Dude, your bi curious or maybe juat even fucking curious... i say find a nice fag and make out a bit, see where that leads .. if you like it then persue it.

1 TIP from a fellow faggot (not gay but i am a user of 4chin....) dont worry about how the world sees you and your actions. Your only concern and goal in life should be to be happy and content within yourself. Thats it. If you can acheive that your doing better then 99% of the world.
Fuck your family if they hate gays. Its 2016 not 1970's.... homophobia and racism shouldnt wven be a fucking thing any more. The onky reason it is is because it gets passed down to younger generations. (You being a prime example). Also, all religion is baseless and flawed. SOME of the ideals are worth noteing but nit much if them (be kind to others etc). You have a chance to have a great life dude, your trained, young, disciplined and ambitious. Dont throw all that away because you were raised by religious bigots.

GL annon.

Were you interested in her beforehand? Are you sure your lack of interest in her is because of these feelings, or could it be for some other reason?

>>17308166
Thanks man, im just hoping this is just a weird phase. Id hate to see my family torn apart over this. Specialy after all the hard work iv put to make em proud.

And if it turns out to just be a fling,is it worth it? I also feel like if i do go through with this ill regret it right then and there.

>>17308172
To be honest i was mostly interested in her looks, we shared some interests but at this point i no longer feel much attraction to the opposite sex.

>>17308190
Well, it seems pretty tough. If you're genuinely not interested in her, the relationship should naturally end at some point. Beyond that, perhaps try experimenting with other men and see what happens. There's not much advice I can give you beyond that. It's your responsibility to yourself to do what makes you happy in life, and if you're miserable or unhappy, it won't matter that much whether your parents are proud of you. If they're ashamed of you for making yourself happy, they were probably only really proud of a certain image of you, not really you.

>>17308190
No. Don't try >>17308166 's suggestion.
If you are truly god-fearing and are trying to avoid homosexual / bisexual behavior, you just have to struggle through it.
Don't cave to temptations. You're being worked at hard and don't give in.

I've had times in my life before where I've had things of a similar nature creeping into my head. I just shake my head and do my best to pay attention to something unrelated, or redirect it to something uplifting.

Don't cave in.

>>17308190
>>17308240
I found that the following helps, too:
-If you look at pornography, do your best to stop, at the very least for a time. This will help clear your head of thoughts sexual as a whole over time and effectively will reduce your tempation. I've permanently given up porn and masturbation, and have been clean for over a year, and the thoughts stopped coming.
-Perhaps try dating other girls if you truly can't love the one you have now. Try to be genuine in the relationships you want to gain, not just for sex. Think of them as humans.

>>17308240
>>17308250
OP, you can also try this, but after about a year you'll realize it's retarded and you'll be in the same dilemma again

>>17308235
>>17308240
Yeah,maybe i just need to find another woman, but i feel like i should talk to someone about it. I know keeping this bottled up inside cant be good for me.

Should i see a therapist or something?

>>17308190
>>17308250

And I mean those things with all due respect to >>17308166 . I have never once found relief from my sexual thoughts and temptations by pursuing them further, except for only a very, very brief period. If you're trying to avoid this, staying strong is the best thing you can do IMO. Not saying the temptations will go away immediately or even completely, ever, but you will be more satisfied and uplifted in your self-image than if you were to pursue them...forever.

>>17308261
I have yet to return to the boat that I once was in and had porn and masturbation not been such a disgusting thing to get into in the first place, overcoming it would be the greatest, most joy-bringing thing I've ever done.

>>17308262
Therapy is definitely an option. I'd recommend seeing advisors from a church, perhaps from the one you attend if you do so. If not, I'm sure any church will help you out and provide good counsel. Or, yes, just therapy if you think that'll do the trick. I don't doubt it would.

>>17308262
It's all up to you. Maybe you'll feel happier with a new girlfriend, maybe you won't. If you think seeing a therapist would help, you can try that as well.

>>17308240
This moron is the perfect example of the religious bigots raising the new generation.
>>17308166
Had good adv
>>17308190
When you get to the nitty gritty of it all you can do ifms put yourself in a situation where you well and truly know what you want. Then after you know you can decide what you want to do with your life.
Like >>17308166
Said all you should be concerned with is your own happyness