is paying for a hooker worth it?
for those that are single and horny, why haven't you?
>>17182174
it really depends on your definition of 'worth it'.
in my opinion, no, but i get laid easy enough. never been in a position where a hooker is my only option for more than a two day period.
honestly depends how much a hooker charges. but i wouldnt do it.
>>17182174
Because youd never be able to respect yourself anymore and anyone who knew would never respect you.
But if you think any form of pride you have is worth sacrificing to get laid go for it.
But as a tip sex doesnt actually feel that good. The emotions and enjoyment from interacting and thrashing around with another person who wants to be there is what makes it fun. Kinda like a single player game vs a multiplayer game. The single player mode is overall more polished and optimized for gameplay but the multiplayer is just more fun. But that kid who pays for friends is just too sad.
>>17182174
Never needed to, and I have the confidence and looks to go land some tail.
I think if I was to buy a hooker it would be to do something sadistic that I wouldn't do to a friend, like so I could fuck her in her ass and not care if it made her cry, or if I was desperate.
And if I was desperate, it would be like acknowledging that I didn't what it takes anymore, like turning in my sexy card. I'd sooner bang a 3/10 fatty that was into me than a 9/10 hooker that I knew was doing it for the money. It's kind of an insult to myself.
>>17182188
Forgot to add I HATE condoms, can't feel shit with them on, so I'd be paying for shitty sex.
>>17182188
>like so I could fuck her in her ass and not care if it made her cry
Noice. I've considered paying for a hooker just so I could tie her up and tickle her until she was screaming and pissed herself. I have a huge tickle fetish, get a bone in about 5 seconds from tickling, and that's when you have to knock off with a friend or fuckbuddy.
Tickling is so awesome, so rude, so psychologically rapey, I just want to tickle some unsuspecting little slut until she pops a lung screaming.
>>17182193
so much this. though most of my sex is stuff outside of general fucking cuz im also not into stds or pregnancies.
>>17182203
i could see paying for a hooker for this kind of experience or if you have a major fantasy you need done that you just cant do with a normie girl
>>17182186
I agree with this. sex for the sake of sex is an ego massage, but your paying for it... fucking lame. just have a wank OP, feels just as good, you can sate your sordid desires with porn and not spend any money.
Fucking some hoe who fakes literally everything about the experience is notwhat sex is for and it's better to just not go there.
If you're a terrible human being, and are fucking 3 girls a week, casual sex becomes more of a hobby than something noteworthy and remarkable.
Not worth it.
>>17182174
>is paying for a hooker worth it?
If you know her outside of hooking and she was being all hush-hush about it, it would totally be worth it.
cheap hooker = aids [Literally]
expensive hooker = do what you want [fetish fun, yay]
Don't want to give my v card to somebody who only wants my money
Yesterday I fapped for over 2 hours, felt absolutely incredible when I was done.
No hooker can top that.
I guess some people view it as lowly. I don't. Go have sex with a hooker, they need to make a living, it'll be fun, and you won't become attached to her.
Little spoken about fact: most people get attached to their first sex partner. This is a bad thing. It fosters a fictitious realm where you two are bound at the soul. This is not true, there is no such thing as a soul, and it'll end tragically. Fuck a hooker so you can use your logic and reason with your next SO. Also, nobody has to know you fucked a hooker.
>>17182293
then that rules out women
for me it is
>wife stopped sucking cock years ago, once or twice a year at most
>good looking young hookers will blow for 40-50 a pop if you're a regular
>make like 5-6g's a month
>almost impossible to get an std from receiving oral sex as a male
>always feel great for the next couple of days after i visit my whore
i don't fuck hookers though because i hate condoms and i associate that with intimacy and my wife
I banged a hooker once but it sucked since there was no emotional connection and I had to wear a condom. Even the blowjob was shit because she blew me over the condom. Also, I can't do stuff to her like eat her pussy since she's had 1000 dicks. After that experience, I just decided to save my money and watch porn and jack off. One of the complaints about jacking off is that it's not as good as sex. You can look into male sex toys. I have them and my masturbation sessions are pretty mind blowing. It actually might be at a point where sex with a girlfriend will just be a "different" sexual experience, not so much a "better" one than my masturbation since with my toys, i'm in complete control.
>>17182412
where do you find these hookers? just looking to get my dick sucked as well, wife doesn't do it
>>17182208
>>17182193
You idiots are using the wrong sized condoms. No, you aren't an XL, get over your insecurities and get the right size. Do they even have sex ed classes where you're from? Or do you get taught abstinence? Jesus.
>>17182174
The fact you HAVE to pay money to get laid would eat away at you.
>>17182882
craigslist, usasexguide
i've had some great luck on dating sites as well, lots of 18-19 yo girls use it to find guys to pay for small things when they arent quite a full fledged whore yet.
>>17182916
literally no one but people with extreme deformities has to pay money to get laid. paying for sex is like paying for any other service.
Take it from someone who lost his virginity to a hooker,don't do it
>>17182174
I try to be morally in line and be patient. People do say if you wait it's worth it. Paying for sex is too easy, there's no work or passion involved and you may regret it.
>>17182709
>she blew me over the condom
You shouldn't have accepted that. There's literally no point.
>>17182174
if youre a 25+ virgin I say go for it.
>is paying for a hooker worth it?
if youre just looking for sex Id say yes
especially when both of you get along and after you see her multiple times she lets you do anal/ bareback stuff (yes im well aware of stds)
>>17183108
28 year old virgin here. Might be going this route soon. I don't expect any decently attractive woman to settle for an uggo like me and I sure as shit don't want any ugly women so... Whoring is really my only option. I'm not sure where this notion that ugly people should fuck other ugly people because even though I'm ugly I don't suddenly find unattractive women to be attractive.
I digress. I'm thinking of saving up some money and visiting one of the legal brothels in Carson County to finally lose this virginity to someone who's good looking and good at sex. Best of luck to you, OP.
>>17183078
>there's no work or passion
Not trying to go all /r9k/ on the thread but women hardly have to work for their relationships. And the longer you wait, the harder it is because women are having all that sex and it increases their standards for performance etc.
>>17183138
try finding an asian massage parlor
the legal brothels are too expensive for the services they provide(everything is covered)
ive found quite a few that give full service but you can always just get a handjob to ease you in
>>17183158
Due to my Ave and ugliness, I've been a patron of my local strip clubs for a few years now and have gotten many hand jobs. Just recently got my first BJ from one of the dancers there recently and am looking to finally do the deed in as safe a manner as possible. Since legal brothels are regulated by the state I have a lesser chance of getting VD or the herps that route. I've looked into Asian parlors before and they seem really sketchy. Also, there have been masage parlor prostitution raids in my city recently...
>>17182174
if you are paying for the sex, it isnt worth it
if you are paying her to leave when youre done, it is worth it
its really not hard to get laid, anon. you may hve to adjust your standards a bit, but it definitely is not difficult.
I want to but I live in a country where it's frowned upon and people I know would judge the shit out of me if they knew I paid for it.
Honestly, I feel like it's indicative of the more puritanical roots of the US, and I really wish (considering I can afford it) that I could just get some lady to come to my house and fuck me, I pay her and that's it. It's like delivery sex.
>>17182174
>for those that are single and horny, why haven't you?
Three words....
DISEASE
DISEASE
DISEASE
depends on your values, and financial status.
>>17183194
>its really not hard to get laid, anon. you may hve to adjust your standards a bit, but it definitely is not difficult.
Lower my standards to what? There's only 7+/10 girls in my area and everyone lower is in a relationship. Literally all that's left is fatties on mobility scooters.
Nothing wrong with going to a prostitute. Just do it in a country where it's legal.
>>17185006
Don't lower your standards so much that you're unhappy or unsatisfied. Don't make them so high that they are unreasonable.
I wouldn't mind having a beautiful girl with a nice body, slim but round in all the right places, awesome personality, fun to hang out with. I would be perfectly fine with a stable, loving, but average looking girl. I would not be happy with a woman I cannot feel attraction for. Somebody seriously overweight, or with a personality I can't stomach, is not somebody I would want.
"Don't settle" means exactly what it means. It means if somebody does or says something that you don't care for, or they aren't physically appealing to you at all, that you shouldn't force yourself to be with them. It doesn't mean you should only ever pursue people who are well above average. But I think that guys sell themselves too short, and/or put women on pedestals. Just because she has a pretty face doesn't mean she's "out of your league", that's just bullshit.
>>17182174
what?
in my country it's not something it's frowned upon
in fact, it was a tradition for uncles to pay hookers to make 14 year olds lose their virginities to hookers.
needless to say after this tradition was over the world became overrun by faggots
lol
>>17185087
>sell themselves too short
Trust me I'm a featureless brick in the wall and about the same level of personality as one.
>>17183152
What does this have to do with what he said?
>>17185984
Where the fuck are you?
>>17182174
Nothing wrong with hookers if you can afford quality independent ladies.
Something very wrong with going with addicts and trafficked girls.
>>17186038
Has to be an eastern european country.
>>17182174
Not worth it imo. I did it once, the girl was actually really hot and knew what she was doing, but she kind of rushed everything and smelled bad. I did feel pretty good afterwards, like I usually do after sex, but it didn't have the same feeling. After the endorphins wore off, the whole thing felt forced and fake. It's not a bad experience per se if you're really backed up and just need some ass, but it wasn't worth the money to me.
Boump
>>17182174
I get horny a lot. The amount of money I'd have to pay to take care of the problem via a hooker would be more than I make in a year to cover like a week's worth of time.
>>17182174
>is paying for a hooker worth it?
Depending on the hooker, it may be. This is more a personal decision really.
>for those that are single and horny, why haven't you?
I simply refuse to pay for sex. Simple. I also witnessed a few friends who regularly frequented brothels and noticed how it inevitably changed something in their perception of women and more importantly of themselves. It just leads to nothing good, especially if you use it a substitute for emotional emptiness. I know one friend in particular who got really sad and depressed later on. I'm personally also afraid of STDs.
Lastly, laugh at me all you want, but I don't think I could do this with a person that I don't consider to spend my life with. It's just not a turn on for me to have sex with a random person, even when she's really hot.
I've fucked like 8 hookers this year. It's fun sometimes but not really worth the money in the long run.
>>17182186
>not playing games centered around multiplayer
>>17182900
Not same guy. But if you are trying to sell the old "condom feels no different " your a goddamn liar. I've used condoms enough to know that when one breaks on your it's like your dick has broken free into a whole new world and starts singing that Aladdin song.
I love hookers. I used to do the verified ones and the hottest ones were the brand new college girls. One of them wanted me so bad she told me to remove the condom and cum in her. I knew she was fairly new so I said fuck it and did it.
The biggest lie is that price equals quality. Since there's not a ton of market transparency many girls have no idea what the prices should be. The best payfucks I ever had were to the tune of 100-150 an hour. The best BJs come from a cockthirsty poor girl who cheats on her boyfriend with me for 40-80 an hour, whatever I have on me at the time.
The typical "verified" escort around here is like 300 bucks, eh. If you're willing to do some work you can find the occasional backpage girl who posts once and never again. Save that number because she's likely some broke girl who justs needs cash. You can totally pawn star her ass and just say, "eh, best I can do is 50 bucks" and don't be afraid to walk away. After a while you can kind of get a feel of their situation, and how worried you actually need to be about drugs/disease. Many of them are idiots and have their numbers tied to their facebook accounts.
Now I'm almost 100% converted over to seekingarrangement. It's full of college retail employees and waitresses who think $100 an hour is amazing and you can totally bareback most of them and nut in them twice in an hour. You can kinda get a feel of the ones who haven't done this before and I totally enjoy being the one to turn them out. Again it takes a ton of messages or legwork but typically I pay 0-200 for college pussy that's barely used. I've raw dogged over a dozen of them and not once have I gotten an STD. Flaking is the norm which is pretty shitty, but your typical waitress will usually show up for 100 bucks an hour. I'm hoping to meet a 19 year old cheerleader type tomorrow for 150 and I sure as shit plan to bust in her mouth.
The downside is that I had feelings for one pretty recently and that ended poorly.
>>17186031
The first part of my post or the second?
For the first part: I've seen how women go about relationships and none of them "work" for them at all. Either they found a really good match and so neither partner is doing a ton of 'work' for it, or she's with a guy who really wanted her and she caved. I never, ever hear about women doing much of anything to get with a guy they like, they just wait around for him to move first.
For the second part, I'm saying that waiting, as that anon suggested, doesn't always pan out. As you get older women want you to be experienced, and if you're not, they assume there's something wrong with you and start to get turned off.
>>17186006
So is everyone else. But they're still unique. Hell, if you actually look at a brick wall, you'll notice they are not identical. They'll each be a slightly different shade of red, and you'll see pores and cracks and such in unique spots across each block.
Look I've gotta be honest, most people I know who are in relationships don't seem so incredibly exceptional that they're on another level from me. Most of them have their own unique mix of strengths and weaknesses, and their own blend of personality, character, etc.
Unique=/=special. You don't have to be overwhelmingly special to get a girlfriend. I mean, the girl who really likes you for you, will find you special for her own reasons, but you don't have to conquer the world and do anything crazy to "make" someone like you.
Play up your strengths by putting a positive spin on who you are. Take some healthy pride in who you are and what you've done. Remember that you are worthy of a relationship and physical intimacy, even if you've been rejected by people in the past.
>>17187360
I haven't tried that site. I usually fish on craigslist and mobile sites like meetme and blendr. I agree the best girls are hot newbs who have never whored before and have no idea their pussy is worth 200 an hour so they'll take two jacksons for as long as it takes.
>>17187360
http://www.wetnwildescorts.com/profile.php?id=295
Here's the one who wanted me to rawdog her. I was gonna see her again but she flaked which pisses me off.
Anyway I never fap anymore. I'm okay with cumming once a week or two and I have enough cheap whores that a $50 blow job is worth it instead of a fap. A $150-200 fuckfest is enough to keep me happy for a while.
Seekingarrangement really is a gold mine of pussy if you wanna wade through it. Some of the girls have insane golden pussy syndrome so you gotta pass on them if they want some shit like $200 just to meet for coffee and $1000. Some of them are clearly idiots and will give you their full name and let you fuck them IN THEIR OWN HOMES without even meeting for coffee first, so they're true whores. The downside is that some are a bit skittish and your looks and charm actually do matter a bit. Many of them say they won't do pay for play but totally will.
One of these days I'll make a full imgur album with all the SA girls I've fucked. Some notable ones were an aunt and niece (pure chance) who were fairly close in age, a milf that was in national news once (but doesn't know I know that), a ton of girls willing to cheat on their boyfriends, and a couple times when I doubled up on a hotel room and did two in row in the same room. Sometimes I have so much seekingarrangement poon that I need to take the holy grail of cum to keep up and double up on the arginine and lecithin. I'm actually double-booked tomorrow morning so unless one flakes I'm going to cancel on the out-of-town milf in favor of the 19 year old cheerleader. After that I'm meeting with the national news milf to discuss the possibility of restarting again.
Ironically the one girl I actually liked didn't fuck me yet, we only made out. I think her slow-playing actually worked on me, but she was pretty enough and I got to know her enough that fucking her wouldn't have made me lose interest. Maybe she was playing me the whole time.
>>17187404
I've had a couple of them willing to be tied up and fucked in the ass on the first time. How fucking stupid do you have to be to let a stranger tie you up and fuck you the first time you meet them? Lucky for them we agree to sex and that's all I want to do to them. But nothing's as glorious as having bound hands impotently pushing back against you as you shove into her ass while she wails on a gag. God damn I'm getting hard thinking about it right now. Tons of them choking and hair-pulling, too.
A lot of them decide it's not for them and don't want to meet again. That's fine with me, there's more where that came from. Although I have had bitches flake on me and I wasted a hotel room, but that's a cost of doing business. I've had far more of them just forget to get the money so I've gotten a few freebies.
An Asian girl and blonde girl were willing to meet and double-team me TONIGHT for $100 each but it was too short notice for me to make shit happen. I'm gonna try to make that happen next week so I hope they don't change their minds.
The downside of all this is that pussy becomes kinda fungible after a while. A decent looking girl that kinda does whatever vanilla sex I want doesn't excite me. I want super-kinky or exceptional beauty or a double-team. The vanilla girls are just kinda like fapping for me, but the novelty of new young pussy always brings me back like a drug.
>>17187416
Now I look back on the local escort boards and most of those girls are busted up trash over 30 with mommy weight. Don't get me wrong, there are hot women over 30, but almost none of them are professionals.
I don't want to tell my locals about seekingarrangement because I want all that shit to myself.
So I've gotten a lot of fucking blowjobs. Variation is technique is all over the place and price and her looks have nothing to do with how good a blowjob is. Some get the pressure just right for me and it works. Others are just boring or do weird shit like sloshing their heads back and forth. Unfortunately, one of my best dicksuckers smokes like a chimney so even all of her saliva smells like tobacco. If she quit smoking she'd be great because she smells awful all over. One of the sexiest girls was a skinny distance runner brunette with Zooey Deschanel hair. Both her parents called while we were fucking, and she'd lick my cock in between sentences while talking to her parents on the phone. I still think about her all the time but she's so goddamn flaky she can't keep a marriage, relationship, or job for more than 18 months and ended up moving back in with her parents at the age of 28 despite having a law degree and MBA. That girl was such a screw-up but boy was she a fuck machine.
For all the alpha chad thundercocks in this thread:
MGTOW
>>17188139
>MGTOW
That disguised gay cult?
I'm of two minds of this. I really don't like being married at all, my wife complains about everything, but my genius daughter is sometimes the only thing that makes life worth living. I'm a prisoner in my McMansion but if I had a time machine I'd still have done whatever miserable bullshit brought her into the world. Her classmates are reading See Spot Run and playing Candyland and she's reading Harry Potter and playing chess.
If you want something done, and you want it done right, hire a professional.
