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2016-07-17 05:06:58 Post No. 17364875
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2016-07-17 05:06:58
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Let me preface this by saying that I am terrible at reading signals. The majority of my relationships thus far have begun online. That said...
There is a guy at my job who I really have a crush on. He seems to like me too. He greets me with 'hey pretty lady' regularly, says I'm funny, and seems interested to know the details of my dating life whenever they are brought up.
>For example, I told him about a funny interaction I'd had with a customer of mine and how she asked me about the men in my life, at which point he questioned me about who the men in my life were.
We regularly talk to each other about our goofy online dating mishaps (tinderlol) and I think (but can't be sure) he asked me out on a date? He asked what I was doing after work and when I told him nothing he said that he was planning on cancelling a date with some girl he didn't want to see and wanted to know if I'd like to come have a drink with him at a local restaurant. I declined because I was caught off guard, and also wearing some pretty gross work clothes. (I work with a lot of chemicals and such.)
Today he comes in and we goof around as per usual, but he tells me a couple of times about how he wants to talk to some other woman we know at our job. He has mentioned her before, too.
I've read in some places that when a guy talks casually with you about being interested in other women, he sees you more as a buddy and less as a love interest. Is this typically true? Did I just blow it super badly by declining to go out with him the other night?