my gf and i are white. ever since she got into kpop, she seems to have a fetish for asian guys. last night, she admitted to me that she masturbates to "cute" asian boys. should i be worried?
I would like post one million pics of BIGBANG or BEAST or something like that just to troll the fuck out of OP and go SHOULD YOU BE WORRIED but srsly what the fuck is wrong with you white people and your fixation on race to the point it must dictate your porn?
Weeaboos and Koreaboos will cheat on you or drop you the first chance they get if they come into contact with a cute Japanese or Korean guy.
When someone has severe yellow fever partners of other races are just something to keep them temporarily occupied.
>she admitted
Why use the word admit? You admit something when you reveal that you did something wrong. This is not the case. She revealed information about her masturbation habits. I'm not sure why you care. You've probably masturbated to asian girls too. For that matter, you probably masturbated to cartoons or all kind of crazy shit. It doesn't stops anyone from being able to have a meaningful relationship. Even if your girlfriend acquires a taste for asian boys that doesn't mean she automatically loses her tastes for previous things she like. If what you fear is that your girlfriend does not find you sexually attractive then ask her. Don't play guessing games, just ask her. "Do you still find me sexually attractive or have your tastes changed". That's it.
>>17170479
This post confirms white fragility and the lack of mental stamina. Lucky for you, most Asian males dont look like kpopstars and even then they're probably too chicken shit to do anything involving women. But if your gf is into Asians in general then there is a chance some Asian guy might come along and cuck you. Look the fuck out.
>>17170479
> white chick crushing on weeaboo
she's delusional. Go to a medieval fare together and read up on European history, you plebs.
Ask her if she wants to have children with bug eyes and fat noses.
It is mostly fandom though, but if she's any white, you know her kids won't be getting any of it. Or at least, ruining it.
White people are way too humble. About time you looked in the mirror and understood your worth.
>>17170509
I'm half asian and I had a weeaboo gf,
Holy fuck she had no sense of loyalty. NONE.
Fuck her a few times and dump her.
>>17170528
well yeah, i have masturbated to all kinds of porn but it just bugs me that hers is so specific. she has kpop posters on her wall now and has a group of friends that gather to watch the release of new music videos.
>>17170580
It's a hobby. It's no different from people having football or NBA shit with trading cards and posters and crap.
Just like some people who cosplay seriously also like to see porn of people dressed up in character on the side, she also likes literotica featuring characterizations of idols she knows well.
None of these things have anything to do with your stupid ass white mental purity bullshit.
>>17170580
Is this your girlfriend? KEK
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HZ7oMS7dwO0
>>17170577
That's western women in general.
>>17170479
Are you dumb? Kpop is like an exaggerated fantasy hobby. Guys wear eye shadow and wacky fashion
>>17170479
Just squint and stop brushing your teeth.
>>17170479
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ekJ-ldOD0TQ
Your gf @ 4:33
>>17170479
My favourite are the two with the reddish brown hair and the blonde, that's like an Asian guy freaking out that his girlfriend has a crush on an American actor or singer that happens to be white; it's really silly and OP probably already had trust issues if this is setting him off.
>>17171812
Asian anon here. Me and my gf are both Asian. We talk plenty about the good looks of white/brown celebs or musicians all the time. It doesn't mean we are gonna leave each other. Were both traditional, and we enjoy being married to an Asian partner. It doesn't mean our eyes go blind and we don't notice an attractive human being. You should embrace that your gf loves kpop and enjoy the hobby with her.
>>17171812
good taste anon
OP, you should leave her if you're going to keep getting insecure over stupid shit
If you're really anxious just remind yourself that half of BTS is shorter than 5"3
>>17172158
>>17172072
i know i'm coming off as insecure but i don't think you guys realize the level of asian fetish she seems to have. her walls are currently covered with kpop posters, she has stacks of photobooks, cds, and magazines with them in it. and like i already said, she freaking admitted she is masturbating to them on a really regular basis, outside of our sex life which has slowly been diminishing more and more. her history with asian hobbies goes back kinda far now that i realize the stories she's told me. she also loves anime/manga which makes her very weeb but i didn't care about that shit because that's just cartoons. she use to take tae kwon class for 8 years, she even once said that when watching disney movies when she was young, she wasn't a prince charming kinda gal but she thought shang from mulan was the most handsome. the way she gets so excited with her friends for kpop music videos feels disrespectful to me. i wouldn't be hollaring at other girls in front of her. i feel like she is neglecting me a lot more and her friends (which includes several asian girls that can easily introduce her to asian guys) are becoming a huge part of her everyday life. so no, i don't think i'm just being weird and insecure, i'm being realistic about what potentially might lead to her ditching the fuck out of me.
>>17172256
Look dude, I'm a kpop fan here. I'm exactly like your girlfriend, except for the posters part because I'm keeping my walls white but either way: being passionate about something doesn't mean she'll fuck that thing. She gathers with friends to watch MVs much like people gather with friends to watch football. You get excited, scream at the screen, same difference. She's yelling about guys on her computer screen, so:
1) she wouldn't yell at an idol the way she yells at a screen. She's getting hyped about virtual dudes in over-the-top MVs and clothes that would be ridiculous in real life. These are celebrities with personas and she knows it.
2) asian guys IRL are not as pretty as idols. Unless one of her idols litterally lives on her street she has no reason to ditch you.
3) a healthy fetish is just that: something you are particularly attracted to, not something necessary for you to be attracted to someone.
4) if she'd ditch you for any asian random, why would you stay with her anyway?
The point is: she didn't have that fetish before kpop, as you said, so why would you worry now? It only adds to the pool of physical features that she likes, a new preference doesn't invalidate all previous preferences/fetishes, it just adds on top, and if she was attracted to you she's still attracted to you.
She's with you right now.
She gets hyped about kpop guys the same way people get hyped about football: she wouldn't holler at korean guys IRL and she wouldn't holler at those particular korean guys IRL either if they met 1 on 1.
If you don't trust her, talk to her. Relationships can only work if you talk to each other. It makes you uncomfortable? Tell her. You don't understand how far her fetish/asian fever goes? Ask her. You want to know if this new passion changes how she sees you? Ask her.
If you can't talk to her about that kind of stuff you're not losing much in losing that relationship anyway
And how old is she anyway?
>>17170479
No, do not be worried. You have the upper hand because you absolutely KNOW FOR A FACT that you have the bigger penis. She can cheat, but she would regret giving up the daddy dick for a little asian pecker. Hope I helped.
>>17172380
Nah, that's not true. Asian dudes get stereotyped as hell when it comes to dick, so the girl usually goes in with low expectations. As soon as the Asian guy reveals his average sized penis, she will be pleasantly surprised. Fireworks will fly everywhere my friend.
>>17172501
>everyone expects 3"
>it's actually 4"
>>17172363
she's 24 and she actually kind of did have the fetish before kpop, with her love of manga and martial arts when she was young. i'll take your advice and talk to her about it tonight. i have a feeling she wants to talk to me about it too though since there has been a weird tension between us since she told me about her masturbation last night.
i guess i'm kinda blaming kpop right now but there's actually more issues going on between us that i'm downplaying a lot so i can see why not everyone is understanding my situation.
to put it a little more bluntly, my gf doesn't just have an asian fetish, but we've been drifting apart for the past year. i was very aggressive at making her my girlfriend when we met, and she kinda just accepted me but there is a disconnect between our ways of life because i've always been more of a sporty outdoorsy guy while she's sorta introverted and nerdy. we don't have too much in common and i guess now that the sparks are over, i am having trouble seeing myself with her in the long run too because i have a deep opinion in my mind that she is sort of a weird weaboo girl that i think is cute, and i think we both just feel like we are dangling on each other by a thread because we became comfortable.
>>17170542
Attractive Asian guy coming in.
Yeah, this is true. Most Asian guys look ugly as shit or pretty average, and the ones that are attractive tend to be introverted like me.
>>17172562
yeah, at 24 she tells the difference between liking an idol and an actual real person
the one thing I can encourage you to do is to really put things in the open when you're going to talk to her. It's one of these We Have To Talk situations and it sucks, but letting it fester is always the worst option. So yeah, start with the kpop/masturbation deal but don't be afraid to go deeper and just use this as an excuse to actually talk about the important underlying stuff
Point is, she's probably just as uncertain about the future of this relationship as you are, and the anxiety over minor stuff that you have can only predict that it won't be "comfortable" for much longer, but if you talk it out you can both know where you stand, even if it's justa dmitting that you're both unsure about shit, it will clear out lot of the building tension and allow you both to see the relationship more clearly, see the bigger picture.
look at me in the eye and tell me you never masturbated to any kpop video..., thought so, you hypocrite
>>17172536
Quit exaggerating anon, my Asian penis is a very capable 5.5 inches and it's quite pretty according to my gf. For real though, bullies exaggerate dick size way too much and I spent my entire young life with low self esteem and zero confidence due to those jokes. I always felt like an inferior piece of shit until I finally measured it like a year ago and compared it to an empty toilet paper roll. Words hurt anon.
>>17172613
>tfw Asian with 6" dick
T-this is average, right?
>>17172607
>>17171812
Who doesn't fap to kpop nowadays? I'm a straight male but the dude on the right has sexy dark hair and a charming as fuck expression. If I had a pussy I'd want him to enter me.
>>17172631
>straight male
You sure about that? I agree with you though, he has a nice expression.
>>17172631
Sauce: RapMon. He's blonde 90% of the time nowadays though, so even if he did sex work, tough luck anon.
https://vine.co/v/eUKVBbuadKZ nice deep voice too, rest of the vine unrelated
>>17170479
Getting off to porn is one thing, actually fucking someone else is a different matter altogether.
>>17172661
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BVwAVbKYYeM
>>17172674
anon jesus fuck we're trying to keep it lowkey
>>17170607
Weaboos are pathetic no matter what gender
