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I'm at college, I hate all these stuck up stereotypical millennial cunts who spam pound symbols and make duck faces and listen to ghetto inner city black music.

I know there are cool girls somewhere on campus, there has just gotta be there are like 20k total people.

Any ideas about the best places to look for them?
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What do you have to offer these girls?
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Also

>be me at a party
>some girl and her friend are on their phones on tinder
>they are laughing about all the matches they are getting
>I walk up and talk to them and they are nice to me and totally cool towards me, don't seem to have a single problem with me
>ask them what they are laughing about
>they tell me they use tinder just to see how many guys want to hook up with them
>tell me they have 0 intention of actually going anywhere with any of them
>they flat out tell me they do it for their ego and they tell me with a genuine non-anything negative smile
>I just walk away


Fuck this shit
Where are the girls that I can listen to classic rock with and laugh at the normies?
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>>17201720
Not being the guy version of what I just described that the non-shitty version girl must want to
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>>17201727

>Where are the girls that I can listen to classic rock with and laugh at the normies?

1993
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>>17201736
then where are the ones that I can just laugh at the normies with?
don't even have to have music involved
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>>17201735
Describe yourself. The good, as well as the bad.
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>>17201743
>>17201743
This thread is not going to turn into a hyper self-analyzation thread where you try to turn things around and act like the girls I described in the OP are actually super cool and nothing is wrong with them and I'm the problem

Answer the OP or go away
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>>17201750
'Quality' girls don't want to date guys who aren't themselves 'quality.' If you're having trouble finding the sort of girls you want, you're not as great of a guy as you think you are. If you were their male equivalent, you wouldn't have much trouble finding them. You're just as much of a 'normie' as these girls you look down on.
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>>17201756
>>17201756
Look imagine all the stuff that typical 19 year old millennial guys are like, they love social media, they love rap and pop music, they don't know shit about shit and are hardcore leftist
They are also super obnoxious and are just in general dipshits

I'm not any of that
So yeah I am the male equivalent, its just that people like me are few and far between and we don't have some magic vision that highlights others like us with some kind of aura in a crowd, so its hard to tell others like us from everyone else

Do you have any actual ideas about where these kinds of people congregate and how to seek them out or not?
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>>17201768
Are you rather tetchy because you've misplaced your fedora?
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>>17201779
#wesureshowedhim
#XD
#YOLO
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>>17201738
They don't exist. And the ones who might, frequent 4chan after emotional/sexual abuse as a child.
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>>17201796
So this is a generational thing and not just a location thing huh?

I mean I can handle getting the ones I hate so much to like me if that's all that's available, but I still wanna try to find a few diamonds in the rough if that makes any sense
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>>17201727
>they flat out tell me they do it for their ego

why do you think girls like guy friends? they use them as an ego boot because they know their "guy friends" want to bang them. also they can exploit them for free food
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>>17201805
Yep.

Try to go for the ones with prior abuse or daddy issues. Bad part is that they're very clingy, and they need a lot of emotional support. They can be really chill though.
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>>17201841
Yeah and then our resident faggot ITT thinks there's nothing wrong with girls like them and if your think otherwise your autistic
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>>17201856
It really makes you wonder just what the fuck is going on with our society that it takes girls with fucked up pasts to be normal
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I go to a large univ (50k people) and they're all pretty lame, maybe found a handful of people remotely worth talking to. and I've been here for 4 years.
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>>17201803
>>17201779
Aaaaaannd just like that, they rather attack OP because he has particular standards. Wow, amazing.
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>tfw when I have the opposite problem
I have alot of cool chicks who flirt with me constantly but I just wanna fuck some dumb bitches for now
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>>17201926
How did you meet the cool ones?
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If you think that you are somehow more interesting because you listen to classic rock, post memes, and browse 4chan, then you are a fucking retard.
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>>17201942
if you think what I described in the OP is equal to what you just laid out in terms of value then your fucking retarded
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>>17201961
you're*
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>>17201942
That's right OP, you better date a mediocre piece of shit, or else you'll have a superiority complex
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>>17201961
I feel like if you ask a dumb question, you're bound to get a dumb answer, which is essentially what you did. You asked a question about where all the 'cool' girls are in your area and you never said where your area is. Who the fuck is going to know if they're not there? Also, you're really not making a good case for why anyone who you'd be attracted to would be attracted to you. Tackling the problem as though it's not somewhat your fault is a pretty shitty tactic, but then again, you don't really care about that, do you? Maybe, next time you look at both internal and external causes instead of assume it's all an external problem.

Either way, let's get to the answer you probably want. If you're going to a college or a university within an inner city, there's bound to be either a student life building (like I have where I go) or some kind of student government. If you want to meet new people, you can choose to pick up some kind of club associated with your hobbies (if you manage to have any) or go to other celebratory events (greek week, public speakings, other events on campus). Now, if you're not interested in any of that, you're looking to answer an impossible question. You're asking where are the people you like without looking for any outlets to express your interests. Legitimately, you're not making an attempt, so getting upset on the internet at other people for their advice is pretty pathetic.

Have fun getting triggered by my post.
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>>17201986
Kill yourself normie
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>>17201715
How about an international student? Most aren't affected by the feminist bullshit happening all around here and they will most likely be fit, unlike the local land whales
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>>17202042
I'm at VCU which is in richmond va


So basically just do what I was planning on doing already, rush frats, join all the clubs I can, and be as active and friendly on campus as I possibly can

Is that it? Is there nowhere where these girls typically congregate and they are just scattered randomly?
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>>17202054
maybe
and yeah man there are tons of landwhales on campus its like 90% of all the girls are stacy cunts or are dyed hair landwhale feminists

or maybe you walk up to a girl whos not fat as hell and doesnt have any dyed hair, and somehow you can just tell shes not a stacy

she turns around and her whole face is mutilated by piercings

just fucking gross
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>>17202056
Your school will have a few bars and coffee shops where the hipsters hang out.
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>>17202056

The 15 Best Hipster Places in Richmond
https://foursquare.com/top-places/richmond/best-places-hipster
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>>17202056

Hipster culture is flourishing in Richmond...Richmond is home to a thriving culture of those who embrace a lifestyle different from the mainstream
http://m.richmond.com/entertainment/article_47456c64-9edd-5996-a194-b5d1d202ea16.html?mode=jqm
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>>17202056
I legitimately just told you where they congregate. They're either somewhere walking on campus, talking to friends, getting to class, not giving a fuck about you and your wants or their enjoying themselves finding other people just like you. If you're already passed your first/second semester, you should know your campus well enough and know where to go to find people. No one's ever just going to come to you, you've got to find them. That's really the only option outside of being that prick randomly trying to pick up girls on campus.
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>girls who like emojis and selfies and pop music are beneath me

I can tell you right now that any girl legitimately cool will want nothing to do with you. Cool people, regardless of gender, don't have a stick up their ass about petty bullshit like this. This is why they are so cool. They'll tolerate you because that's their way, but they probably won't invest any real time in someone who's a stick in the mud about really dumb shit like music preferences.

You're better off finding a self-loathing liberal girl that also has a victim complex against society. It may only work out for a few months, because eventually you'll both see yourselves aa victims to each other, but don't sweat! It'll probably validate your complex and allow you to reassert your petty beliefs as infallible in order to be happy, and you won't learn a thing from an endeavor.
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>>17202148
But girls who like emojis, selfies, and pop music are quite literally the worst.
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>>17202148
This. Most socially indept people tend to use emojis and listen to the occasional pop.
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>A college girl that doesn't suck
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WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA.

If she didn't suck, she wouldn't be in college, m9.
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>>17201750
>>17201768
If you have nothing to offer other than 'not well adjusted in modern social media age' you're going to have a hard time.

To meet girls that are similar to you, look at your interests more and chase them. You'll find girls along the way.
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>>17202167
I've dealt with a lot of different people in my life, and believe me, "normal" people make for awesome friends. I avoided them for a long time for many reasons, but at the end of the day, it was about me and my own personal insecurities rather than ever being about them.

Maturing as an individual and taking personal responsibility for your own feelings and opinions is one hell of a drug.
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>>17202072
>>17202088
>>17202079
Hipsters are generally faggots but I guess I'll give it a shot come next semester

>>17202148
>>17202178
The fact that neither of you think there's a single thing wrong with any of this cultural stuff and actually think that there's something wrong with a person themselves if they dislike it speaks volumes.

Yeah I can hide my hatred for it, I can wear the clothes and have the hair, I can act totally peachy towards people who are that shit incarnate, but inside I hate it. Modern US culture is toxic and anyone who literally, non-ironically enjoys "emojis" "selfies" and that other shit is literally human garbage.

>inb4 good luck faking it buddy

That's what's called deceit and its a skill that can be learned
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>>17202299
Someday you'll grow and mature and dedicate your thoughts and time to greater issues with "modern society" than emojis and snap chat. Times change. Your like the grumpy grandpa saying computers and sodomy are evil
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>>17202178
>>17202148
Hell I'm even learning the names of the songs that these people like and the names of the people that like them, I'm learning the slang that they use and just in general teaching myself their culture like some British explorer would teach himself the culture of some random savage native tribe before going in to interact with them, it's really not that hard.

Something else that ramped the disgust factor up to 11 was the other day when I was at my cousins house, she's like 22 and has already had a kid with some random bum and was stupid enough not to abort it or put it up for adoption, on the babies shirt it said "#ladiesman" and when she saw I saw it she out loud grinned and said "hashtag ladies man"

I smiled back and laughed a little bit and she was just so happy that I was acting so cool around her kid
Inside I wanted to call her a fucking retard
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>>17202476
>>17202148
>>17202178
**the names of the songs and the names of the people that make them

>>17202474
I wish things were the way they were in the 80s
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>>17202299
>Modern US culture is toxic and anyone who literally, non-ironically enjoys "emojis" "selfies" and that other shit is literally human garbage.

This is what the fuck I mean, thank you. You can either find this type of girl, or an obnoxious hipster girl. Both fucking suck. I don't know what the fuck to do.

I don't even use emojis ironically because people think I'm actually being serious.
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>>17202206
oddly enough out of all the people I've met on campus the fraternity chads seem to be the least faggy of all, relatively speaking

Like, they are still fucking bastards, but they are a different kind of bastard, they aren't leftist at all, they aren't hamplanets, they don't have died hair and they even go to the gym

They are still millennials and they are still obnoxious pains in the ass and have way too much ownership over the girl market, but ironically enough I'd rather be around them than most of the other people I run into

I guess being obnoxious wins out over being faggy and spamming pound symbols and EMOJIS XD
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>>17202481
>>17202481
No if you were alive then you'd bitch about it too and say you wished you lived in the 60s and glam rocket is complete laughable faggotry, and women possed no music talent, and there were loads of coke head degenerates
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>>17202503
I don't know why its so hard for you to get why I and other people feel so disgusted by 2010s culture and how radically different it is from everything that came before it even relative to the differences that previous decades had versus each other

Like:

80s vs 90s vs 00s
little differences

all of the above vs 2010s and its like a fucking alien planet
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>>17202490
>>17202299
>>17202167
Emojis are just the popularized version of reaction images, intended to help convey a message or tone through visual stimulus.
You've been using Emoji's ever since you started using 4chan, you hypocrites.
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>>17202543
We know. But they turned into cancer, just like "xD"
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>>17202554
They were always cancer, anon.
You're just upset that the normies have it now.
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>>17202509
If you ones anything about American history or I don't know, GREW UP in the 80s/90s you would know that's bullshit, kid. Trends repeat themselves with their own twists and new additions that reflect technology and society during an era. All decades are of course different, but don't romanticize the past that you probably haven't even experienced. Normie cancer has always existed, and silly trends that many perfectly "cool" people play along with and don't make a stupid deal out of it
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>>17202543
>>17202557

Preeeeetty much this.
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>>17202557
This. It's a fucking face or micro image of foot prints. You're acting like its a fucking otherkin fat acceptance sex convention. It's a fucking little yellow thumbs up. fucking go outside
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>>17202577
Why don't you go shove that little yellow thumb up your ass, fampai.
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Most college girls are loopy from what colleges teach now a days. Try to find a woman that does not put down others to make herself look better. There is a better chance of her not being crazy if so.
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>>17202543
We use inique and detailed pictures to convey emotion from sources that range from anything to everything

They use obnoxious cancerous CEO TM approved copy and paste mini pictures and they are always used in the context of other toxic shit
>>17202577
Its not just the pics themselves its what they represent, its like the staple of emblem of everything millennial, and everything millennial is toxic normie shit

The only thing I can think of is that your one of them, which wouldn't really be surprising since /adv/ is 2nd only to /soc/ in terms of normie infestation
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>>17202148
>emojis

only children like emojis and it makes me cringe when adult women use it.

>selfies

invented by the entitle generation known as millennials. also if you are into selfies you should really stick a gun at the end of your selfie stick.
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>>17202593
Why don't you shove your sharp edge up your peehole, normie
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>>17201715

they dont want to meet you tho
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>>17202605
I'm totally not. Don't even have them on my phone. Hate pop culture. No Facebook, ect. But I'm not an edgy 21 year old realize not all people who use some of these things are "toxic
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>>17202621
too bad, they don't know what I'm really like and they will meet me and they will like the fake persona I put off

>>17202623
You need to pick a side and stop fence sitting on this issue
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>>17202490
all women suck most of them don't even have a personality of their own and just copy off their boyfriends personality or copy off whatever guy she want to attract at that time.
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Alright so looking more into the hipster shit the one guy linked me it looks like they are definitely the lesser of the two evils (emoji XD people vs hipsters)

Guess I have some work to do when next semester shows up huh

>tfw chan culture isnt the norm irl
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>>17202659
This is a great gif, thank you my friend
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>>17202671
no problem homie
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OP, you need to stop categorizing people like that.
I for one, really dislike emojis and everything they represent, but I also know some amazing people that use them. Dismissing people over such things is immature, not to mention that the side of them you see is not what everyone's actually like.
Using the terms like "cool people" is really off-putting.
You should realize there's more to people than what's on their fb rpofile.
I do agree there's a lot of shallow dipshits and attention whoring and what-not, but that's no reason to distance from everyone.
Girls who try to stand out and listen to alternative music and are part of alternative culture are likely more damaged than you know.

A bit off topic, but I'll name myself as an example.
When I go out with friends or college classmates I can easily listen to the "popular shit", drink and joke with them.
But those closer to me know that I listen to rock, jazz and have some weird interests and hobbies. Being a part of today's youth is not bad, but purposefully rejecting it in your manner certainly is.
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This is the cringiest thing I've read today

Born in le wrong generation egotistical fuckwad

End yourself immediately
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>>17202697
Thankfully a clear headed sjw has arrived!
>stereotypes are meaningless wahhhhh
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>>17201715
>>17201727
>>17201738
shit dude

I love my bf
and my bf loeves
hearthstone
civ
me
he plays in a band that he doesn't care about
his hair is really cool though

also he has a full time job

ummm

I feel super bad for all of you because I was once you and so was he..

I met him through his band... I knew the othe rpeople in his band from college so I dunno maybe start a band?

I'm 26 he's 29 if I was you now then I would start a band to meet people :0

never hurts


...unless yr band fucking sucks
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>>17203473
Hahahahaah this is the first time I've been called a SJW, priceless.

If you had any sort of reading comprehension, you'd know that's not what that post meant at all.
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>>17201715
A nice guy like me doesn't want some blonde slutty sorority cheerleader. I want the girl that likes to read and play video games with me. My generation is full of idiots, too bad I'm just too nice
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