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The desire to have sex with other women...
2016-06-12 06:19:21 Post No. 17246984
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Anonymous
2016-06-12 06:19:21
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I'm really tired of having sex with my girlfriend. I feel like everything has been done, explored and experimented with and it's just not exciting anymore.
My recently (about a year) single friend tells me that the desire is fleeting, not worth acting upon and fulfilling it is unsatisfying. These are all things that I can agree with, not from personal experience but I can see how it would be an empty sort of thing, expectations and fantasies are never what you imagine them to be.
But I've been with her for 6 years now and for the second half of our relationship I've battled the desire to have sex with other women. There are so many other girls out there, so many of them good looking, differently shaped to my girlfriend and with different attitudes towards sex. I want to explore all of these.
Before the monogamy brigade conducts a full blown blitzkrieg on this thread I want to stress that I am not talking about cheating or being unfaithful here. I'm talking about this persisting and still very strong desire to "sow my wild oats" that I can't seem to get rid of. My eyes are always wandering and when I watch my friends with other women I become jealous.
How do I come to terms with living a monogamous life? I really do feel bored at this stage but it doesn't at all feel like legitimate reason to just end an otherwise happy relationship.