My bf doesnt eat pussy, never has. This lesbian girl from my class has been teasing me on snapchat for weeks about how she wants to do it and im thinking about accepting.
Would I be too much of an asshole for this?
It's still cheating, even if it's a girl...
Does your bf know you WANT him to lick your pussy? Maybe you have turned him down a few times at the beginning or it seemed like you were uncomfortable or not enjoying it. Talk to him instead of just looking elsewhere.
>>17360023
Only if you don't inform your bf,and don't take the right action to sever romantic ties beforehand. Nothing wrong with getting the old lickaroo. He might even be ok with it if you tell him
>>17360032
He knows. Some context: We have been together since we both were 15, hes my first and me too, I'm 19 now so its a long time. He has never, ever done it. He says he doesnt like the taste.
I started going to college this year and made friends with this girl and one day we were talking about our sex lives and I tell her this and she starts saying shes a lesbian and the thing she loves the most is to go down on women and so on. Ever since then she flirts with me kind of aggressively and is always sending me pics and messages on snapchat.
>>17360052
I just don't even know how you get to the point you consider cheating just because you want your pussy licked. Since it is obviously a deal breaker just end your relationship and fuck and lick whomever you want. Not just you OP but people try to make a go of a committed relationship when they are too young and haven't dated and played around some. I also want you to consider you are bisexual or perhaps even a lesbian as well.
>>17360090
Try almost five years of wanting it. Also no not a lesbian but shes good. Yesterday she said shed eat me for hours and not tire
>>17360102
Then just drop him.
>i'm not lesbian i just want to have sex with a girl
Its not his fault you got a nasty tasting pussy. I had 2 nasty tasting pussies that made me gag (not infront of them ofcourse cuz they was suckin me off), but the times i had the non-tasting god-tier pussy, it was something i wanted to keep eating till i was drippin cum off my face.
Its a deal breaker for me if my girl wanted to get eaten out of my girl, sure id keep you as a fuckbuddy, but cant do the relationship part after that.
>>17360102
that doesn't mean anything people brag all the time but why not have a man do it for you if you are not a lesbian. Just because a lesbian wants you doesn't mean you have to let her despite 5 years of no pussy eating.
What you are doing is trying to justify cheating on your bf with a lesbian. You have discussed your sex life with a potential sex partner and allowing her to make her pitch so do the right thing and break up with your bf.
>>17360023
If my gf wouldn't give me head I wouldn't think the remedy was letting a guy suck my dick
>>17360102
you are a lesbian in waiting
>hes my first and me too
>He has never, ever done it.
>He says he doesnt like the taste.
How would he know he doesn't like the taste if he's never gone down on you or anyone else? I say have him try it with a bottle of water and a saltine handy.
>>17360052
>He says he doesnt like the taste
Dunno why, but I laugh.
>>17360023
Suggest a three some! He would think its so hot.
>>17360112
Some people are just really particular about the tastes of bodily fluids. No matter how good a pussy tastes it's never going to taste like nothing, some guys get seriously squeamish about that pussy flavor.
OP, I'd just tell him that the offer is there and ask how he feels. Some guys would see red if their girl fucked a guy but feel that it "doesn't count" if it's a woman. I think that's retarded but he could be one of those, or the idea might even turn him on.
You don't have to tell him that you feel seriously tempted, just that you want to get eaten out and if he doesn't care if some girl does it, you're going to go for it. If he says fuck no, that's your cue to state once more that you would really like him to at least give this a fair shot for you. I'd bet twenty bucks that you suck him off, don't you?
And if he refuses to do that, reconsider how fulfilling the relationship is to you, and whether it's good enough to cope with not being eaten out for another indefinite time stretch if not forever. Besides personally I think the fact that he hasn't tried makes it a lot worse still.
>>17360102
Maybe ask him if you can go be with her so she can satisfy you but be prepared to break up if he gets assmad and decides he doesn't want to be with you anymore.
>>17360023
Slut
>>17360023
Yes. Oral is how you get throat cancer.
>>17360102
>Try almost five years of wanting it.
You would never accept this answer if a man gave it. You're going to break it off after five years just so you can cheat on him with some slut you barely know now that you're in college? At least break up with him before you do this so you don't give him the disease you're 100% going to contract.
You should just be honest with him and let him know that you aren't interested in making your relationship work, and that you'd rather cheat with the nearest interested slut than marry. The reaction from the average person would be so much worse if this was a man cheating on his girlfriend to get a blowjob.
Honestly, shame on you for telling us this instead of him. You were planning to cheat behind his back.
>>17360023
tits or gtfo
>>17360102
>Try almost five years of wanting it
Try waiting 26 years bitch
Threesome, advice from a guy.
>>17360262
>>17360348
>lesbian
>straight guy
>threesome
>>17360324
damn
shouldn't have married a guy like that if you knew he was that selfish
You're a cheating slut. The worst kind of slut. They should all fucking die.
>>17360052
> he's my first
> I'm his first
> he has never done it
> he doesn't like the taste
HOW THE FUCK DOES HE KNOW?
>>17360371
this 12 year old hasn't learned how to control his emotions yet
>>17360381
Licking his fingers after fingering?
OP here. Okay. The reason I considered going all the way is because I dont know if I have done something wrong already, but I feel kind of guilty. We talk all day on snapchat and she sents me tons of pictures, some just from day to day stuff and also some teasing pictures. Like for example earlier today she sent me one one her legs saying the weather was hot. I usually reply with "mmmm" or stuff like that, never with pictures. Just once I sent her a changing room picture but that was it. Still I dont stop her either.
So I dont know if I already fucked myself over and it even matters at this point
>>17360102
how about you ask your BF and the girl for a threesome.
How would you feel if another girl was swallowing his cum?
>>17360422
Annnd she just sent me a towel picture saying she could eat me up in the shower. This is what Im talking about. How do I refuse her?
>>17360524
You say no?
>>17360307
This is some hard truth.
>>17360524
just do it you stupid bitch.
But know that you're one of THOSE girls. You have no morals and will probably fuck away your 20s until you finally reach your mid 30s realizing that no one wants to be with you anymore because you have 100+ partners and now you're old and worhless.
Go ahead then, go get your pussy eaten.
Just don't expect to find the same lock on the door when you come back.
Is he otherwise attentive to your needs/desires? It's straight up cheating if you don't talk to him, how would you feel if your bf fucked someone else because you weren't satisfying him in some way?
Everyone has things they wouldn't want to do, I mean it's pretty lame, who doesn't want to eat pussy, but if he's otherwise good to you then you should talk to him first.
It sounds to me that you're more interested in the girl that having your pussy eaten in particular and you're 19 so maybe, just fuck it, try things out. I dunno.
>>17360023
>>17360052
He doesn't want to make an effort. He could eat it out in the shower or when you just took a nice bath together if taste is what he's worried about. I usually only go down on my bf when he's just showered. Genitals can be icky.
You aren't sexually compatible. That usually kills a relationship. Either you do it or it will fizzle out on its own.
People always say sex "isn't that important" but to us in this day and age it has become so. AT 19, with no kids and no house, it is a legitimate reason to break up if you feel like it would be the best.
>>17360381
Praise be u anon. I thought the same fucking thing.
OP obviously ur boyfriend tried eating a strange without ur knowlege. Therefore it is fairgame to cheat on him back.
You're a degenerate.
>>17360524
you take her off snapchat and never talk to her again? is this even a serious thread lol.
>>17360139
^This
>>17360569
Depends. When it comes to this stuff no. He doesnt do it but still expects me to do it for him, or to just please him when Im on my period and not feeling like it at all.
>>17360594
We go to the same class and even though were on vacation now we still hangout two to three times a week.
>>17360608
Also I noticed shes very manipulative with her flirting, I think shes seduced straight girls before. I visualized the pic and didnt say anything. She just wrote a while ago
>Sorry if that was too forward, you made me wet lol its all good now
What do I say?
>>17360608
You've been together for five years. You should have learned a long time ago to put your foot down and tell him no. If he gets cross with you, ask him flat out why you should bother to please him when he doesn't please you?
It's shit that he's a selfish lover, but people like that will continue to walk all over you and ignore your needs for as long as they can get away with it. You're the woman, chances are his sex drive is higher or at least more physically pressing than yours, the bottom rule should be that you don't fuck if he doesn't bother to fuck you in a way that satisfies you. Or at least to try.
In an ideal situation you wouldn't need to hold sex over his head for him to realize it might be good to pay attention to your wishes, but some people really are this thick/self involved and then you have no choice. It's also a matter of respecting yourself enough to give your body and sexual effort to someone who respects you, and constantly ignoring your explicit wishes for the kind of sex life you want is not respecting you.
>my bf doesnt eat pussy.
Stopped reading there. 25 year old man here, you need to dump this kid. A man who doesn't eat pussy is not a man.
>>17360613
Make a decision right now if you want to stay in a relationship with your bf or not. That will determine what you say
>>17360608
You're young and you've been with your bf a loong time. He's not good to you because its an immature relationship. Break up and get laid!
Communication is 100% the most important thing in a relationship. I have no idea what the fuck is wrong with people when I read /adv/
I bet OP is a roastie.
Roasties are so unpure and disgusting. I wouldn't lick her even if I was straight.
>>17360667
>gay
>thinks his opinions on vaginas matter
Go back to your dicks.
>>17360618
I actually totally agree with this. Like, they expect you to blow them but won't do you the returned favor because "it's gross" or "icky".
>>17360669
Can I hop on yours?
>>17360618
>A man who doesn't eat pussy is not a man.
Eating pussy is a form of submissiveness
>>17360679
This.
Giving the dick is the ultimate form of marehood. Specially if that other person is male.
>>17360679
Because not wanting to perform an intimate and fulfilling sex act where you get to bury your face in her sex parts, because it's potentially not cool enough, is the height of alphahood?
>>17360679
That's right, fucker. Bow to The Almighty Cunt, you faggot.
>>17360679
eating pussy is one of god's gift to man.
key word here being "man"
OP here still dont know what to do. Gonna hangout with her tomorrow in the mall
>>17360775
Well, do you want to be a cheater cheater, biscuit eater?
If men initially won't eat pussy they won't get better. I suffered for 3 years, OP. Just dump him and hit that lesbian like the fist of an angry god. God, I want to run away with a lesbian too sometimes, why don't men care about female pleasure
(we know why)
>>17360786
You sound like a bitter feminist cunt, tbf.
OP you need to take advice from the level headed people in this thread. Either dump him and do whatever, or reject her offers and stay with him and understand that eating pussy is just not his thing.
>>17360779
I wanna get the feeling. Were talking normal now. Conversation went as follows
>her: Sorry if that was too forward, you made me wet lol its all good now
>me: lol dont apologize for that
>her: ;)
Unfortunately cant really screencap snapchat. Now were planning the mall tomorrow
>>17360805
Jesus you aren't too bright are you? There is clearly no reason for you to be here. You have already made up your mind about what you want. Break up with the poor lad and go get your gash licked as much as your heart desires. You'll just be an even bigger piece of human trash by doing it all behind his back.
>>17360797
If I did have a bitter cunt it sure would explain why guys won't eat me out, but I'm pretty sure it's because men are garbage.
Protip: If you won't eat a girl out but you accept blowjobs from her, you're a fucking asshole
>>17360797
she doesn't sound bitter at all
she's just sharing her experience
>>17360814
Like I said you sound very bitter. If you hate men so much why have you even involved yourself with them in the first place? Just stay with women if thats your thing.
>Protip: If you won't eat a girl out but you accept blowjobs from her, you're a fucking asshole
Or you know, find someone you're sexually compatible with. If I don't like to eat pussy, I will tell her and fully understand if she doesn't want to give oral in return.
You think with your emotions and not with your brain.
>>17360818
>she doesn't sound bitter at all
>>17360814
> I'm pretty sure it's because men are garbage.
Yeah, sure. Thats like saying the fucks over at /r9k/ aren't bitter.
>>17360821
Not her and disagree with the majority but to be fair, there really are plenty of men who think blowjobs are a standard part of a vanilla sex life, and cunnilingus is some niche thing. I guess it might have something to do with how often you see blowjobs vs pussy eating in regular movies and porn, but perhaps not.
>>17360814
> men are garbage
Most of them are, but once in a while there is a good one.
>>17360841
>Most of them are, but once in a while there is a good one.
Same can be said of women. So in the end that statement amounts to nothing seeing as the world is made up of both good and bad people alike.
>>17360838
I think it has more to do with the biological sense of men are the dominant gender while the female is more prone to submissiveness. Women were "expected" to please their men and men would in turn pleasure them by fucking and providing for them.
>>17360023
Do your boyfriend a favour and dump him. He deserves better than you.
The fact that you even have to ask this is evidence enough that you don't give a shit about his feelings. You two would be better apart.
>>17360871
Eh, sex doesn't feel good for women for nothing, there must be some benefit to them having pleasure (plenty of female animals have simply an urge but no real pleasure from it, like cats) and it doesn't explain why guys still get really pissy about the implication that their partner isn't happy sexually.
Plus virtually all men can get off easily from penetrative sex (unless they throttle their dick), whereas this is not the case for all women and the clitoris is a more reliable hotspot.
>>17360524
If you're hiding all of this from your bf then you are basically already cheating. I would say he's a jerk for being unwilling to eat you out, but if you don't realize your mistake and confess soon then you're going to be a cheater for life.
Ask him if he's ok with it. If not the only good options are to dump him or to ask her to stop.
>>17360882
>then you are basically already cheating
Thats why I was thinking if it matters. She doesnt stop. She sent me a picture in some loose panties saying "I need to buy new ones tomorrow :(". In my current state its very hard to stop her
>>17360679
This, pleasuring a bitch is beta AF. If you actually care about whether she enjoys or not, kys now
>>17360023
Eating pussy is gross. To many germs. Plus, it smells bad. So hard to get it clean. Suck his dick in instead, much easier to keep clean. Such healthy.
>>17360422
You've crossed into emotional cheating now. Just break up wth him already if you aren't going to cut contact
>>17360925
Please break up with him before you have sex.
It's the right thing to do, and you won't lose anything except for a relationship you awkwardly remain in due to its sense of permanence instead of any quality.
>>17360023
>my bf doesn't put out
Break up with him.
>>17360805
Enjoy living with yourself after cheating.
>>17360947
What a faggot. Kek.
>>17360023
As a man, I have no idea how you can put your penis inside someone for 5 years and yet find it repulsive to orally pleasure your intimate other on some delusional grounds of hygiene. I don't even understand how it wouldn't even be desireable on some level.
Tell the dumb brat that he's going to eat you out, or you're leaving him for a more competent man. Then shove his face in there, and if he complains tell him to suck it up. Literally and otherwise.
He's been with you since 16 and it's prevented him from growing up sexually. This is for his own good.
OP you're such a whore, just break up with the kid already. Not like it really matters since you're already cheating but if you have a shred of decency left if you you'll break up with his beta ass before you go and contract 10 stds.
>>17360023
Dump him and find a guy who's enthusiastic about eating pussy OP. My boyfriend always wants to lick me for hours, yours should too.
>>17360589
This is the only sound advice
>>17360023
>Where republicans think homosexuality comes from.
>>17360608
Stop lying to yourself idiot you clearly want her to eat you out. It's morally wrong to cheat on your man you're supposed to cut contact.
Staying loyal is about resisting temptation. This lesbian is that temptation, you wanna nut strong on her tongue. Just don't lie to yourself! Be fucking honest! It's an anonymous board!!!!!
>>17361514
Dude, shut up. You sound like an idiot. It's not cool to force someone to do a sexual act. You manchild people are allowed to like what they like. And dislike what they dislike
>there are actually this many factors legitimately concerned about this
Is ok even in the Fucking thread anymore
Whoa! Girls can do that? Like literally state desires and needs? WHOA!
This deserves a Medal, Girls can actually tell Boyfriends what they actually want without any shame... Whoa...
"Guys got left behind"
>>17361960
It's not cool to force them, but it's fine to leave them if you're not satisfied.
>>17360553
this
your bf probably is a really nice guy who doesnt want to embarrass you about how bad your pussy stinks on a regular basis
the lesbo will probably be disgusted when she realizes and go down for 30-40 seconds max and play it off somehow
kek
OP here. All the insults in this thread have really made me wanna just end this already. I just dropped the mall and texted her
>Come over and eat me out instead
Fuck it. I might regret it once the adrenaline cools off but right now Im excited
>>17360679
That's like saying driving your kid to school is submissive.
And frankly, there's nothing more bitchlike than being constanty worried about being perceived as "dominant."
>>17360052
Why do you let a woman to hostigate you?
>search thread for "fat"
>0 Results
Really? No one asked this chick if she was fat? She trifles with lesbians, who are usually disgusting overweight dykes, and NO ONE thinks to ask OP if she is fat and has a disgusting fat girl smelly pussy? That might be the issue.
I love eating a girl out. I'd rather eat a girl out than get my dick sucked. I do it for all my gf's. I know enough to know that fat girls smell and taste worse, which isn't hard to realize, even before tou go down there.
Op, how tall are you and how much do you weigh?
>>17360422
You kind of have, but it's really up to your boyfriend. He might find it cute or he might be angry, it just depends on the guy.
I can't tell you whether or not you should be honest with him, that's really up to you. But you need to realize that if you cheat (even just emotional cheating) not only will you be an asshole, there's a chance that your boyfriend will find out and if he does you will feel like an asshole 100 times over.
I'm gonna go ahead and say you should consider asking him for a threesome, citing his lack of appetite for pussy.
>>17362342
OP is undoubtedly fat or has a smelly pussy. I dated a girl once who had a naturally repulsively smelling pussy. I stayed with her because I cared for her. She eventually cheated though - probably because I wouldn't touch that thing with my mouth. Just break up and get yourself a good douche (both literally and metaphorically).
>>17362537
>suggesting douching your vagina
That's a shortcut to getting it infected. Diet was more likely the issue, or well, a combination of diet and her natural smell.
>>17362342
If OP's boyfriend usually likes pleasuring women but feels that OP doesn't make the cut, he is a retard for staying with her for five years nonetheless.
>>17360023
See
>> 17362580
>>17360023
Is sex with a lesbian still cheating?
If I lunch you in the face with my left hand is it still assault?
>>17362602
Yes you fucking retard.
Why are female problems always such a fucking non-problem?
>omg there's like this wild rabid dog in my apartment, it's biting me and shitting all over the place, also it might have rabies
>just get rid of it, you dumbass
>but like, its not mean all the time and its warm and fuzzy
>are you fucking retarded call animal control NOW
>you don't know the dog like i do and my phone is like on the other side of the apartment, i cant be assed to get it
>you're such a fucking idiot, i hope you die
>everyone is just mean to me in this thread, anyways ive decided to keep the dog
Every fucking time
>>17362752
When you live life on easy-mode, even the slight discomfort can be a problem for you.
If you do this OP, dump him he doesn't deserve this kind of treatment. You are risking him disease, just leave him. enjoy your regret.
>>17360052
Let that girl blow your fucking mind. Then dump the dude
Don't do it behind his back. Don't do it if you wouldn't be fine with him sucking off some dude. Don't pretend you're not bi.
Okay so Im a fucking retard apparently. She came over, we went into my room, a little chit chat, a little kissing, and she got on her underwear and went to eat me out. I stopped her and said I couldnt cheat on my bf this way. She got really mad and began calling me a tease and said I was cruel and she was gonna tell my bf and let him decide then. So I ate her out because I was feeling horrible.
Now Im crying and I think Im done with this subject.
>>17363008
Fucking kek. I hope this is real.
You deserve it either way. By the way, you've already been cheating on him.
>>17363008
Idiot.
>>17363008
hows that pussy taste? oh, you still cheated and you still haven't got your pussy licked
Actually, what makes you an asshole is talking about your sex life on snapchat. Your boyfriend has the right to assume your private life is private.
>>17363008
Go die OP you worthless cheater I hate you
Most dudes would love to see their gf get eaten out by another woman, especially if they can watch or be involved. If you were smart, you would have played it like it was for him. Tell him that you want to put on a show for him and that you want to suck his dick while a chick eats you out. He should be all over it. Don't cheat you dumb fuck.
>>17363573
As a guy in a loving relationship, I dont understand how a person could see their lover getting pleased by someone else and enjoy it. It just doesn't make sense.
>>17363008
... please just dump your boyfriend, he deserves better.
Drizzle some sprinkles on your puss-puss because he's being such a wuss-wuss.
>All these retards actually falling for cuckfag fanfic
Oh dear.
Tell him you want him to eat you out and that if he's going to be a bitch about then you'll have someone else do. There's a chance he'll think you're bluffing. Then if/when he finds out about you messing around with this other girl just be like "I wanted to be eaten out. You wouldn't. She would and has."
But that's probably a terrible idea so whatever.
>>17363008
for the love of god, get tested. tell him, do not have sexual intercourse with him until you have been tested in the right amount of time this is from 2-3 months
Are people really falling for this? Nobody would legitimately do this and basically ignore every post, update their status on the situation and be legit. This is some bait and everyone fell for it.
