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>be me
>be in middle school
>infinite lust for pussy because puberty
>deep down know im a 4/10 and awkward as hell
>also still in fucking middle school
>meet 7/10 weeb girl
>kind of a bitch at first but soon loosens up
>on my birthday she sends me an email
>expecting generic happy birthday message
>actually asking me out
>o shit
>panic a little because I never saw it coming
>agree to dating her
>awkward middle school romance
>all we do is hug but mostly the same as before
>for once I don't just wanna fuck everyone
>i think I understand love
>she dumps me
>tells me she asked me out as a prank at a sleepover
>tells me she kept it going out of pity
>tells me nobody will ever really love me
>feels bad
>time passes
>never forget what she told me
>never try with any more girls
>a year later I reconnect with her
>she's a SJW now
>don't understand SJW rules yet
>constantly scolded for doing "triggering" things
>don't even know what trigger means yet
>she tells me bruises trigger her
>sends worst bruise possible like the little shit I am
>she freaks
>reminds me that I'm a failure of a human
>stops talking
>k
>3 years later
>still remember what she said
>completely accepted my fate
>reconnect with her a 3rd time
>still an SJW but mellowed out a bit
>get close with her again
>slowly reveal my big secrets
>tell her when I got raped in elementary school
>we end up dating again
>actual couple stuff this time
>she actually loves me I think
>enjoy life for once in years
>one day she goes silent
>posts pictures of her and my friends hanging out
>friend tells me she said she hates me
>I try to talk to her about it
>silent for 4 days
>finally responds
>tells me I was a terrible person
>tells me I was a disappointment
>asks to be just friends again
>I say no because I'm too much of a mess for that
>days later find out she's talking shit about me
>still isn't over her
>can't do anything regardless
>months pass
>I'm over it
>find out she's still talking shit
>two can play at that game
>make fun of her made up gender to a friend
>someone shows her the chat record
>SJW rage
>openly posts about it
>loopholes a statement I made to claim I'm stalking her
>I just checked her Twitter once
>I was having a bad time after break up that's all
>posts that I'm some sort of sick bastard that's gonna attack her
>says she's not safe
>I wouldn't hurt a fly I swear
>openly posts that I lied about rape story
>she has 200 followers
>a lot of people I know
>sends me message telling me to stop stalking her
>don't make fun of her made up gender
>I say ok
>also ask for her to be an adult and not do the posting she did
>she takes everything I say out of contexts
>posts it to make me look bad
>tells people about my rape stuff
>tells them I made it up
>actually ready to die
>can't do anything about it or I'll look bad
>tries to tell people I molested her
>too far
>uses it as blackmail to keep me quiet
>can't do anything about it
>it's been months
>I'm still fucked up from everything she's done to me
>thinking about it a lot rn
>think about it a lot period
>sometimes can't sleep over it
Help me robots.
Sorry about the long post, I just felt like I should explain the whole thing in detail.
I am sorry I don't have much advice to give on this but I am very sorry she did this to you. If possible, can you avoid her, women like that never seem to be worth it.
>>17284523
I've been really working on it. Problem is, I have a lot of friends who associate with her. Some of which used to tell her literally everything I told them. I've since stopped talking to them, but it's hard when a lot of them end up mentioning her in one form or another.
>>17284527
As rough as it is to say, you have to power through it man. It won't last forever, nor will she be in your life forever. Make new friends, get away if needed but don't let this rule over ya.
ITT: A single bitch runs your life.
>>17284537
This. Get away from everyone. If those people do appreciate you, they will ask you what happened. Otherwise you're better off without them. Find new people and get the fuck away from that bitchy psycho.
>M-muh trigger
And never associate with tumblrinas.
>>17284557
I agree 110%
>>17284557
I'm working on that. But even so, sometimes I'll just remember everything outta nowhere and relive the pain and suffering it gave me. I'm still trying to find a way with dealing with it so that it doesn't pop up as much, or rather I don't hurt as much when it does.
>>17284586
I know the feeling, a person made me feel that in the past. Get busy and get away from her circle. Meet people and engage in things you wish you had. Do what makes you happy. That's an assured remedy.
I've just been through so much in my life already. Rape, scars, 2 parent divorces, a pedophile step dad, lots of bullying, lots of depression. But it's always this that my mind dwells on and gets upset over. Maybe it's the fact that she trivialized my problems to make me seem like a bad person, maybe it's the fact she messed up the way I see myself and the way I act around others, maybe it's the fact that she went against her SJW code and claimed that I made up rape, without giving any evidence I did. Whatever it is, it always troubles me and trust me, this is helping. Thanks y'all.
>>17284623
>maybe it's the fact that she went against her SJW code and claimed that I made up rape, without giving any evidence I did
>I made up rape, without giving any evidence I did
>against her SJW code
No no, you don't understand. She's doing exactly what the SJW code says: it's okay if a female does it!
>>17284630
That's true tho. She used a lot of loopholes like that to do things most SJW's cry about.
