He always asks me for pictures, bras, and sends me porn. I've told my grandmother, but she didn't want to see the messages, because she thinks hes a good person. She said I was over reacting.
Guise I need help. So there's this girl right, and she's everything I've ever wanted in a woman and I am everything she has ever wanted in a man.
And I've got a girlfriend, and we're all close friends (to the point of making out and shit) and I was always thinking of but am now realising that I don't actually love her. But she's a total sweetheart and I don't want to break her heart by leaving her.
This fucking sucks right now because I am not happy with this girl and I want to be with the other one but I can't just leave here for the other one that's just not socially acceptable fuck me what do I do?
This will be the second time I'm leaving her in the last 2 months. Plus lately, as I've said, we've been having "moments" together, all three of us and she's foreseen me falling for the other one.
Even if we hide our dating after I leave her, she'll know what's going on
Listen, obviously you're on the fence about this. Are you sure you don't love her, and you're not just having "grass is greener syndrome"? Perhaps you should reflect on your relationship. This other girl could seem more appealing initially, as she may make up for the faults your girlfriend has.
On the other hand, why did you break up with her the first time? Was it because of this girl?
I crave female attention. I know it's wrong. My longing manifests itself in bad ways. I spend lots of money on prostitutes. I just graduated college today, got $300 from friends and family, and the first thing I want to do is spend it on hookers. I am lonely.
I want to believe I can be the man I want to be. Strong, rich, a great father and husband. I want to believe I will find a woman one day who really loves me and I can share my life with. I want a happy marriage and family.
I guess I don't need advice, I need encouragement. I am a bit overweight....
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i suggest reading this:
might help you with opening up to people. it helped me a ton to stop being such an asshole, which i was. being an asshole feels good until you realize you are dead inside.
I have actually read that book before. It helped, but a lot of the concepts may have been lost on me.
I really want help not spending money on whores that don't care about em and finding a woman who will be my companion.
I've been told that my sense of humor is above average, and I've always wanted to try open mic not caring if I bomb or not but I wanted to ask 4chan for tips on anything, such as anybody have experience, overcoming stage freight etc etc
Does seeing a psychologist really help?
I have been feeling awful for over a year now and it doesn't feel like it's getting better.
I feel like if I see a psychologist they will just say something they would tell everyone or get me on antidepressants (not big on antidepressants because of what I have seen with others on them)
psychologists are real people and like all other people, some of them are actually idiots and give very bad advice. if you go to one, try out a few before you decide which one you want to stick with.
this book will help:
beginning part is a little woo woo but seriously give it a try, i read it about 5 years ago and i still credit it as the thing that helped me really start changing my life
i am stupid with low iq
how do i get smarter?
I fucked this cute-as-fuck girl this past winter.
She was gonna be the second girl in a threesome that has been in the making for fucking three years.
She moved, which put a damper in my plans. She comes back every now and then, but she usually has a boyfriend so she tries to not be alone with me so as to not put herself in a compromising position and cheat.
This past summer, though, I finally got the chance to bang her and BOY it was cash.
She's coming back for a while this summer. Obviously, being the adorable little cum...
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You're not here for advice, you're here to gloat.
Who gives a shit. Fuck that pussy or don't, doesn't fucking matter.
Okay so basically my best friend of almost two decades needs some help right now.
his family/relationship/job/health are all simultaneously going to complete shit and he hasn't wanted to spend time with or talk to anyone (except for me) for a while now because of his deeply growing depression.
I convinced him a couple of weeks ago to come with me to a buddy's house and have a few drinks but as the night progressed, he remained silent and seemed to be growing angry. I frequently asked if he was feeling alright or if he needed anything or wanted to leave and he just kept telling me thank you and that he would be fine. I left the house for a second to take my nephew home and when I came back he was pinned down on the couch crying and I was told that he started to tell everyone he was going to end his life tonight and he went inside and reached for a knife before being tackled to the ground.
Let me say that acting out like this is not something common from him by any means. I took him to stay with me at my house and then he went home the following morning and I did not hear from him for a week.
Just a few days ago, he shows up at my house smiling and thanking me for being such a great friend and when I go to hug him, he begins to sob uncontrollably over me and tells me how he has really felt like he has been losing his mind lately and is sure if it gets worse, he will end his life. Because He and I have been making music and art together our whole lives and we've been wanting to put a heavier focus on these things recently, as well as the fact that I'm the only person he's comfortable with lately, I Decided to ask him if he wanted to move in with me and my wife (in our guest room) and he said that he doesn't want to bother us, but that if it was possible, he thinks it could be a huge help. My wife encouraged this idea as she can see how rough he has gotten.
Now, here's the problem. Our roommate is not very empathic and tends to be exceptionally cautious about everything. BUT, he is also incredibly frugal and lazy and my friend said that he would pay 35% of the rent and take care of the house's maintenance. Sorry for such a back story but I'm basically looking for help with two questions:
How can I convince my roommate that my friend really needs my help and assure him that it could be beneficial?
What can I do to motivate and encourage my friend on a daily basis while he is living here?
In short, the only job opportunity I have now is working as a computer technician but I don't want to.
I don't want to fullfill more of the steotype of neckbeard that faps to anime and works with computers, I know I can do better but other job opportunities are further away.
Well if you're good at it and don't mind doing it than just don't be the stereotype. I work IT now but I work out, am decent looking, and live with my girlfriend. I don't live that stereotype and fuck anyone who thinks otherwise about me.
Just do whatever the fuck you want OP. Don't let what others think of you stand in the way.
Dear /adv/, hear me out. I've never posted here, so I might make some mistakes. Desperate for some advice.
Twenty years ago, my family bought a piece of rural property with stunning water views on a gentle slope, with the prospects of retiring there or handing it over to me. They originally bought it for very little money ($20k Cad), as the lot did not have city water nor the possibility for a well to be dug (20% incline with sandy earth). A few months ago, we received a letter of expropriation from the county, letting us know that they were doing road expansions...
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Last april, a piece of land identical to ours (with a higher incline, so harder to build on) sold for 150k. Another lot above us sold for 95k. Both these lots were comparable to ours, yet our assessment value did not go up since these were "private sales”. We’re basically being forced out of our land, our investment, and will be given absolutely nothing for it. The neighborhood we are in will develop crazily in the next two years. Already, there are at least half a dozen constructions, and people driving around daily looking for land to buy. My parents will have nowhere to retire. The only land in our area we can buy for that money is flat, treed land, with no view and no water. And even that is being pulled off the market to sell at a much higher price in a year or so.
The only reason the land was bought was for the view. It's incredible. The fact that it's on a tall hill/small mountain right on the water's edge gives it the impression that you're just floating above the water. Some may call it a million-dollar view.
I'm at a complete and total loss at what to do. What the county's doing is unacceptable, but there doesn't seem to be any other option for us. Has anyone here had a similar experience? Is there anything I can do? Please help, they're taking away our home, and they're giving us nothing in return.
Sorry for the long read and poor writing, I had to come up with this quickly. I have noone else I can get advice from.
Have any of you taken a typing test as part of a job interview process? What was it like? Any tips?
I have one tomorrow, first time I've been asked to take one.
I mentioned to someone once that I hunt and peck but my WPM averages around 85-90 with 98% accuracy.
Touch typing is just impossible for me, my pinky fingers and ringer fingers just feel to weird to type with.
Going to lose my virginity tonight. Help. How do I do it well. She's crazy about me (so she says) so she probably won't complain if I'm shit and she knows it's my first time.
Has she had sex before?
Just know that you probably won't be that good, and she almost definitely wont have an orgasm.
If she hasn't had sex before, expect a mediocre time. It will be kind of awkward for both of you, but you might get into some kind of rhythm.
Just don't have high expectations and you'll be fine.
What's the best Chinese dish to get delivered?
My long distance ex is threatening to
Blackmail me, using my personal info they saved on their phone.
I have successfully avoided contact with them for about a year but now they messaged out of the blue, threatening me to try to force me to respond.
This person can't be reasoned with at all.
They're a mentally unstable control freak and for them, it seems, no time has passed.
What can i do to protect my information without getting the authorities involved?
Is there a any way to remotely factory reset their phone so they won't have any way to contact me?
I really don't want anything to do with them.
I posted here a month ago asking how to sort my life out (24 y/o, UK). One person responded with getting a shit job and going from there, now I have a shit job what do I do now? How long should I be in said job.
Thank you so much I love you.
I live with my Mum, she has supported my life. I never got the whole life thing and now I'm just fucked. I don't have prospects or anything like that I genuinely hate life currently.