>be me
>28 yo
>gf is 26
>be togehter for 2 years now
>be happy with her
>vice versa
>plan to marry and have kids within the next 3 years
>have much lower sexdrive than her
>the operative word is sex
>once per week would be enough for me
>she'd like to have sex every day
>enjoy to fap every day though
Not fapping doesn't really help. I am bisexual though and would like to suck a cock once in a while, which of course is nothing she could help me about. Not interested in satisfy this needs by cheating on her with a dude.
What do? I don't want her to get frustrated enough to have an affair or something. Whats wrong with me?
>>17271114
Holy shit you are me except for bisexual part.
My cheated on me a month before wedding in my case, better stay alert man.
Those damn bitches.
>>17271114
Mismatched sex drives are not uncommon, though a little more common with the guy wanting more. Your bisexuality is not really relevant, though your masturbating is. It suggests that what you're really put off by is the whole extended process of lovemaking.
Talk it over with her. Maybe not every lovemaking session has to be the full adventure. Maybe she'd be happy with an occasional quickie between the big events, and maybe you can bypass the occasional wank to slip her one.
>>17271123
I don't think she'd cheat on me. I don't even think she would have sex with another man even if she had my aproval.
>>17271129
>Maybe she'd be happy with an occasional quickie between the big events, and maybe you can bypass the occasional wank to slip her one.
I did that and she was happy with it indeed. But its just so hard to brace myself up for sex.. Its just exhausting, it doesn't feel as good as jerking off. And she doesn't give a good handjob either.
But its not her fault, i never enjoyed sex that much.. At least not at on a regular basis..
>>17271235
>I don't think she'd cheat on me. I don't even think she would have sex with another man even if she had my aproval.
The shitty part is that I've thought the same
I'm the girl in that kind of relationship.
It's shit because it feels like he isn't as sexually attracted to me as I am to him, as I get rejected even for blowjobs... Even when I can feel he's semi-hard.
I was going to talk with him about it, but for the past few times I have he's had sex with me just before I get to the end of my patience.
I want to ask you, is there anything the girlfriend in the situation could say or do to make you want more sex?
>>17271983
I'm the second guy ITT.
I don't even know what's the reason.
I felt like I was tired with work and daily routine, and sex was more of a hassle than pleasure, like I was physically and hormonally burned out.
It's not like I was attracted to other women, I was just not interested in sex at all.
Even now I fap like once a week and that's enough for me.
Maybe try to give him clod turkey and put an ultimatum on porn. Do not make any moves on him during that time, let him rest for a while even from you.
My girl was very needy and possessive, I think that was also burning me out.
