I have a fuckbuddy who is a little strange. We started having sex when she just flat out asked me one day if I would fuck her. I was honest with her and told her yes, to which she pulled her panties off and I fucked her on the floor of my apartment.
We've been having sex for a few months, three days a week just about, and its just been weird... she always tells me do whatever I want to her. I don't know her boundaries, in fact I don't know if she even has any. I have choked her, smacked her, tied her up, stuck toys inside of her, done things to her in public, but she always seems to enjoy it... she gets off on whatever I seem to do. I even pissed on her without asking and she was grossed out for a few seconds then almost seemed to get into it instantly.
Is she faking it all? her orgasms feel real, she gets really fucking wet, but can she possibly be faking it all? How far can I try pushing her? I've threatened to tie her up and let my friends use her like a fuck toy and she just seemed to get aroused by it.
I recommend that you ask her about boundaries. It is a very important discussion which cannot wait. The longer you put off this conversation the more you are likely to randomly hurt her by mistake. The inverse is true, she also risks hurting you if she pressures you toward something you aren't prepared for. Communication is very important. Ask her about her boundaries and discuss your own.
Holy shit you met a goddess of sex. Tape her.
>>17276083
>Is she faking it all?
She wants to be used. I don't think it really matters.
>How far can I try pushing her? I've threatened to tie her up and let my friends use her like a fuck toy and she just seemed to get aroused by it.
I think you should have fun but also be aware that this girl obviously has a screw loose. Make sure not to fly too close to the sun on this one. Things can turn from a lot of fun to a Saw movie real quick when you're dealing with girls like this. If she starts going coco puffs you might want to consider an exit strategy.
Also, you opened by calling her strange but I'd personally feel more than a little strange tying up a psychotic woman and watching my buddies drop trou and pound her.
That's a little unnecessary don't you think?
>>17276095
Whenever I ask her what her limits are, she only says really vague things, she won't let me take video or pictures... but I've blindfolded her and spanked her ass until it was cherry red. I've Mouthfucked her brutally until she vomitted... I made her dress really slutty and skimpy (shes chubby and really shy about her body normally) and fingered her in a restaurant
>>17276096
That is one of the few things shes absolutely said no to, other fucked up things are fine though.
>>17276120
I threatened to do it, to see how far I could push her, I didn't expect her to get turned on by it... I have tied her up, fucked her, came on her, and left her though... only to come back and fuck her when I got it up again.
What about beastiality?
>>17276128
haven't brought it up, I did make her wear pigtails and dress up in a little girl costume and she even acted the part... calling her pussy her no no spot and calling me mister.
May as well keep pushing her limits and see how far the rabbit hole goes.
Try for impregnation next.
>>17276122
If she has difficulties answering your question about boundaries then that's ok. You can work through the conversation together by making suggestions. You can mention any activity and ask her if she's into that or if she isn't. You can also explain the activities you are not willing to try. For example if you are unwilling to do anything that involve scat, urine, knives, permanent skin injuries or rape roleplay then discuss these things with her. Ask her if there is anything she wanted to try but was too shy to ask. Communication is the key to everything. Always keep it safe, sane and consensual. And most of all, have fun!
There is is this site called mojoupgrade. Helps with figuring out shared kinks. Maybe try that too.
>>17276137
Its not a communication issue, its a, holy shit she is just fucking down for anything. I candlewaxed her tits while fucking her with a popsicle, then I mouthfucked her while pulling her hair and slapping her face. When she was tearing up from me slapping her I stopped and she coughed a bit and asked why I stopped, and I shouldn't be afraid of putting a little unf into the slaps.
Simple.
She's incredibly sub.
gets off on getting others off.
Which means if you're into it, so is she.
Gross thats just fucking nasty vanilla sex is fine
>>17276173
It is a communication issue. I do not personally know this girl but it is very very statistically likely that it is a communication issue. I make this statement because it is very unlikely that she is down for everything. She may seem like she has no boundary because she has yet to reject any sexual activity but that is a false impression. Keep asking questions and you will definitely stumble on a limit. Waxplay, bondage, hair pulling and slapping are far from being the limit of sexual deviancy. Very, very far from it. For example if you propose to her that you murder an old lady while masturbating and then fuck the corpse together, she will probably say no. Therefore that is one boundary identified. It is that simple. Of course you don't need to start with such an outrageous question. If you want to know her boundary in a more formal conversation then simply ask her questions about her preferences toward socially deviant sexual conducts. Is she into bestiality? Is she into rape roleplay? Is she into scat? Is she into branding? Is she into knife play? Ask her and you will receive the answers you seek. Do not put off this conversation. Do not keep doing incrementally more dangerous sexual activities until either one of you is hurt. I cannot recommend this course of action. It is not wise.
>>17276122
If she is chubby she thinks you're doing her a favor by fucking her and will let you do anything to her short of real injury (hopefully). Just have a safe word and call it a day like normal people
>>17276197
i feel sorry for the likes of you
you probably order margheritta pizza too
>>17276178
Any advice on what to do with such a person? I want to know what she likes or prefers too but she is not talking to me about it. Only thing I know she is sub as hell.
>>17277357
Feather tickling torture
Anal while dildoing her pussy
Forced orgasm
>>17277370
Well at least one of those is possible
I agree with fellow anon, she's sub as fuck. You should have the boundary talk asap, and gradually try the more "mainstream" kinks like complete bondage, public sex, threesome, dp, maybe even bestiality and rape fetish with a little luck.
It's not weird at all, it's just fairly uncommon to find a girl like that among all the rest of the trash.
Even if you don't have a talk about boundaries at least establish a safe word she can use if needed.
>>17277641
Her always being sub can get tiresome. Sometimes you just want her to take charger or initiative.
>>17276083
She's a sub, this is not all that strange. BDSM is a common and enjoyable addition to sex.
You guys need a safeword and hand signal (it's a word/phrase or gesture you use when things are going too far for her and you actually need to stop).
Have her come up with those, ASAP.
As for boundaries, talk about anything dangerous before doing it (such as extreme public acts where you might get photographed and have the pics sent to your workplace or arrested for public indecency/etc, also blood, shit, ass2mouth, etc).
And you're probably not dumb enough to actually try bestiality, but just in case: fucking don't.
>>17277357
She wants to do whatever you want to do to her, basically. You're the dom, it's your job to come up with all this shit.
You gotta get creative, that's one of the most important parts of being a good dom.
Talk to other doms and subs for ideas. /d/ is a pretty good resource, a lot of threads have long-ass in-depth discussions where people share experiences, tips, and recommendations.
In general, think of the primary themes:
>her losing or giving up control over her body
>her not knowing what's going to happen next or what you plan to do
>her being embarassed/humiliated
>her having to be "good enough", struggling to live up to your expectations
>you using her for your own pleasure
>you doing whatever random shit comes to mind, just on a whim
>you setting goals or limits for her
>you being impulsive and dominant ("strip, right here right now, i want to see you")
>etc
Figure out which themes turn her on the most by watching her reactions.
And always keep in mind that when you watch BDSM porn, they only sometimes show the aftermath, the recovery part where you make sure she gets off properly, where you hold her while she whimpers or cries, where you rub her down with lotion after whipping her ass, etc.
A good dom cares, and it sounds like you have what it takes. Good luck, and enjoy.
>>17277679
That is some really good advice but I'm not sure I have it in me to be a dom all the time. I need her to come up with things too. I can't decide and do ecerything on my own. Sounds like it would make life and sex more a chore than something intimate. Though It makes my dick diamonds I know I still need her to leap on me sometimes or just do something on her own accord.
From what I have read about this girl in this thread it seems to me that she was sexually abused when she was younger.
Sounds kind of crazy. What are your limits OP?
