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How do you deal with being irredeemably ugly? And I don't
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How do you deal with being irredeemably ugly?

And I don't mean like ungroomed, kinda fat or not having fasion sense. I'm talking legit even-my-mama-won't-call-me-pretty -ugly.
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Focus on doing things that make you happy! I remember having a lot of friends who were horrifically ugly, one guy in particular I remember in high school. He was Muslim, super duper skinny, horrible hair, bad skin, patchy facial hair, lazy dresser, and a lazy eye. But he was really cool, always really nice and he had a lot of friends. He always shared snacks with me and had the best jokes. If you're generally a happy and friendly person, I think you'll find being ugly isn't the worst thing in the world. You could be me, a girl with a nice face but 5' 5" and 207lbs. Being a fat girl is worse than being an ugly one.
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>>17254671
I'm also clinically depressed and suicidal about 40% of the time.
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>>17254665
If your personality is good, and ure funny, nobody will care how you look. Legit guy who looks MAX 3/10 got a wife 7/10. Just cause hes funny, hes not even earning decent money. Also Ive dated a guy 2/10 not kidding... at all..I guess Im 6/10 myself. And I felt close to him cause he made me smile and we had a lot of stuff in common. So It doesnt really how you look, unless you want to date very wain girl/guy. Looks fade my dear. ALSO look how many hot celebrities looked SO BAD in theyr teens and 20's, in theyr 30-40's theyre hot bombs! So maybe you will mature, and show it
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>>17254692
I'm not going to grow from this or un-bald. Considering I'm 22 and look ugly 40 right now, I wouldn't get my hopes up.

I fucking hate funny people, they're obnoxious and annoying.

Besides a complete lack of respect for anyone's dignity or feelings, how do I become one?
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>>17254665
Believe it or not, women do not choose boyfriends primarily on looks. (Women are much less vision-oriented in general - that's one reason most porn is for men). Women are much more attracted by personality, sensitivity, humor, dependability.

And if you're a girl, be aware that although guys are more likely to be immediately attracted by looks, they too are ultimately looking for someone caring, supportive and fun.

So, as the others have already suggested, be a nice guy (or gal) and it may take a little longer but someone with good taste will find you.
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>>17254695
What if I don't happen to have much going on concerning pure hearts of gold, either?
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Maybe you will find someone with same interests as you, also lower your standarts? Also maybe try using make up? Men also can wear make up if ure a guy! Get new style of clothing! Be charming and nice!
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>>17254762
Someone I know summed my face up as "like Peter Dinklage fucked a hippo". Picture that with acne scars and figure how to fix it with makeup.

What kind of interests attract people?
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>>17254767
Mainstream media. Books, clubs. Join some fun courses, like cooking. Also I think Peter is hot. You can fix pimples with make up, scars too. Maybe pluck your eyebrows? Grow a beard? I assume youre a man. Maybe you should join place where you can meet new people.
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Are you the average-looking guy that posted a thread yesterday whining about even whores rejecting him, and then one of his acquaintances spilled the beans that he was a pathological liar drowning in self-pity?
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>>17254801
No. I'm just ugly.
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