Lying at beginning for relationship

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Lying at beginning for relationship 2016-07-15 04:28:01 Post No. 17358792
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Lying at beginning for relationship Anonymous 2016-07-15 04:28:01 Post No. 17358792 [Report]

>meet girl in college
>start dating afterwards
>talk about sexual history
>everythingokay.
>year and a half later move in
>talk about sexual history again
>inconsistent details
>inquire about it
>turns out she lied
I threw a huge shitfest and told her not to be in my apartment when I get back. Shes texting me talking about how it was just an innocent lie when we first started dating. Im fucking furious though.
I dont understand why she would do this. Why?

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Anonymous 2016-07-15 04:29:21 Post No.17358798
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Anonymous 2016-07-15 04:29:21 Post No.17358798 [Report]

Because she assumed you'd flip out apparently

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Anonymous 2016-07-15 04:30:25 Post No.17358802
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Anonymous 2016-07-15 04:30:25 Post No.17358802 [Report]

If she lied, she probably has a very deep sexual past. No one would have a reason to lie about no/few past sexual partners.

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Anonymous 2016-07-15 04:32:17 Post No.17358813
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Anonymous 2016-07-15 04:32:17 Post No.17358813 [Report]

>>17358792
>inconsistent details
>inquire about it
>turns out she lied
>threw a huge shitfest and told her not to be in my apartment when I get back.

...

Yeah it sucks she lied and a relationship should be based on trust... but, your response is not proportionate to the misdeed.

Right now nothing anyone tells you is going to connect with you because you're being irrational, self-pitying, and self-victimizing beyond what is appropriate.

Stop doing that.