current bf of 3 months drinks about 2x per week. Should I be worried? He either invites people over to drink or goes to bars to drink with his buddy. I'm not 21 yet so I can't go out to drink.
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>>16307007
Because men usually don't go around saying "I'm a gamer" for attention. If the girl genuinely likes games, she wont say "YEAH I'M A (GIRL) GAMER." They say this for attention and so you know that they are "not like other girls."

Interests should come out naturally in conversation, and not be used to get attention.

Basically, the red flag isn't the fact that she likes games, it's that she feels the need to parade it around to be unique.
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https://youtu.be/afuqiEaysIA
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Can't believe I'm reading any of this. None of these are even any of your opinions.
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>>16306845
>>16306854
>>16306874
Pretty comprehensive list tbh. What more needs to be said?
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>no hobbies
>heavy make up
>no goals/aspirations
>moves from one drunken social event to another
>'with guys theres less drama'
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>Tattoos.
>Dyes their hair unnatural colors.
>Insecurity issues
>Them and their parents don't get along
>Liberal, socialist, statist


>>16307007
Because 98% of the time they're just attention whores. If you just like video games more power to you, but the majority of women who call themselves girl gamers are trying to garner male attention.

Besides, most of the time their tastes are entry level at best.

>>16308564
I don't think drinking on its own is anything bad. Its when they habitually get drunk, or drink to just handle everyday stress. Like many things moderation is the issue.
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>aposemitic poison dart frog colored pixie-cut hair
>"problematic" full black rimmed oversized glasses
>piercings other than ears, no gauges
>tattoos of quotes, lyrics, or something they thought looked cool without really having a story behind it.
>has a facebook, twitter, instagram, tumblr, or some other shitty social networking fad site. the only acceptable one is google+.
>uses any Apple product besides maybe an iPod nano/mp3 player.
>"I can't survive without coffee"
>draws eyebrows
>obese. if they are a little chubby that's ok because they make good mothers but if they don't work out, into the trash they go.
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>>16308645
>has a facebook, twitter, instagram, tumblr, or some other shitty social networking fad site. the only acceptable one is google+.
I'm pretty sure people only have a google+ account for youtube crap
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>>16308630
Is this a still from Gummo I can't quite tell
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>>16308645
>>"I can't survive without coffee"
I agree with you. Competing with coffee is a losing battle.
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Dating black guys is always a red flag in these threads I noticed. So, I've got a couple of questions that I hope get answered.

1.) Does this only apply to stereotype thugs/hoodrats, or is it any/all black guys? What if she dates a complete asshole/abuser/thug who's white?

2.) If you're not actually black but mulatto, are men still pissed off if a girl they like has dated you before?
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>>16308688
>) Does this only apply to stereotype thugs/hoodrats, or is it any/all black guys?
Depends on the individual. Thugs and hoodrats are an instant dealbreaker, but I'll still think twice if she just dated a black guy in general. Same rule applies to Russians.

>What if she dates a complete asshole/abuser/thug who's white?
See above. They may not be actual niggers, but they have the soul of one which is close enough.
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>>16308719
>Not actual niggers
>Have the soul of one

I thought "niggers" was a term relegated to only the 'bad' people of color and not all of them.

And by this logic, every white guy has the soul of a school shooter which is also pretty terrible.
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>>16308737
>I thought "niggers" was a term relegated to only the 'bad' people of color and not all of them.
Generally speaking yes. But you're ignoring what they're known for. Violence, drugs, domestic abuse, and so on. Russians tend to follow that ritual fairly well.

>And by this logic, every white guy has the soul of a school shooter which is also pretty terrible
You only hear about it in the news because it gets old hearing about how a parole baboon shot up the street in Chicago or Baltimore or what have you every day. Its something exciting when a white or asian does it.
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>>16308766
>Ignoring what they're known for
Funny, I'm not known for any of these things, and neither are any black men or women I've ever known.

And I guess white men don't illegally deal in drugs, violence or abuse. Except when they do. Oops.


>It's exciting when a white guy does it

>If a white/asian male commits a tragedy it's peculiar and exciting
>If a black/brown guy does it it's business as usual

>White male "souls" are inherently pure and good
>Others have "nigger" souls which are inherently corrupted
Oh mannnn this cognitive distortion
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>>16307491
what should she have, diapgragms?

or are grills not allowed to be concerned about STIs
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>>16308784
>Funny, I'm not known for any of these things, and neither are any black men or women I've ever known.
We were talking about what niggers were known for. I'm going on a limb and guessing you arent a gangbanger.

>And I guess white men don't illegally deal in drugs, violence or abuse. Except when they do. Oops.
Some do. Not at the same rate. That's why blacks are stereotyped as doing drugs and violence, and we have white girls with uggs and starbucks.

>If a black/brown guy does it it's business as usual
Which it is. If we focused on it every time there was senseless killing due to black gang violence, even 24/7 news stations couldn't cover everything.
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>women have it easier than men
>I go on 4chan
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>Identify as anything other than 'straight' i.e. pansexual, bi, queer etc. etc.
>Tattoos (one very small, subtle one is okay I guess)
>Smokes
>Feminist
>Uses snapchat or tumblr
>Hair dyed blue/green or any stupid color
>Anything pierced but her ears
>Anything to indicate or suggest she's sexually liberal and has had one night stands, threesomes, lesbian sex, etc. in the past
>"I hang out with guys because they're less drama"
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>>16308719
> They may not be actual niggers, but they have the soul of one which is close enough.
Is this soul then transferred to the woman by their niggerdicks?
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>>16308833
Probably. That's my working theory with the Russians, after the Mongols ran them through.
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>>16308803
m8....
how are people still not getting this?

if a girl has a ready supply of condoms she's clearly a massive fucking whore who regularly fucks strange men
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>>16308808
All fair enough. I still think whites have their own capacity to be terrible but I'm not here to say whites are terrible. I'm here to say that we should be judging individuals as individuals, not the acts of other people from their "group".

The reason this bothers me is that I know I am not a "nigger", but I can't do much to help the fact that people might be judging me as one. I've never been a victim of overt racism, and I haven't given people a reason to; I work, I pay taxes, I have never stolen or knowingly committed a crime, never physically harmed anyone else etc. so I shouldn't have to worry right?

But so many guys, especially on a website I frequent, absolutely loathe the idea of a woman they like having dated a black man or, as it seems, any man who isn't "white looking".

So really, if you meet somebody like me out on the street, and notice I'm not wearing pants down to my ass, blasting rap mp3s from my phone, or speaking in ebonics, will I be at "your level"? Will the idea of me dating "outside of my race" (strange concept because I'm multiracial) disturb you? Or will I be left alone and not judged/stereotyped? And how about the women who date me, will they be seen as trash for ever going near me or are they still worthy of consideration?
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>>16308766

No, because when it's street violence is something people can understand because they're gang members, are elated to hand members or live in a pseudo urban war zone. People aren't shocked when soldiers or insurgents get shot in kandahar, either.

But when some white or Asian fair shoots people up, it's because they're fucking crazy and otherwise have no real reason to go on a rampage besides their own mental illness. The other reason is because it's usually a reflection of something fucked within society, which makes people uncomfortable because they'd rather pretend like everything is fine.
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>>16307372
>allergic to garlic
How can you even live? Or was this one of those "Oh, I don't like the way it tastes so I'll say I'm allergic to it."

Like, generally I'd say eating restrictions aren't much reason to break up with someone...but I wouldn't be able to cook anything.
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>>16308851
>if a girl has a ready supply of condoms she's clearly a massive fucking whore who regularly fucks strange men
what does it say if a man has condoms?
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>>16306890
Yeah it's really not unreasonable. I pass all and so do most of my friends from what I know.

I have the same standards for myself as well as my partner.
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>>16308862
Not him but same thing, duh.

Though I'm going to assume that somebody who cares about the number of partners a girl has had, is likely more concerned with the fact that she's had more partners/more experience than him. This can be a real issue to guys who have either struggled with the opposite sex, or don't care for one-nighters/casual sex/this whole sexually liberated society thing. Usually, it's a combination of both.
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See >>16307045
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>>16308873
>Not him but same thing, duh.
so if neither the guy or the girl has condoms, how does one practice safe sex
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>>16308862
It's the same thing.

>>16308888
They get condoms after they are in an exclusive relationship and are ready to sex
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>>16308888
The point is that outside of a relationship, there's no reason to have condoms sitting around. Having condoms/birth control readily available implies you go out looking for casual sex, you're completely open and wiling if the opportunity presents itself. And there's people who, for a variety of reasons, do not care for that, so seeing birth prevention/safe sex accessories lying around is a red flag to *them*.
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>>16308855
>But when some white or Asian fair shoots people up, it's because they're fucking crazy and otherwise have no real reason to go on a rampage besides their own mental illness
In other words, exciting, new and fresh. The black nutjob is often drowned out by all the regular gang violence. The asian that picks up a rifle stands out, its not a common occurrence to have china town blasted with gunfire.

>>16308852
>I still think whites have their own capacity to be terrible
Sure. But Rhodesia says more than I ever could.

>I'm here to say that we should be judging individuals as individuals, not the acts of other people from their "group".
Even a child is capable of pattern recognition. Women clutch their purse and walk on the other side of the street for a reason. If I don't know you, I'll use what information is available. Certain races are much more fond of forcey fun time.

>So really, if you meet somebody like me out on the street, and notice I'm not wearing pants down to my ass, blasting rap mp3s from my phone, or speaking in ebonics, will I be at "your level"? Will the idea of me dating "outside of my race" (strange concept because I'm multiracial) disturb you? Or will I be left alone and not judged/stereotyped? And how about the women who date me, will they be seen as trash for ever going near me or are they still worthy of consideration?
Possibly. But either way I'd still be judging you, it would just be a net positive.

Part of the issue is when a girl sleeps with a black, its generally to piss off her father or to try to prove how tolerant she is. So even if you yourself are a quality person, I'll still be skeptical towards the woman.
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>I go to dance clubs
>I watch TV
ok thats a little harsh
>I watch Tv more then an ~ hour a week.
>I don't read books
garented to be boring.
>I don't have a real job
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>>16308888
Think we're talking about the early encounters with someone. i.e. first date, first time you see her place etc.

Not when you've already been dating for 2 months.
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>>16308906
>Part of the issue is when a girl sleeps with a black, its generally to piss off her father or to try to prove how tolerant she is. So even if you yourself are a quality person, I'll still be skeptical towards the woman.

I'll be honest here: I'm still a virgin. Never once had sex. I've had offers though a couple of times, like straight up offers to shag, and other times girls have shown interest. The first one to offer it was this petite blonde girl, and I'm not here to brag about it or anything but her friend told her straight up "I'd never date a nigger". We both thought that was incredibly strange, but looking back I see that's an attitude pervasive in many men and women.

I've never met one of these emotionally disturbed/rebellious girls who tried to get with me to piss off her dad or prove that she's not a racist. The only girls I meet are ones who seem genuinely interested in getting to know me, while being open to making it into something more. I never once had the impression that she was using me to piss off daddy or clean her conscience. So, either I've been blind to it/just didn't spend enough time with any one girl to realize what she was up to, or it's not that big a thing. Or maybe I just have not met enough women. Who knows.
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>>16306739
Says number of serial partners doesn't matter

Is 25 or younger and has 5+ sexual partners. Sex, IMO, should only be done when 2 people care about each other very much. Despite what 4chan says, most people worth dating share this view.

Spends most weekends at bars, clubs, or parties

Has ever cheated on someone. Even if it was just a kiss

Is 30 or younger and has been married or enraged. Only exception is of the spouse died.

Has a radical view of politics, religion, or society and won't shut up about it

Becomes more sexual while drunk

Does drugs harder than acid

Smokes pot more than once or twice a month

Always gets into arguments with other people

Has a tramp stamp. Tramp stamps always have been and always will be slooty
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>>16308910
Watching TV for less than one hour? What the fuck? I literally have never come across anybody who fits this criteria ever. Could have at least said less than an hour a day. That would give you some chance.

Good luck with that.
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>>16308931
*number of SEXUAL partners. Damn auto-correct
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>>16308934
trust me on this. The less someone watches TV the more personality they are forced to develop
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>>16306900
Please be in Germany. If not, where do I find girls like you?
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>>16308929
>I've never met one of these emotionally disturbed/rebellious girls who tried to get with me to piss off her dad or prove that she's not a racist.
That's nice. Go to college. They're a dime a dozen.
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>>16308950
Does that include movies?
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>>16308645
>>obese. if they are a little chubby that's ok because they make good mothers but if they don't work out, into the trash they go.

What does this make
Good mothers
Thing mean exactly?
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>>16308931
>>16308832
>>16308645
>>16306874
>>16306854
>>16306845


I like these anons
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>>16308931
>
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>>16308861
Its awful. I'm allergic to it and it has changed everything I eat since it developed. Its not required to be listed on food packaging, so basically "spices" or "flavouring" means garlic.
Lot's of food company's won't answer you straight if you email and ask.
No ready made food, condiments, anything packaged.
Restaurants either don't believe you when you say you're allergic, or are clueless as to what things they use actually have garlic, because its not listed often.

It so depressing. Goodbye fave foods. Past 2 days I've had porridge, salads (no dressing) and some tuna and rice.
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>>16308645
>>"I can't survive without coffee"
Wait what's wrong with coffee
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>>16308832
If they identify as queer then you being straight is probably their red flag.
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>>16307580
>dating niggers
>ever

Shiiieeeeeeet
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>>16306845
>>16306854
>>16306874
Thread should have been over here tbh.
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> sucks your dick and then doesn't rinse her mouth
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>"I drink"
socially is ok
>"I smoke"
dropped
>"I have tattoos"
dropped
>"I have piercings"
dropped, except for ear lobes, cause thats normal.
>"I'm a girl gamer"
eh, depends upon what games she likes, but probably dropped
>"I'm a feminist"
fuck no, run, run as fast as you can
>"I'm a liberal"
dropped, unless they say "classical liberal"
>"I'm pro-choice"
if its in the bio, then its iffy
>"I was raised by a single mom"
ehhhhh
>"I can't cook"
as long as you're willing to learn, its fine.
>"I've slept with x number of men"
dropped
>"I have a tumblr"
dropped
>"I'm a vegetarian"
dropped
>"I'm an atheist"
irrelevant
>"I'm voting for Hilary Clinton"
dropped
>"I don't like dogs"
dropped
>"I take birth control for cramps"
I've never heard this, but dropped
>"All my friends are male"
ehh... might be ok.
>"I've had an abortion before"
dropped
>"I've dated a black guy before"
double dropped
>"I like to go clubbing"
quadruple dropped
>"Men should pay for everything"
if its in the bio, dropped like an unwanted infant.
if its in conversation, then it may just be old-fashioned thinking, which is fine.
>"I have a child"
dropped if this is paired with anything else on here. otherwise its probably fine.
>"I don't know who the father is"
fuck no
>"I have some condoms in my drawer"
neat, now wheres the results that show you tested negative for std's?
>"I have to go see my psychiatrist next week"
mite b gud.
>"I'm spiritual"
as long as she's not wiccan is fine
>"I wear yoga pants because they're comfy"
I dont get this one.
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>>16309163
>yoga pants

I think what the anon was trying to get at was yoga pants, other than being worn around the house or working out, are trashy and used as a way for girls to get guysto pay attention to them because of their ass
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> "I like to cut off penises and string them on a necklace. So far my necklace is 24 penises long."
> mfw
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"nothing like hog wrastlin in the morning" *spits tobacco in the air and catches it in her mouth*
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>>16309067
I'd normally be facetious when saying something like this, but this time is the exception:
I am sorry. I am truly sorry for you.
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For a male:
>I play more than 4 hours of vidya a day
>I only shower twice a week
>I smoke weed/do drugs
>I don't know understand shit-posting

Physically, a red flag is, if they're over the healthy range for their BMI (fatties = I literally have no fucking respect for myself), or if all their clothes are torn and have holes in them. I'd also consider running away if they are financially dependent on their parents.
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>>16310399
>I don't know understand shit-posting

'm confused. Explain pls
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>>16306739
>"Who cares if he's nice, he's hot!"
I heard a woman friend of mine say that. It had to be one of the most shallow things I've ever heard.

>all these people against drinking
Nothing wrong with drinking as long as you control it. I don't drink (and never plan to) but my gf does on special occasions sometimes. It's the people that go to parties to get hammered or people that can't stand you not drinking/can't stand anyone drinking are the ones I'll avoid.
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I get angry when I'm drunk
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>>16310399
I honestly don't believe you're female because all of that's completely reasonable.
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> I don't do hook ups.

> I have pictures of a kid, but it's not mine.

> Tongue-in-cheek quote I've seen on other profiles countless times
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>>16306815
Me and my girlfriend almost always have a couple of drinks before we fuck. Feels way better...
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>>16306739
well i actually do get horny when im high but i've made a point to only ever smoke around my partner which is still a rare occasion in itself
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>>16306845
What about the standard ear piercing like what?
I don't think that it's their fault how they were raised?
And if you're really that insecure about how many men she's slept with (within a reasonable amount) then maybe you shouldn't really date in general im gonna be honest
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>>16306854
I'm an atheist just cause I was never religious anyway like are you gonna force people to convert just cause they never lived your life?
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>>16306874
i mean like i'm obviously gonna judge girls who wear baggy sweatpants for comfortability but i dont judge for yoga pants
so the answer to yoga pants is actually rly obvious if youre gonna judge a girl for wearing baggy sweatpants
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>>16307496
>divorced parents
the same applies to men
don't bring your fucking mommy and daddy didn't love me enough to stay together issues into the fucking house im not gonna raise a family with you just so you can invade it with all of your dumbass insecurities of how daddy was distant and only sent you a card for your birthday and you walked in on your mom fucking the mailman
honestly guys with divorced parents are the worst
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>>16308832
nice insert of homophobia there
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For men:
>plays videogames
>drinks regularly
>has any kind of piercing or tattoo whatsoever
>keeps condoms on himself
>has any kind of hairstyle that comes past his ears
>doesn't go to the gym at all or goes so much he practically lives there
>cargo shorts and worn out band tshirts
>nothing but nike merchandise
>any level of judgement on bi girls who are dating other women
>if his underwear or socks have any holes in them
>can't stand any other religion
>likes memes irl
>has a tumblr
>can't grow out any facial hair
>shorter than 5'8 instantly massive insecurities under that height
>hates pets (especially dogs)
>goes clubbing
>smokes
>gets high
>"I'm pro-logic and anti-stupidity" well isn't everyone there smart guy
>is a writer
>uses any kind of slang like "fam" or "swag" or "chill"
>is anything more hardcore than a moderate republican/democrat
>doesn't at least trim his pubes when you have sex
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>>16312209
for men:
>drinks coffee
>doesn't shower everyday
>has divorced parents
>was only raised by his mom
>is an only child
>has slept with more than two women in the past
>refuses to say how many women he's slept with on account that he's a manslut
>is friends with other women
>has a snapchat
>has an instagram
>has anything other than a facebook
>makes go back to the kitchen jokes
>goes on 4chan pol, r9k
>goes on reddit
>has dated a latina girl before
>likes clubbing
>likes parties
>can't cook
>can't do chores
>likes donald trump
>keeps condoms on him
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>>16312167
>I don't think that it's their fault how they were raised?
It's not their fault but it's still a red flag.

>insecure card
Opinion discarded.
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>>16312593
it's a red flag for men too don't bring shit in here if you can't handle it
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>>16312209
>>16312227
Jesus christ
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>>16312209
>>16312227
are you a woman or are you gay?
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If he dresses like a blue collar slob.

pic related
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"I own a horse"
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>>16312687
If you have to resort to calling people insecure when sluts are factually less reliable mates then you're the insecure one and projecting hard.
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>>16312775
well i mean the divorced parents/single mom but whatever suits you
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>>16312227
You I like

>>16312209
Not so much you
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>>16312227
Why does it matter if he's an only child?
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>>16313521
means that he, just like girls who are only children, got raised the center of attention and as a spoiled brat
it's not rocket science
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>>16312227
>>16312209
Wow would I pass your list? I have a snapchat, but no women, only my friends who are guys. I do play video games but not very often, I have curly hair so it goes past my ears a little bit sometimes, I drink coffee, and I don't go to the gym but I'd be willing to. My parents are divorced,

Everything else passes the list
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>>16312179
Go fuck yourself you stupid bitch
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>>16306913
this
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