My girlfriend gets more upset when I DON'T seem upset, that she is upset. It's just become normal at this point, she's constantly sad or mad about something, crying about this or that, etc.
I could go out one night and she could be upset that we haven't talked in a while and she tells me she's been up all night crying, and I just can't make myself feel remorse, because it's become like the boy who cried wolf. If it happens once, sure it's unexpected and alarming. But if you've done it every night this week, I've just come...
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Tell her you'll start caring when she starts acting like an adult
Weepy ass hoe
>>17106411
But she tells me the same thing, that when I act like an adult is when she'll stop getting so upset.
>>17106402
Find someone who's not crazy.
How do I find good music? I don't feel like searches through playlists for hours on end.
Suck my dick and I'll give you some recs
>>17106375
later, help me first.
>>17106377
Well first at lease tell me what kind of music you enjoy?
I'm not sure if this is at all anxiety related, but do any of you anons ever stop for a moment amidst doing something/socializing and think to yourself like "what even is life? What the fuck is even going on right now?". Is it possible to just forget how to act/everything you know about or is this just anxiety/irrational fears taking over my bored brain?
Bumping for posterity. Genuinely interested if anyone else has felt this way
>>17106342
Yeah, I used to have panic attacks several times a day growing up. I got over them, but still find myself feeling a little disconnected from reality a lot if that's what you mean. Then again, I have some odd beliefs about life not believing that what we are doing is 100% "real". I am in the group that thinks it's all a simulation and I am just waiting until someone turns the game off.
I suspect other people are either a figment of my imagination or kind of like in online multiplayer, float...
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>>17106370
I dont believe anything like that, I mean more along the lines of kind of drifting away from what youre currently doing and feeling like its happening without you there
/adv/
I'm a student in uni that's totally financially dependent on my parents right now. I want to gain independence and move into a pet friendly apartment (I live for free in a house they own right now).
I get my degree in botany in a semester and I want to work full time in a farm or greenhouse once I graduate. How do I save up money for an apartment? How long would I have to work before I could have a pet dog? I have absolutely no idea about any of this and would appreciate any input at all.
One bump!
>>17106336
I'm in a sort of similar situation (I live in my parents house without them and had dogs and currently studying) and I'm planning to move out at the end of this year to a new city.
Do you have time to work much time to work or just a few shifts here and there?
>>17106799
I work now for peanuts, like I make $40 a week and my bank account has something around $1000 in it. This summer I will have a paid farm internship, kind of low paying but full time. During the semester I will not be making much money, but after I graduate I will want to work full time. Since the greenhouse business isn't super high paying, it will probably not be a ton of cash, though.
Can any psychics on /ADV/ tell me when or weather not my ex will pursue and take me back?
My heir tells me as long you move on with your life she will come back crawling.
>>17106298
I don't need to be a psychic to answer this one: no.
>>17106307
What if I'm female and they are male?
How do I overcome psychological boner problems
Pls
Explain
>>17106306
If I cum once I can't get hard for the rest of the day, basically
Porn doesn't get me hard
Thinking about sex doesn't get me hard
I can only get hard consistently by kissing my gf or fingering her, but again after I cum that first time it's a fucking challenge to get it up again, even a couple hours later
are u that person that gives people advice for friends but doesnt have any
yeah lol
Nope.
Since we're on the subject, how do I gain friends?
Messaged someone on a hobby site and it's been a day or two and they haven't reponded. I already feel rejected.
>>17106254
Why. They're probably busy and don't check messages often. Online friendships aren't really friendships unless you see the person irl. You can't bond with someone over text only, humans are social creatures.
Planning to go on a long journey far from the place where I couldn't find what I am looking for, in 20 years of my life.
I'll travel at first by train, then by foot, I'll probably run out of the little money I have in days or weeks.
I'll probably live and sleep in the streets, asking for charity and living with nothing but the essential.
I'm ready to pack up my bag.
What should I bring with me? I improvised a list, tell me what misses
Water & food
Clothes for the summer
Clothes for the winter
Blanket
Towel
Sponge
Toothbrush
Magnesium...
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>>17106161
Pepperspray
Pain medicine
Okay your list is absurd. First of all where are you going, specifically? What are you looking for, specifically?
How long is your trip? Why can't you just save enough money to take a train/bus/ride all the way to the destination, why do you have to expect to beg for food and sleep in the street? That's so dangerous, people get killed and raped by nature and other homeless people all the time.
What are you doing?
>it's a 'I have no idea what I'm doing with my life so I'm going to do something stupid' episode
I'm scared I look like a real douche bag.
I wear skinny jeans, t shirt, flannel, nike or adidas skate shoes, snapback or fivepanel hat, I usually listen to music while I walk around campus so I have headphones in and I text a lot of people.
As I was leaving the house today I got the impression I looked like a douche though.
How do I know if I look like a douche and does it really matter? I don't want people thinking i'm a shit head before even knowing me.
>>17106157
If your snapback is flat rim stop wearing it.
>>17106157
>posting a thumbnail
Also yes, you dress like a douche. 2/10 not even close to effay
Sounds like a basic normal fit desu. You prolly don't look like a douche. Post pic with blurred face ? The only way we can really decide.
I am at a impasse /adv/. I am 25 and male and I have never had sex. I do masturbate a lot but I feel no different after finishing. I don't feel any less horny.
I feel like I am ready pounce on almost any female who would let me. That sounds desperate as fuck and I don't feel very good about that. I want to have sex really badly but I don't want to do it in a situation where I am coked out on desperate horniness.
Makes me feel like an animal. I just wish I could have normal sex in a normal relationship. I am starting to think that won't happen...
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>>17106131
>Why don't women have strange problems with sexual release like this
Oh they do.
They just are better at hiding it than us men.
Are you ugly? Do you have a bad personality? Have you ever had a girlfriend?
You need to learn to be more alpha. Google "how to be an alpha male". Girls fuck alphas. The essence is just be cocky and funny and confident. It takes practice but it works. You will fail before you succeed but once you get it, sex will be on tap.
This chick at work treats me in a weird way, whenever there is no one else there she comes and talks...a lot. I never try and talk with her. I just get down to business. I like er, but I don't like being a tool used to alleviate her boredom. I wouldn't mind it if she talked to me regularly, but being cast aside when someone else is around is annoying. What do? How can I tell her to fuck off with out saying it?
>>17106122
Maybe she wants your dick on the low
>>17106160
I don't think she does ...she has a long term bf. She asked for number but we rarely text. I think it's just simply that she wants attention when no one else is around.
>>17106236
yep ur right, u should embarass her. but then again if shes having problems in a relationship and needs a friend i wouldnt.
I'm 23 and at random times over the past few days it has felt like someone was shoving a knife up my asshole. I'd try to catch the bastard but it happens even when I'm sitting. What the fuck is this problem?
hemorrhoid
Have a feel down there. If you feel a little lumpy bulb near the anus, then it's a hemorrhoid. Otherwise it's possible you have an anal fistula.
>>17106089
I had the same thing and it too was related to sitting (t. NEET)
Something about the way you sit, more importantly the position of your legs, is causing a restriction of blood flow around your bunghole and in turn the pain.
How do I....not be be stupid? I don't know how to explain it. I have no common sense whatsoever, and I notice that most of the time I feel like my mind is "fogged" up. I got a near full scholarship to college and I keep up a 3.9-4.0 GPA. But anything outside of school I'm stupid at. People notice that I often forget/overlook the simplest details, and at my job my managers have to explain stuff at least twice to me before I understand how to do something. How do I gain some common sense/street smarts/whatever you call it?
Through experience. Join a club, pick up a hobby, socialize. Bounce around and you'll naturally gain new interests, expanding your mind and making you more confident
>>17106079
Relax, accept mistakes, keep making attempts despite error. School is important. So is life. You are fully capable do performing well in both.
>>17106079
This is a legit question; I'm not trying to be offensive or anything; but do you think it's possible you have some undiagnosed autism or something along those lines? I'm going through the same thing you are and I've always suspected there was something wrong with my parents never got me checked out for. I'm slow, socially awkward, and feel like I have no common sense like you do. It might be worth thinking about, OP. Now that I've seen this post I might go get myself checked out..
>been feeling extremely shit for the past few months
>because of this didn't complete my final papers
>been putting it off because every time I try and work on it I freak the fuck out over the fact that it's over two weeks late
>got an email last night asking why it hasn't been turned in
>Prof also emailed the class saying he hasn't grade it because someone hasn't turned it in
>in...
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go to the strip club and get a lap dance
>>17105990
Can you afford to take the zero? If so, maybe you can just tell your professor that you want to take the zero so that your classmates don't have to suffer.
If you can't afford it, then just power through it as best as you can. Don't worry about making it perfect because you're gonna be losing a lot of credit for it being so late anyway.
Go to the library, put on some headphones with white noise, have all the materials you need to get it done on hand, and...
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>>17106047
Disregard the post link, didn't mean to do that.
How can I gain willpower and discipline not to text a girl that I have a crush on and im pretty sure doesnt like me past a friend? How can I react when she sends me a text first? I want to move on but not be an asshole about it over a long period of time I connected with her and I feel like she considers me above most of her friends because she has told me things over time and we just had long conversations about all different things, but I can't keep talking with her and feeling the way I do. In fact she has a crush on another guy we know so if they were to get together...
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Trust me, the last thing you want to do is ignore her if you still don't know her true feelings.
It will eat you up inside. Find out, if you're sure she has no feelings for you and you can't be friends, move on.
>>17106011
The reason I can say im pretty sure is because she has told me openly before that she likes this guy alot and one time I asked if she wanted to get food and go to a bookstore with me her and another friend but I worded it wrong so it sounded like it was just gonna be us two and she said that sounds like a date, I polietly decline then I told her it wasnt a date I worded it wrong and she said whoa whoa cant handle rejection well, then I told her it wasnt a date blah blah blah then she told me later she knew it wasnt...
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>>17106011
>>17106035
Also as dumb as it sounds I really want to stay friends with her but i dont think im mature enough to be friends with her and be in a stable state of mind if she were to get a boyfriend so I am at a huge loss of what I want to do here