I need help kicking a habit.
My inability to socialize in this new city I moved to has led me to have no friends and especially no significant other. Outside of work with people 40+ years older than me, I barely speak to anyone.
I have low self confidence in my looks and I am very afraid of even one person disliking me for any reason. I decided to create a second facebook account with hundreds of photos of hot guys posing as myself. I made sure these guys all looked extremely similar enough that they could pass as the same person. I took up a fake name and started to friend random women on this account. I started to flirt immediately by messaging them. By not being myself, I felt like I was finally able to flirt with someone. Coupled with the photos of extremely hot men, a lot of women actually started talking to me as well. Originally I was using this just as a way to talk to women sexually so I could jack-off to something that wasn't porn.
A few girls continue to talk to me and even like me. I always tell them that I can never meet them because I am doing some sort of job that keeps my communication only through text.
I created this profile because it almost doesn't feel real how easy it is to flirt with women since I am disguised as a good looking man. I have pure confidence when I pose as this person. I thought there were no repercussions, until I realized I was playing with these girl's emotions. These girls were actually falling for this "character" I put on and sometimes I started to fall for the girl as well.
I need to stop this habit. I need to stop talking to these girls and stop doing this. This can't be healthy. Any advice?
Yeah, posing as someone else isn't happy. Realize that you identified a potential solution to your self confidence problem.
Try to figure out what makes these pictures of hot guys well, "hot". Then make your best strides to become like them. Realize what flaws you think you may have and work on them and try and fix them.
Basic go to advice that works with everyone:
1. Sleep more
2. Excercise more (go the gym, get /fit/)
3. Eat healthy
4. Get /fa/
5. Be more social, literally just talk to people
Use that as a starting point then as you go on more and more nuances about yourself will reveal themselves and then you can focus on improving those individual quirks that you deem undesirable.
Don't give up your own personal self image in this process though. Be yourself. Just be a better version of yourself that you know you can be~
I'm going to let you in on a fuckin secret dude.
You are that man. The man that was hitting up those chicks like a pro? That was you dude.
Yeah, being a very handsome guy will give you an easier time getting casual sex and easier time getting those first dates but it doesn't make those things impossible if you're an average joe.
Here's my advice man, walk into a women's salon, yep, a women's salon, and sit down for a haircut and ask a few of the hairdressers or even customers how you could best style yourself. If you are asking honestly and seriously, these women will answer you honestly and seriously. Trust me on that.
What you might think is your best option could be the reason you're not confident in your looks. For some people all it takes is a change in haircut or growing/shaving facial hair or just a simple change in clothing to really change their own perception of themselves and even other's.
Change something up if you have to, just always remember you CAN find women to date if you turn that fantasy persona into your reality persona.
Best of luck my friend, you suave son of a bitch.
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walk into a women's salon
Isn't this insanely creepy?
