How do I stop being a cringe lord? Any advice?
get fit, don't watch porn, don't watch anime, talk to more people and get better social skills
>>16489195
I was reading my past Okcupid messages. I kept telling myself the reason why the conversation didn't continue was because I said this one thing.
>>16489203
Don't fucking do that, faggot.
What I've noticed in the past few years is that the only difference between someone who is cringeworthy and someone who is just funny and cool is that cool people don't go back to what they have said and don't let anyone to think too long about what they said.
I tend to drink a lot and I talk to people online when I am drunk. I've seen the shit I say, it's better to not look at it. If I don't go back on my messages in my mind I've said nothing wrong, I don't acknowledge what I've said.
>>16489225
That's just delusional
>>16489195
>Don't watch anime
just waiting for the weeb rage.
>>16489195
>>16489232
> I'm not any of the guys you're responding too
I'm fit, have good social skills, and watch anime. The trick with things like anime is to keep that type of stuff on the down low and hide your powerlevel. A thing with a lot of weebs is they make anime their whole lives and consider their magic girl waifu shit works of art and spaz out whenever anyone disagrees with them because they put so much repressed emotion into anime and it becomes their whole lives.
Basically, you can watch your animes, but don't tell your girl about them or try to involve her in anyway.
>>16489231
he's right to a point though. worrying and being anxious about things you said just stifles conversation and makes you more awkward, you only get better by doing it. if you've reaaally said something wrong you'll know.
>connection error. aborted.
why
>>16489251
That connection error is what happens in my conversations. It's from your Adblock
>>16489250
You're not helping, the weebs will still get salty anyway
not op, but i have a similar concern: im very sociable yet i dont have many people to hang out with. The thing is that, its always me whos calling the shoots. Its always me who proposes plans, i rarely get called
My friends enjoy my company, but i feel that while i only have this small cercle of friends to hang out, they have way more friends and thus they hang out with them more
Is this a legitimate concern? is there a way i could fix this?
>>16489174
Adversity creates character anon. I strongly suggest you build some.
As for conversations stopping because you apparently said something.. Im guessing it was something creepy ?
Most messages women get on dating sites are creepy. If you're not throwing shit one-liners looking for sex then that's a good start.
Remember people fucking love to talk about themselves so if you feel things are slowing down just ask a few questions and be genuinely interested in them. It really is that easy.
Don't interrogate. Just casually ask a question every now and then.
You can also chime in and tell them something about you as it helps build trust.
>>16489266
>Go build some character
you don't even fucking know me
>>16489231
I wrote a post better explaining what I mean, but then I realized that you're a faggot.
>>16489276
go build a character in fallout fig
I'm beginning to think it's not so much one particular thing I said that killed the conversation. I'm beginning to think that maybe it's a lack of interest that's killing it.
Everyone ITT gets a piece of the cringe crown
>>16489174
Pay close attention to things you say and how other (Normal) people tend to react/respond to them.
Its pretty easy.
>>16489261
How? I'm telling OP that he can have his animes as long as he doesn't obsess over it.
>>16489276
Well it's pretty fucking obvious if you're asking how to stop being a cringe lord on the 4chins.
Seriously if you think you have faced adversity in life feel free to say what. I can only assume you've been mothered most of your life and have never endured any kind of real challenge or adversity.
Honest advice. The hardest times in my life made me who I am today. When I was a kid I too had similar problems.
>>16489297
Even the obsessed ones think that it's a normal thing, and if you tell the opposite to them, they get really pissed at you.
