Your gf is stirring up drama because she's insecure about something else in your relationship.

>>17175964
why would she do that instead of just bringing up whats causing her to be insecure? We've always been super super open with each other. I don't get her at all right now.

If you've never had a discussion about porn, then her opinions/boundaries towards porn may not have come "out of nowhere". She might've felt this way for a while but only mentioned it when it came up somehow.

Or, it could be what >>17175964 is saying. My sister didn't get all butthurt about her boyfriend watching porn until she started feeling their relationship was insecure. In the past, I've gotten the same way.

Regardless of what the explanation behind the behavior is, it's wrong for her to assume you're watching porn and therefore be disgusted with you. She's assuming the worst in you, and assuming you're lying to the person you care deeply about. That shit hurts, and you should tell her in a respectful way that doesn't get her more defensive/agitated than she already is

>>17175980
Thank you for your insight.

I did try to explain as nicely and respectfully as possible that what she's doing is terrible (didn't actually use that word) and all she said was "I don't care. I thought you were different" and I don't even know where she's getting this idea from.

>>17175991
It helps to explain how this is making you feel. "It hurts me when you assume I'm lying to you. Why do you think I would lie to you about this?" You could also try and talk to her to see what's gotten her thinking about how she sees porn, and why she's assuming you're just a stereotypical horndog jerkin it all the time

i'd drop her for suggesting something so stupid.

>>17175998
"you're lusting after someone else, that's still cheating just not physically"
Also her ex was addicted to porn and pretty much sexually abusive so she let him watch porn thinking that would make him not want to be a total pervert on her.
I don't know what i did to trigger that though.

>>17176014
Okay, so this definitely could be related to the ex thing. You may not have done anything to provoke this. Sometimes it can be really hard to not worry that your current partner will have the same issues as an ex.

The times that I've gotten more sensitive about the boyfriend watching porn, it's because something about his behavior changed to where he stopped giving me as much sexually charged attention. The combination of him continuing to watch porn while putting in less effort to make sure I felt wanted made me more sensitive and made me want him to stop watching porn. However, I'm not accusing you of doing that. There could be a number of reasons that this has been triggered. Try and get more information out of her. The better you can understand her feelings (and she should be trying to do the same for you) the better you two can work this out.

>>17175960

Feminists got to her.

Shit if you say shit like "all women just want money and are gold digging whores, so I can't trust you", she'd scream "sexism" all over that.

But it's pretty much what she's doin' to you.

Maybe it was the magazines, or some bitch friends, or she started talking to some embittered old hags at work, but now she's a man-hater.

Nothing will bring the girl you once loved back from that abyss. Dump her and move on. She's a lost cause.

You stick with her, and 10 years down the line you'll essentially by the dorky brother from two and a half men, ditched and forced to pay alimony because "you stole her youth".
Man seriously, get out.

Plenty of fish in the sea, why put up with a piranha when you could chill with a dolphin.

>>17175960
You could use this as an opportunity to change something about her you dislike immensely..

Drop all guy friends.. stop drinking.. I dunno.

>>17176033
Sex with dolphins is wrong

>>17176161
and dangerous. dolphin jizz comes out so fast that it'll fuck up your insides, and dolphin vagoos can clamp down so hard that your dick breaks

>>17175960
Abandon ship; she's crazy.

Sounds like it's time to end that relationship and find someone who doesn't think that way.

Harsh, yes, but realistic.

>>17176033
Dolphins are scary as fuck when it comes to sex and many of them love to very aggressively rape.

>>17175960
I also say she is insecure but what I would do is use this to you advantage, if you haven't fucked her yet. Say your stop looking at porn if she can meet your needs this way. Then pump and dump but be sure to take pictures of her naked an upload on the internet. When you dump her, tell her nudes are on the Internet for everyone to see and that your jacking off you to porn everyday and that your hand feels better then her dry loose pussy.

She will either learn from her mistakes and not be an idiot or she'll kill herself. either way its a plus cause we are getting rid of a stupid person.

>>17175960
Just talk to her and try to get to the root of what's bothering her. Maybe she's just scared that you think she's not attractive enough for you. It depends on if you really like this girl or not. If so try to actually consider how she might feel and try to explain your side. Please don't listen to "hurr durr it's not the stone age everyone watches porn just leave her". She might be hard to crack but there is probably a hidden fear that you two need to face. If you don't actually care about her then I don't bother and just end it.