Is it ultimately healthy for a desperate person to turn to religion?
Yes. Whatever gives you hope.
I think religion preys on those who are week, but religion teaches people stability. Just like anything; it can be good mostly in moderation.
(This isn't ONLY about Christianity, as well)
Turn to the Occult instead. It's basically the same, only less sanctioned, and less dogmatic.
Nothing is true, Everything is permitted.
6 months ago while travelling around the globe I met a girl that was quite special and what started out as harmless fun has developed into something serious which has been both very good and quite sad. But more than that, it has made me reflect on the way I live my life as a whole and I'm starting to think I really need to change my mind set entirely and that's where I need your advice.
So basically I met a local girl while I was travelling, we had a great time and I kept seeing her again and again and I was satisfied just being there with her that I completely...
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Op cont.:
This then led me to realize that the issue probably lies in the fact that I don't really have any goals to pursue or a plan for my life to go on with. I'm just floating about like a flag in the wind going with whatever makes me happy for the moment because I simply don't know what to do with myself, what I really want and how to get it.
And then that further led me to realize that the real problem is my depressing, nihilistic perception of life that nothing I do really matters, it's all just pointless and worthless and we all just...
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>>17352761
Get comfortable with solitude because its you at the start and end of each day you answer to.
That is step 1.
Best! SLAINCHE SALUD PROSIT
>>17352763
Man this is what everyone should achieve. Stop thinking in the society patterns, just have fun and fuck up your life all you want. I live exactly like you and I would never choose a life full of lies and things I believe I want. Don't get taken down, you're living the dream life
What are some things that are good
Anime
Well good is subjective. If by good you mean happiness then there are easy things you can do to trigger the happy chemicals in your brain. Getting enough sunlight and sleep, eating right, exercising and spending time with family and friends are just a few.
I'm a fan of food, alcohol and porn.
What are your hobbies /adv/? How they help/make you a better person?
Wind surfing and skiing. They don't really make me a better person, but they do make me feel one with nature.
Sewing, hiking, gardening, kayaking, camping, vidya, and reading novels/comics.
They don't really make me a better person. At most it keeps me busy so I don't feel like I'm wasting my life. Each one I have small goals in and I feel better about myself when I accomplish them.
>>17352773
What would be your goal in the comic department?
Hello /adv/ I wanted to talk to you guys about hobbies. For quite some time i've been away from videogames, i was a pretty hardcore gamer who would play everything i could get my hands on.
The biggest motive i stopped playing is that i wasn't getting the amusement and fun i expected for the money i spent. I mean, videogames in my 3rd world country are pretty pricey, and while i do have money, i don't see myself spending so much on this.
I took reading as a hobbie, and while i like it(always a fan of reading), sometimes i miss playing games, but...
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hell no. you stopped playing video games because your grew up a little. you might as well be asking if you should get back into wearing diapers and shitting yourself
>>17352701
Hello. Yes, while i do have more social life today, i don't care much about going after women and stuff, too problematic(had bad ending relationships in the past).
I focus a lot on my uni(Med School) but when i'm on vacation like now, i literally have nothing to do. Gaming is surely a way to spent time, gotta tell you.
Any hobbies recommendation? Started going to the gym but don't think that counts as one.
>>17352696
Playing video games is not a hobby. That's like saying watching movies is a hobby. Sure, you could be a movie enthusiast who loves to interpret movies, but you're still just consuming something.
A few days ago I created a thread with this image saying i wanted to fuck my bfs dad
After all suggestions failed (getting my bf into a gym, etc), i decided im gonna try to do it. His wife wont be there this afternoon and my bf is gonna be working. I can just go to his house pretending to wait for him
What are some tips on seducing him?
>>17352681
Men don't have to be seduced. Just show up and make it known you are available.
>>17352681
Maybe... You could not be a fucking tramp and just leave your boyfriend and go to an AA meeting and get rapped by handsome adults there is thats the type of man your looking for. Nobody gets hurt.
>>17352681
Please PLEASE do come back tomorrow and tell us how this went wrong.
Pic related. Everywhere in Europe and Amerika is a Kuffir Metropolis. This shit is triggering. Any tips?
>keeps women in their place
>emphasizes unifying social institutions
>provides guidelines for self-fulfillment
>anti gay/trans/etc
>degeneration
>wat
>>17352661
back to your cave son
The way to to it is to lead by example.
Get your life in order: be physically fit, financially stable, own your own home, get married to an attractive wife who isn't a nag, have a bunch of kids, go to church, network with other like minded men.
How to cope living with a 20-30 year old brother who sexually harasses our mother, constantly antagonizes anyone who doesn't feel like talking to him, constantly is insensitive and intrusive about people's lives.
In the dinner party at our sister's graduation, he was insulting me 2 hours straight and I obviously refused to respond. My parents didn't do anything so that we could "enjoy the night".
Out of frustration I smashed the door on his face and threatened to beat the shit out of him. He smiled and started giving me an overview...
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Sorry for the poor level of English... I feel really disturbed while typing this
>>17352655
AW, my mean big brother is picking on me.
>>17352655
>I'm 18, does anyone have advice on how I can personally cut him out while still living with him
You can't. I'm sorry. But as long as you are living together, this toxicity is going to continue.
If you want this to end, one of you has to leave. It shouldn't have to be you, but it would probably be easier to arrange that. You mentioned being 18: what are your plans for the near future? Depending on what's coming, you may be able to make this easier.Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I don't know what to do about this girl /adv/.
I'm been seeing this girl for almost a year now. During the past year we've gotten into a lot of big fights. Most if not all have been when either she's been drinking or both of us. The most recent time however is what was the final straw for me. We were both at the downtown bars having a drink and things were going well, until these old druggy friends of hers stop by our table to talk to her. She knows I don't like them and have physically fought them in the past. I tell her I don't want to stay because 1) I don't want to stay until bar close and 2) I want to avoid confrontation because their very presence sickens me. She refuses to or even understand where I'm coming from. I leave her downtown and message her friend on facebook that I'll pick them back up when they're ready to leave. (gf bought a new phone and hasn't activated it) Friend of course doesn't check her phone because she's a dumb drunk cunt. Friend's boyfriend give them a ride home and gf comes to my apartment to raise hell even though I'm the one who's mad. GF yells at me and calls me a sissy.
>sissy
>that does it
I yell at her to pack up and get out. I'm yelling at her and pointing at her face and then the door. If there's one thing I have no tolerance for it's being emasculated. She attempts to slap me but I dodge and she only nicks my chin. I hold her by the wrists and tell her not to hit me and she needs to leave. She says to let go and I remind her not to hit me if I do so. I let go and she smacks the shit out of me, I mean it genuinely hurts for a girl hit. I slap her back. (Not my proudest moment, I've never hit a woman and I never want to again)(also, self-defense?) She's crying at this point and packing up; I feel so bad for her I end up letting her stay because she has no where to go. We end up having make up sex the next morning.
cont.
>pic related, my gf
>>17352632
She should have seen things from your side knowing that you actually had physically fought these people and is totally aware of your feelings towards them.
Maybe she just wanted to be on speaking terms with them but it still does sound like you got shafted abit.
Dont worry about hitting her. She instigated the violence. Yes self defence.
Did the make-up sex consist of any apologise from her?
do you really want a relationship with someone like that
demote to fuckbuddy status
Fast forward, have a great 4th of July until she gets a little too drunk and starts getting mouthy for no reason. No fight ensues but her behavior when she's drunk is getting on my nerves.
After the 4th, we both go home, a few days later I decide to break up with her. She lives about an hour and a half away and my car isn't in good condition so I make the decision to break up with her over the phone. I call her and break the news as calmly as I can, promising to answer any questions she has. I answer all of her questions and the reasons for breaking up with...
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>hear people mention relationships / sex
>want to kill self
>no gf feels
Thing is I have a bf
I'm a guy btw
What do ?
What would you consider your orientation to be?
Gay? Bi? If bi, straight-leaning or gay-leaning?
Are you matched up wrong for your orientation? Or are you a total fucking gaylord experiencing the shitty internalized pressure to have a het relationship?
How long have you been with your bf/living situation/etc?
I'm a les-leaning bi chick married to a dude and I get intense longing for a qt gf all the time. I sometimes feel like I made a huge fucking mistake and I'd be happier if I had married a woman, on the other hand, my husband is an amazing...
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>>17352652
Me and my bf are talking online. We do plan to meet and have done sexual things together as best we can ( videos of each other jerking off)
However I know vaguely of a girl who MAY be into me , and I have the biggest fetish for black chicks so that desire exists
I may be see myself staying with this person long term , they seem to want to. So it's hard
Also I'm bi but I don't know if thata legit or me being a lonley loser wanting some kind of relationship
I randomly get this desire to want to fuck a girl , other times I only want to fuck a guy.
Recently it's been girls more
Also this bf of mine is really wanting to get locked down with me.
I think my girlfriend is retarded.
Not as an insult, but I am genuinely concerned that she meets the clinical <70 IQ definition.
Originally, I just wanted to be loved. She's gorgeous, warm and friendly and we get along fantastically. I was 'online-gamer-friends' with her when she was 17 and she started making moves on me (I was 27 at the time) but it wasn't until she was 18 that I was receptive and started 'dating'. I was almost 30 and dating a teenager.
At the end of the day I didn't care much about it, I was banging...
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In addition, she's finishing her degree. She deferred her first year and then didn't want to go. I pushed her into university and convinced her to go to alleviate my own insecurities about my girlfriend being an uneducated bimbo. She won't tell me her GPA or marks - I think she's insecure about the intelligence gap because she can tell I'm bothered by it. It became a lot worse after my mother told her what my IQ is, but when she was assigning classes for her semester she was logged into her University account and I found some of her exam results and...
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what do you want from a girlfriend, a buddy to discuss astrophysics with?
get some male friends for that, enjoy the intimacy with her.
do not get married
RE: The Dallas shooter
"Did he do the shoot up deliberately tho?"
Even when I take her out to an expensive restaurant, she drags her sleeve through her food and has food all over her face like a child. Doesn't wipe her mouth until I tell her to.
When taking out the bin, on more than one occasion she takes the garbage bag out of the bin, ties it up, puts a new bin liner in and then puts the old garbage back in the new bin.
>been with gf for just over 24 months
>lately she's been treating me horribly
> makes belittling comments and tries to control every situation
>lately she's been distant
>even today at work I heard her talking shit about me
>didn't even say bye to me when she was leaving but didn't everyone else
What is her go? I've told her already that if she dosent want...
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you're not masculine enough so she's forced to compensate
ying and yang motherfucker
you're practically having her drown her natural femininity and she despises you for making her go through that
stop asking her dumb ass fucking questions and take charge.
Not necessarily. Have you asked her what is up? Like, sat down and had an adult conversation? It sounds more like you did something wrong or your relationship is stagnating.
>>17352621
Translate that into taking her on dates again and being more romantic.
Buzzing in my right ear, like the kind of sound you hear when you turn off an old TV. There is wax in my ears, since i wear headphones a lot. The buzzing never stops, i miss the silence. This has been happening for like 3-4 weeks. Help?
>>17352594
Take a q-tip and dip it in some hydrogen peroxide. Gently insert this into your ear canal while turning it. Don't dry your ear after doing this, the hydrogen peroxide dissolves ear wax. Doing this can really dry out your ear though so I don't recommend doing this very often.
>>17352603
Tbh i could go to my doctor and get it washed out
>>17352603
Sound like a great way to fuck up your ears. Go to an ear doctor instead.
Not sure how to feel about something my girlfriend did today.
She pulled a gun on someone. It was pretty justified, it was dark and he was hassling us, got kinda edgy and grabbed her left forearm, she told him to let go, and tried to pull away, and before I could actually get a hold of the guy, she tells me to shut up and get back, sure enough, she has a pistol out.
I'm weirded out that she never told me she owned a gun for self defense?
Background: we've been together 6 years, we're engaged. We've been living together in an apartment...
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>>17352570
you should leave her she didn´t tell you about the gun and that´s a major trust issue.
pepper spray is ok, so is tazer but do you really wanna hang around with a person that can commit a murder anytime she wants to? she already pulled a gun on random stranger and cant be reasoned with.
get her a shrink or get out
>>17352578
idk man, a crazy guy grabbed her and was threatening her. You can commit murder with a kitchen knife, anyone can do it any time.
lol I am a shrink, I know I'm close to the situation but she seems fine.
I guess I'm kinda worried she's afraid of me and that's why she didn't say anything? I've never hit her or even really said anything mean to her, I'm a really level guy (see: shrink).
>>17352570
What's the surprise here? She's clearly no stranger around firearms and she was using one in a situation that could have turned messy.
I guess the best step would be to talk about her carrying. She seems like she's mature enough for it, but it's reasonable for you to be surprised by her suddenly pulling a piece out.
That being said, she was trying to protect you. I think that's the most important bit here.
I'm tired of living because other people want me to. Best way to an hero?
Pic not related, on phone so got nothing
giving up on other people is actually a good first step in not being suicidal since it's usually putting up with shit people that's making you miserable in the first place
>>17352550
I feel like I barely interact with anyone, even my family, but I dont think I'm putting up with anyone's shit. What do you mean?
Sleeping pills overdose with a lot of booze.