So I was hooking up with my housemate for a bit. Then she broke my heart. So, I went on a trip to Colombia. I really haven't felt like sleeping with hookers here. I'm about to return to my home country (hookers too expensive there btw, and really not motivated by the girls that I can manage to get on dates usually). Should I meet up with my housemate? Or, should I avoid her? I promised her a postcard which I got, and want to give her. I can just slip it in her mailbox though. But, I also want to collect mail that was sent to our apartment I may not know about, and a tshirt with the Brazzers logo I sent there and she said arrived. Help :< She was the first person who kissed me who wasn't a prostitute. Wait no, first female that kissed me and wasn't a prostitute (I'm mostly into girls, but when my self esteem is low I sometimes go to gay/bi guys for validation).

Thanks in advance. I appreciate your honesty.

I just can't fucking stop blowing my money at the casino. I'll go a few weeks without going then I'll get a really strong urge, think what the hell and three hours later I've blown most of my paycheck.

How do I get off this ride?

>>17365337

Well, how'd she break your heart?

>>17365360

tl;dr I have never been in your scenario, because betting when the odds are against you is retarded. Just stop being retarded with probability.

Learn fucking math. If you can't stop, look at it like you're getting good at gambling. People good at gambling don't do it when the odds are against them. Casinos are blatantly against you. Just look up how casinos stack the odds against you. For example, roulette does not have a 50/50 chance for red/black. You're probably going to lose, no matter what you bet on, because the 0 and 00 make it less than a half chance for either color.

>>17365365
When I asked her at what stage she'd be my girlfriend she said she was not ready. A few days later probably I noticed tinder notifications as we watched a movie, then she wouldn't kiss me when we went for a walk. Then she said she didn't see me as a long term prospect and started seeing other guys :(

>>17365348


whoops,
>>17365365
was meant for you.

>>17365373

Leave. Don't live with her. Leave. This is why people avoid hooking up with housemates, shit like this.

You're extremely hung up on her because she's your first girl. But just cut off all fucking contact and be open to other girls.

I like this guy who is really into anime but I'm not into anime. I have given anime a shot before but I'm a huge snob when it comes to animation (be it cartoons or anime or animated films). He seems well adjusted but in the past I have dated two other guys who were really into anime and it was very offputting since they were basically weebs. I do read manga but I don't know if that helps or makes it worse. I guess I'm wondering if it's worth pursuing? He's in my friend's friend circle and I like everyone else in there so I don't want to make it awkward.

>>17365385

If he's not a weeb it's probably worth pursuing. I used to be similar to you about manga/anime when I was into that kind of thing.

As for the awkwardness thing, that's just part of life. If you two get together and break up, it gets awkward and that's okay. And if he's not into you then it'll be sad but it's better than never trying.

>>17365392

I get that if everything happens and it get awkward, that's life. Just not sure if it's worth probably exiting that social circle altogether for since he's an integral part of it and I just started hanging out with them.