So I just asked out a girl, she shot me down saying that she is a lesbian,
>inb4 she was just giving me an excuse, she showed me pictures of her kissing her girlfriends and her at pride parades
I don't know what to do anymore, it seems like every woman I"m interested in is unavailable, they either have boyfriends or something else. I'm not a bad looking dude and I have a good personality, I've gotten dates before but it never goes anywhere. I'm 21 years old and to this day I have never had a meaningful relationship, at this point my life just feels like a joke.
I don't know what to do, I'm trying to keep my head up but it just gets harder everyday.
Any words of encouragement?
First date at 24. First relationship at 27 (because just about everyone i'd start to take a serious interest in, some crazy shit--like someone would literally die--would happen. Even my girlfriend, she lost her job 2 months before meeting me, and her uncle was diagnosed with cancer 2 weeks after our first date and died like another 2 week later >.>)
It could be worse, and it's never too late.
>>17176485
It's a a numbers game... My advice is don't get focus on one girl or else you lose sight of the other girls that have a thing for you. Seth Rogan had a perfect analogy in 40 Year Old Virgin (watch it!)
Basically, the more women you talk to, the more chances you have in hooking up.
You're 21, and a lot of the girls your age aren't going for a long-term relationship unless you display yourself as someone worth keeping.
Seriously, you're 21! Find some girls on tinder to dick down... join some clubs or coed team at school (assuming you're in school), and just meet new people. You are in the prime of your life, don't waste it thinking you are not worth it... you are, you just don't realize it yet!
Dude, you're only 21
Just keep doing your thing, someone will come along eventually. Trust me, serious long-term relationships come with a lot of shit, commitment isn't easy.
Just try to enjoy being single while you're still young, attractive, and relevant.
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>>17176491
shit you guys are right, here I am just moping around like a little bitch. I'm getting drunk tonight, but tomorrow is a new day, I guess there's nothing to do but to keep on truckin.
>>17176538
You've got it. Don't linger on failures, let them make you stronger and keep living, because if you don't live now you'll just die having done nothing.
