Hey /adv/ I'm in my teens and I have recently had a terrible outbreak of bacne, and I was wondering if anybody would know of any way to get rid of it?
What are the pros and cons of dating a girl I'm not that interested in?
I'll only do pros.
>friends are busy? you can hang out with her
>practice courting and sex
>practice mind games and dodging her mind games
>you become more desirable to other women.
Women always like taken men. I feel like women see the ring on my finger not as a commitment but more like a sign I've passed the 'exam'. I'm sane enough for someone to marry -- and that's desireable.
>you might have a pussy to fuck
Not that interested in sex, but that's a reasonable point.
>you look like a fuckwit for pussy
But she's actually rather cute. Does this point still stand?
I've gotten decent at the mind games after being in a relationship for several years, but I suppose it's good to get rid of the rust.
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How do you keep yourself alive? Simply letting go is a very peaceful thought. If you're dead, you're free of the worries and obligations that come with this life.
lmfao, pretty big assumption about "death" there, pal. what makes you so sure you won't be instantly planted in a new womb?
>he thinks death is the end
How much has money been an issue for you in your relationship.
I've been in a 3 year relationship. My gf finally has 2 part time jobs, but nothing stepping. I have a full time job that has area to move up.
MY focus is my career / earning a living. Throughout the relationship I've been more smart with my money / attitudes / worked hard to get jobs. My concern is if money is already an issue now. How much will it be more in the future? I feel as times goes on she'll want kids but shes in debt. I want something more even.
It sounds a lot as though money is a big issue for you. You sound resentful of the fact that she doesn't earn as much money as you. But that doesn't necessarily need to be a problem.
I think you should ask yourself why this bother you so much. does she pay her share of the rent / utilities / groceries / whatever?
It's perfectly reasonable not to want to have kids until the both of you are debt-free. But you need to have this conversation with her.
If in the relationship you are already resentful about what "your" money is being spent on as opposed to "her" money, then you are doing it wrong. Do you expect that when you have kids down the line, you will rip shopping lists in half where she buys the formula and you the diapers?
If you believe she has made imprudent financial decision, part of learning to chart a future in the relationship is being able to bring it to her attention in a respectful way and being able to discuss solutions. Note that being a woman is a huge detractor in the open job market, and had you been her, you yourself may not have been a better way out of the situation.
Your attitude sounds more like "I made better decisions than you did so I deserve these nice things which are MINE and I resent you for using MY THINGS!" Newsflash: no matter what the redpill MRAs talk about, women earn less than men, and their career paths are hampered by societal and personal expectations of starting a family down the line. ANY woman you date within your socioeconomic stratum is going to earn approximately 85% of your wages and if you land upon a millionaire, she's not dating you for your prudent financial choices. Once said woman becomes pregnant and the mother of children, she will earn even less.
Wanting something "more even" by your definition involves a childless marriage where you are dating above your stratum. Note that these women, to focus on the career and earning a living, will not be doing the emotional work and commitment your girlfriend currently brings to the table. To be honest, since any woman would be dating below her stratum to get with you, you will need to bring more to the table once you break up with your girlfriend due to these irreconcilable differences.
She's a woman who is more focused on relationships clearly. Would you prefer being with someone who is 100% career focused, barely makes the time of day for you, is more irritable from high stress work so will snap at you more often, and probably won't want any children because of said career?
The stupidity on this board sometimes is incredible..
So ive been talking to this girl for a few weeks now and to put it short.
I plan to meet with her, she accepts ecstatically. We talk till the day or day before of the meet up and then she comes up with some excuse, e.g. work calls her in or parents need her. Its happened 3 times now and havent met her other than the first time we met.
Is she just shy/chickening out, or am i being A+ Trolled.
> Pic not related in any way or form
Is there a point to any of it?
Hey I was wondering why I'm really turned on by women who smoke recently when all my life I've hated smoking? What's the reason?
It's called a smoking fetish, OP. My dad has one (my brother found all these videos of women smoking on YouTube in his web history because he doesn't know how to delete it due to being 67.).
There really isn't anything you can do about it except embrace it (by dating smokers) or not (by not dating smokers).
This might be a silly question, but how do I ask out a girl I only see when she's working? I've seen her a few times and made very brief small-talk, but she seems to be busy all the time. On the one hand, I don't want to bother her at work. On the other hand, I'd like to ask her out. Is there some sort of protocol with this?
can you name what positions and salaries are for the positions that don't require putting needles in people?
hey senpai, i got into all the UCs i applied to: LA, SB, Davis, and Berkeley.
which should i go to? and which is the least cucked, AKA most apolitical?
geography, physical+GIS emphasis. at Davis it'd be environmental science.
UCLA is what i'm leaning towards. UCB is attractive in the sense of its ranking, but with how political it already is, things are gonna get especially heated come November I imagine.
Trying to smoke pot with my new roomates, but theyre all anti weed. My car is in the impound lot and since I do my work online, there is now reason for me to leave my apartment. How can I smoke weed without them knowing?
Does it make any difference?
how can i make my friend falll in love with me
What are some sites or apps that would help me find work as a freelance writer?
There's an app called talent. If you have it, you'll succeed as a writer. It works best in conjunction with hard work, determination and luck. They'll drain your battery life if you're not careful though.
I keep falling asleep at work. Today my manager saw it too. I used to have severe sleep problems in high school and college that made me fall asleep even while driving. even though I get about 7 hours of sleep every day I still fall asleep at work. my boss doesn't seem happy at all. what do i do?