I'm becoming more and more misogynist by the day. Should I do anything to combat this or am I just growing up? It's not like I post on /r9k/ or anything, I just think girls are flesh bags only to be used for sex. Even when I meet a nice/cool girl the fact still remains that she is a whore.
I feel you, OP.
I don't want to be like this but every experience with women leans me to this opinion.
>>17351628
I don't think this way of thinking will lead to happiness, but hey, it's your life, man.
>>17351628
>>17351648
I think you two will be okay when you learn how to actually pleasure a woman. Then you won't have to worry about them all fucking your brothers.
How do you deal with ruining almost any chances you had at a potential relationship with someone you could see yourself loving for a very long time?
You move on. It's better than loving the person above all else and then her leaving you. Everyday I struggle not to kill myself. Dont make the same mistake.
>>17351658
Don't think I'm not tempted to. That thought crossed my mind not unlike that bullet several times throughout the day.
Let it go, it doesn't matter.
By time you're 50, you're gonna have a dozen people like that.
It takes two to tango. You could have loved them for all time, but could they have loved you?
It's not about being "not good enough".
We think that because we love them they must love us, but it's not true.
It's ok for them to not see you as desirable as you see them.
It's not like puzzle pieces, where a match on one side necessitates a match on the other.
It's ok. Let it go. Find someone who wants...
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26 years old and pretty much worked shit jobs my entire life and looking to upgrade. Willing to pursue certifications/skills.
What do you do and enjoy? Anyone have some advice?
Resume:
6 years in army
3 years line cook/grill cook (money is shit, hours are shit)
some college (~90-100 credit hours into a chemistry major, going to finish this when the financial situation is better)
EMS?
Phlebotomy?
Pharmacy Tech?
Construction?
Not afraid to work hard just want to actually get paid for my time and avoid dealing with dumb asses as much...
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Being a serviceman is a huge plus when looking for a job.
EMS is thrilling and rewarding, but it's physically damaging and probably pays less than the max you could make as a cook.
Phlebotamy is not bad, but it doesn't pay much more than being a cook. I'd say there's no harm in it, but it's not very ambitious. It must be relatively stress-free.
Note: you can be a different kind of medical tech and be more irreplaceable, and make more money. You could also be a nurse, and they make bank.
Pharmacy tech is not a bad choice....
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I just saw you were making minimum wage as a cook. You can make more, at least in my state. Still, I think looking for a new career path is a great idea for you.
>>17351555
I am making $10/hr as a cook. $350 bucks a week to work second shift and mop up grease until 3 AM is pretty depressing.
Not looking for a career right now just something I can be doing within a month or two for short term income. When I return to school it will be to finish my BS/higher ed.
Do people in long distance relationships cheat? I want to fuck a girl because I've gone six months without sex with the girlfriend. There's no way my girlfriend would ever find out, but I wonder if the guilt would eat at me over time...
How do you feel about cheating whether it's long distance or not?
Don't do it
Cheating is a dog move regardless. Speak to your partner about it or break up with her. Clearly cant handle long distance
>Do people in long distance relationships cheat?
People in general cheat. So yes, people in LDRs are not excluded from that. However not everyone or even most people in one cheats and there is no justifiable reason to cheat ever. No, I don't care what your circumstances are. There isn't a good reason to. Break up, resolve things, visit her, use your hand, or do whatever else works. There's no shame in saying an LDR isn't for you, but there is a hell of a lot of shame in disrespecting someone you love by cheating on them.
I am just a faggot who is about 27 and unemployed. i have a BS degree of math and physics which is useless. I need money for survival. I live in Taiwan. Please Tell me how to get a low tier factory worker job or warehouse job. I have been applying to civil servants test which is fucking hard and i have zero chance to get through it. I feel my life is doomed and i am living with my mom and her pension. I don't want to live like this, plz help.
Fucking cunts fatasses.
>Ph.D. in Math
>any job I want
>$300k starting
>>17352158
bullshit meme
Is sociology a shit subject? My daughter in law is going to be taking it in her final years of school.
>>17351475
>my wife's son
Kek.
>>17351578
Kek
>>17351600
Kek
>Everyone tells me Tinder is a great way to boost your confidence
>All its done is shown me how much of a fucking loser and how unappealing to women I really am
I can't even get laid on Tinder, should I just kill myself?
Women only swipe right like 15% of the time, so It's not really you, most of them always think they're settling for less. I don't use tinder and I have a somewhat active sex life.
>>17351652
But like. It's literally nothing for me. Like its killing my self confidence. Making me wonder what about me is such a turnoff.
You shouldn't use tinder as an ultimatum for why you think of yourself this way. If a girl can see that you rely heavily on the app just to get a date chances are they won't bother talking to you. Desperation is not attractive
Hey /adv/ I can't figure out what to do. My parents screwed me over and said they wouldn't co-sign a student loan for me. I desperately want to go to college, is there any way for me to get a student loan with bad credit? Or should I just give that dream up for the time being and join the military?
bump
please help me
Could you explain more about your situation?
>>17351451
>>17351552
Call the loan company and explain the situation to them. They'll want to do something to help you, as if you don't borrow money they don't make money. With bad credit though, you might find that the loan comes with a caveat, such as them not giving you the full amount you ask for, having you pay it back at a significantly higher interest rate, or perhaps even paying them a deposit before they'll give you access to the money.
"My girl" started being really cold and bitchy, and I was tolerating it for her sake, but eventually the content of what she was saying started to be really hurtful and insulting. I took a break and told her to check herself. She got worse at first, but after about 12 hours started coming around again. She seems to be working towards getting back together. Unfortunately, I'm always trying to please people. Do you think she at least realized that she can't take me for granted, and needs to respect me, or do you think it will be back to the same shit?
>>17351432
It's been about two weeks and we have been very civil over the phone. Pros: she is fun, intelligent, and great in bed. Cons: baggage galore and a loose sense of ethics.
abandon ship
>>17351480
>when you're too poor to really go out
>when the head is 10/10
I'm gonna give her another chance to be respectful
I understand your point, though
I need to confess, /adv/.
I don't like people. I hate them, and there are many problems that come from this hatred.
The worst one is that I detest myself - for becoming a man who doesn't like people
What really hurts is knowing that I can't learn to like people again. When I was a young child, I was normal, I enjoyed people. But as time passed I've slowly been eroded, like a river taking eons to carve away a canyon in red sandstone.
The canyon can never be filled.
I'm just so tired. I want to sleep. My eyes feel...
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>>17351416
Cool your jets Shakespeare. Stop being so dramatic, it sounds like you watch too many movies and arent rooted into reality. You're trying your best to soune like dexter or some emotionally stunted dirty harry.
Get off your high horse,stop taking yourself so seriously and stop pretending your life is some soap opera. Little eye opener:. No one likes you either most likely because of your self importance
>>17351424
not op, and this is all true, but the way you say it is going to make a person like OP go in the opposite direction
try coming from the other side
just a tip if you want to give useful advice in the future
>>17351424
I watch fuck all and I have no self worth/importance. I will die alone and forgotten and I will force myself to believe that that is OK because I can't handle the alternative. This is literally the most useless piece of advice I've ever been given. Fuck you
>>17351430
Ah yes let's use the fucking counter thought to trick him isn't this little fucker a wise one
Moving into a new apartment soon, planning on getting Wi-Fi, which router should I invest in and why? Can someone explain specs of the router and also explain what makes it better than another?
>>17351380
Router doesn't matter because you're going to be fucked in the ass by your provider either way. Assuming you live in America that is.
>>17351387
Not OP but I get 50 Mbps... It's suppose to go up to 100 soon, but frankly 50 is plenty fast for streaming, downloading, and gaming.
>>17351380
Unless you're getting fiber tier internet you're fine with getting literally anything that's not trash
I have a physics question. please see pic related. I want the rubber band to pull that red object closer to the black one, the blue object is being used as leverage.
I don't have accurate weights, but if the rubber band is pulling the blue object with x force, and the red object weighs x pounds while the blue object also weighs x pounds, does it cancel out the rubber bands pulling force if the red and blue object are exerting too much downward force from gravity?
since the red and blue objects both weigh a certain amount, gravity is pulling them DOWN. The...
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>>17351376
>physics
TRIGGERED
PLEASE HELP
>tfw uncut
>tfw incapable of fucking my girlfriend roughly because my penis tip is too sensitive
>tfw I can only ever do slow strokes with frequent stopping
>still frequently blow my load prematurely
She has such an amazing plump, perfect ass too...I feel like I'm not fucking her the way she deserves to be fucked. I can't help but imagine her getting jack-hammer fucked by a stud who lasts long.
I feel like the problem is with...
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>>17351365
Donno about your gf but the girls ive dated dont always NEED to get fucked lol. It sounds like your all mentally fucking yourself over.
You're comparing porn to your love life. Most the shit you see, most girls dont want done to them. Girls can watch porn, its visually appealing, which is why guys love it so much. Girls are emotional, so if you think sex is about jack hammering her for extended periods of time, you arnt even on the right train.
>>17351365
let me on that ass. Cut and I can go for hours and cum on command
>>17351365
I don't know what the exact issue is for you, but I suspect that you just need to keep going. You most definitely should also try using a condom. If that doesn't help, then you need the condoms with numbing lubricant in them.
I sort of had the opposite problem. I'm also uncut, and if I really wanted to I could probably fuck just about forever - it just gets kind of tedious after a while. It's not humble-bragging, like unless I really concentrate it just starts to feel really numb after a little while and like I'm just fucking to fuck. In the very beginning my penis was ultra sensitive, but for a different reason and with a different outcome - I had mild phimosis and shoving my dick in even the wettest pussy just felt really really uncomfortable and even when I forced myself to continue it was like my body numbed the discomfort after a while so that it wouldn't become painful. After 4 or 5 times I was finally able to cum.
Look man, everyone's different and porn stars are porn stars for a reason. You just need to calm down and start thinking of some strategies to prolong it - stopping and changing positions works wonders, for example.
So, there's this guy I'm interested in. But he has some pretty serious self-esteem issues, to the point where it's difficult to be around him for an extended period of time. He gets depressed, then everyone else around him gets depressed. He's very charismatic, even when he's moping.
So, I tried to help him get his mood back up before making my move. I'm friends with a reasonable number of gay guys, and I've asked them to hit on him, make him feel attractive. I'd ask my girlfriends, but it would be awkward if he said yes to one...
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Why not just go for Chad? He never gets depressed.
I just don't understand.
>>17351364
Yeah, I don't know if you realized this yet, but taking /r9k/ memes about how social interaction works is a seriously dumb idea.
These are the people who admit that they can't follow a conversation from beginning to end with "normal" people. You think they have magic insight as to how it works?
"Chad" is nothing more than the misattributed self-loathing and latent homosexuality of /r9k/ denizens.
>>17351370
But Chad never has self esteem issues.
I just don't get it.
TL;DR I thought my girlfriend had signs of an STI (little white dots on labia) and I "questioned" her about it and now she says I make her feel insecure and won't have sex
So we've been dating altogether about a month and a half. A week or two ago I noticed something that looked like a cold sore (it wasn't on closer inspection) and asked about it. It really upset her for a bit and apparently she wanted to cry.
Fast forward to two days ago, I was going down on her and saw some little white dots on her labia. I stared at it for a few seconds,...
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You were too soft on her, you should have accused her directly.
>>17351358
fucking retard lol. those white dots are completely normal. good job making your gf feel like shit and ruining your sex life
>>17351358
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fordyce_spots