Is it weird that everytime I think about my bf leaving me I get panic attacks? He's been hanging around this girl recently and is definitely cheating on me but I'm afraid that if I confront him about it, I'll lose him. I would rather him cheat on me privately than face a break-up. I love him so much.
>>17328397
Why would you want to do that to yourself? You deserve better, not being used to he can go fuck other girls. I know you may love him but if he's indeed cheating on you, leave him.
I promise you you will get over him soon enough and find someone way better
>>17328397
how do you know he's cheating on you?
Sounds like you've got a universal problem. Thankfully, the solution is so universal I composed a little song to go with it.
-To the tune of "Be our guest" from Beauty and the Beast
Dump his ass
Dump his ass
It's a romantic impasse
When you rely on a guy
Who always cheats and lies
Done by you
Yes it's true
State the facts and that's his cue
To get cracking with his packing
Because you have found him lacking
Dump his ass
Dump his ass
To continue would be crass
When the only winning move is not to play
You can find a better guy
Whose love won't be a lie
Dump his ass
Dump his ass
Have a nice day!
(for a change)
>>17328405
I've never loved someone like him and he treats me well, I don't know how I would live without him.
>>17328410
Several of our friends told me, I was in denial for a while but it explains why he's been so nervous around me
How old are you like 15?
>>17328483
bruh.
do they have hard evidence of this?
if he's cheating on you then nut up and move the fuck on.
it's pathetic.
>>17328483
Honey he clearly doesn't treat you that well if he's cheating on you. He is not the only man you will love, I promise you that. If you just let him get away scott free after cheating on you, imagine what else he'll do.
It'll be hard but it'll be better in the end, you need to break up with him.
>>17328494
We are both 22
>>17328495
I got info from at least 3 different people that he's been showing up to parties and events he never even told me about with a girl who sounds similar to his ex and when we got together I knew he still had feelings for her.
I don't know how to approach it because if he is cheating he probably doesn't want to date me anymore, and if he isn't then I will feel like a moron
>>17328500
He's also my best friend, we've been together(platonically and then romantically) for years. I just dont know what I would do if things ended poorly between us
>>17328524
Oh, well are you like hideous or something?
>>17328524
Then end it so you guys are still on good terms.
>>17328397
>>17328536
I guess I wouldn't say that I am conventionally attractive. I am frequently mistaken for a young, petite boy
>>17328565
Are you fuckin with me?
>>17328565
post pics
>>17328552
I feel like it will be hard for me to remain calm and not freak out on him and start an argument once I actually let loose. I will have to do it and confront him eventually though, I think I am just stalling and feeling sorry for myself. Thank you.
>>17328565
Pics. Now.
>>17328586
That's the smartest thing you've said so far.
Stop worrying about losing him. You've already lost him. You just can't admit it to yourself yet, and you're in denial hoping that this will work out so that you stay together.
>>17328483
Honey, they are jealous of what the two of you have. Situations like yours, with tales from these so-called friends, happen so often... If they had proof, that would be one thing, but I bet they offer nothing but words.
You do seem to believe these lies, and that simply won't do! You need to talk to your man. Don't worry, as I have no doubt he will understand your concern, as a few of these so-called friends are telling you these hurtful stories.
Just have a candid talk with him.
>>17328653
Are you retarded or something?
You got kids with him?
>>17328653
What a load of shit.
>>17328676
Do you know which movie or show that's from?
>>17328714
Mother Fuckin Quantum Leap dog. 80's baby.
And what are you gonna do when he gets the other girl preggers?
>>17328766
she'll take care of and raise her husband's child like the cuck she is.
>>17328397
I actually felt the same way about the thought of being separated from my at-the-time gf, but twist was I was the cheater...
I was fucking 16 ok? But anywho, you shouldn't feel so deeply for someone who doesn't for you, learn to separate from more malignant things before they get to hurt you first
