Is bi-sexual desperation a thing ?
I have a bf , and I feel both physical and a intimate connection with him . Granted we've only ever talked over the Internet , but we have seen each other and do plan to visit one another .
But I noticed some gay feelings for a friend of mine began to appear when I started to think getting girls was hopeless .
I feel like this gay relationship isn't legitimate and I need to get a real one
Am I actually bisexual or am I so desperate for affection that I took anything ? And if so , how do I get rid of it ?
I was in this position briefly before I met my current girlfriend. Having any kind of attention was a bit intoxicating, which made me react differently than I felt comfortable with.
When I looked at myself honestly, I quickly realised I couldn't see myself with a man and I was just fooling myself because the attention was nice.
So yes, I believe it is possible to have these kinds of feelings despite your sexuality not matching. Do some soul searching and figure out which way it goes for you.
>>17197913
>I feel both physical and a intimate connection with him
>Granted we've only ever talked over the Internet
You can't have both of those things. Physically connecting with someone over the internet is physically impossible. You're deluding yourself.
>I feel like this gay relationship isn't legitimate
It is most certainly legitimate. You're deluding again.
>Am I actually bisexual or am I so desperate for affection that I took anything
Maybe both. You're weird internet relationship in combination with the fact that you're still a young girl struggling with your sexuality tells me you don't know much of anything at this point in your life, which is most certainly ok. Stop trying to force yourself into things you think you're supposed to do and just be young.
Explore, try new experiences. Don't get so hooked on the idea of attention or relationships that you pass up things you that you actually want for things you think you're supposed to want.
>>17197954
Did you want to have sex with men and jerk off almost exclusively to gay porn? That's sorta where I'm at
Also I don't want to be straight because 1. That would mean me leaving my bf and 2. Girls just seem impossible for me . >>17197966
Well I'm a guy, but that could be figurative speech . But your saying I should go ahead and try and make this work ?
Also , when I said physically attracted I meant I wake up semi regularly wanting to fuck his brains out.
Really , I'm afraid to learn I'm not bisexual and realize I'm just the pathetic sack of shit who wants someone to like him
At that point I think I just kill myself
>>17197913
Of course it is possible anon. He's the Kaworu to your Shinji.
>>17197998
I never watched envangelion so I don't get this
I also like to note I get very anxious on the topic of sex and sexuality
>>17197913
This site, at least post-2012, proves that jailhouse faggotry happens. I'm not even joking.
>>17198063
So how do I know if I am one of them ? What's the difference between real faggotry and jail house faggotry?
>>17198068
I dunno, I guess when you go outside and only see hot women. There a lot of tranny lovers here but I guarentee you most aren't gay since 4chan is way, WAY over the 10 percent that is usually given as the total percent of lgbt in america.
>>17198127
Well I kinda like hairy dudes with big dicks so maybe I'm not a jail house fag?
Also maybe 4chan is perfect for fags to corral here
I guess you could be a *little bit* bisexual (as in you're mostly attracted to the opposite gender, but there are exceptions) -- when I told my brother I was bi he told me that he was, too, and then later informed me that he was "about 10%" bisexual; perhaps you could go from "slightly into the same sex some of the time" to "into the same sex because there are no fucking people of the other sex around."
A lot of gay sex (supposedly) goes down in prison, but I honestly have absolutely no idea how true that is. Such a thing would, however, explain the phenomenon, if it actually happens.
>>17198148
If I do turn out to be desperate gay, what should I do ?
>>17197913
If your boyfriend or girlfriend you do not see tell him you love him , I think you love the personality , that is something hard to connect with another person for you is his way of being , therefore you will not do problems in love a man or a woman. You should tell us if you like physical people . depending on your age also I think you can experiment and if you like then you're bi. But please if your friend is bi not confuse it or play with it . This feels bad when somebody would use it to prove, that confuses me.
