Seriously, this isn't edgy teen shit. I legit cannot fucking stand him and all he does is radiate depression
For years, he just mopes around, gives me shit, and was never a good role model to me. I basically avoid him at all costs now, conversations, activities, everything. It always turns in to a god damn fight because he gets so set off easily if someone slightly disagrees with him.
And he won't fucking shut up about me being up at night. I literally quit my night job less than a week ago, and I'm taking a bit off, but hes already giving me fucking...
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Also what do
if you hate the guy so much stop being such a fucking retard and leave, that means either stop ripping on your dad or learn how to live homeless you useless fuck
>>17244197
>>17244197
How does it feel to be 12?
All right Advice i have a fun one for you. I recently left home for Japan serving my country in the United States Navy. I had a girlfriend of two years. She ended it on May 15th telling me we would try to fix our relationship when i get back home July. I try everything to get her just to talk to me. When we talk we fix all our problems. In a span of two weeks she already has a new boyfriend and i find out from my brother. I tell everyone everything. I am not myself and this point i am hate fueled rage. Finally someone confessed to doing shit with her in September (let me just...
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When i go on leave what should i do? Should i see her? Should i ignore her? What should i do. Picture related. When we were happy.
>>17244154
Let's give her the benefit of the doubt and be charitable. With you away and other guys showing her attention, she's confused. She cares about you but you're not there and they are. So she's confused.
Your best bet is not to keep much invested in this relationship, while you leave her alone to figure out what she wants. Leave the door open, but give yourself the freedom to look around and don't assume you'll want to go back to her.
>>17244170
i guess. But she told me we would be married. She has said so much shit to me. The lies. Everything. I dont think i want it back, but then again i want her so bad. This feeling is killing. Poc related what she told me about a month back.
Hey, what are some good ways to make extra money (1-2k) a month on the side from my regular job (cop).
I have been thinking either doing pennystocks, a small food shop or my own alcohol company/bottle. Any advice?
>>17244119
Why not take up a part time job? All of those options will take an incredible amount of your time.
>>17244127
I have a part time job along with my job as a cop. Looking for a third income option that will require little time but decent payout.
>>17244119
legally, options are limited for making 1-2k a month with little to no effort otherwise everyone would do it.
Hey /adv/. I really need help this time. Story is greentext and pretyped this chronicles most of the last 7 or 8 days.
>Been single for about 5 years 22 now.
>I work really hard, 2 jobs and have my own car.
> Pretend to be happy and am never rude to anyone just keep to myself and my small group of friends
> Get desperate and tired of crying myself to sleep at night
> I am tired of being alone want someone I can make feel...
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> find parking garage with stairs that go down "brown level"
> end up smoking and having a blast with her (shes laughing and smiling I was focused only on her)
>go back to the con and sit down while this fucking guy is touching her and saying "please" I was getting mad but I kept saying be cool be cool to myself
> started playing footsies with Her. She totally digged it and started rubbing my leg. Tried to put her foot in my lap but they...
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At work the next morning..
> Cant focus for shit have this girl on my mind
> oh fuck she texted me "what time do you get off work"
> 5..why?
> says shes gonna be on my side of town until 7.
> I insist that she hangs out at my place again and ill drive her to drop her off.
>she agrees
>we were talking about "netflix and chill" the day before...
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Not even close. .
> we make out and cuddle a little more
> we then decide to smoke and afterwards she said she wants me to take her home.
> lit af but im good to drive stoned always am
> driving her her home(about 35mins) we hold hands the whole way and she was grabbing my leg to.
> get to her place open the door for her kiss her and that was the night.
>we make plans to go out again WednesdayComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
When will I stop fucking up at work? Everyone always says "to err is human" and "nobody's perfect" but I still try to be. At this point I think I've made too many mistakes and I feel unwelcome at my own workplace. But pretty sure it's all in my head.
Anyway how to not fuck up?
>>17244109
git gud
>>17244109
How long have you been there? EVERYBODY fucks up their first week or so and wants to quit in embarrassment. But not until your boss tells you, in simple direct sentences "If you don't improve you're going to be fired" you're doing OK.
>>17244190
I've been here for 6 months
I'm moving to Idaho and I'm leaving behind all friends and family. How do I go about meeting people and making new friends?
anywhere but Idaho. are you religious? if not you need to fake it.
>>17244081
Fuck.
>>17244054
There's a decent bar scene in Boise.
Why are you moving there? Idaho is the place one goes to in order to be alone.
My sister and I are biking through the Netherlands. Any places you recommend we stop?
Go to Maastricht! if you go through the nedderlands and pass from Maastricht I would really suggest you to visit it (I live there), otherwise Utrecht is very nice, Rotterdam, Leiden and of course, Amsterdam
Delft, and ditch the helmet
Hey /adv/, I need some of your wise advice.
I've moved in with my bf since 2 weeks ago. We get along well, I cook for him, I do the laundry, he contributes by sharing food costs.
Our sex life isn't so great though. Before, we would get at it daily or every few days, with multiple sessions at a time (I'd get 3-4 orgasms and he would have even more). Ever since we've moved in together, we've had 'sex' max 3 times, only 1 time which involved actual penetration and the other two times i gave him a bj and a handjob hoping to get him...
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>>17243988
Talk with him. Maybe there's something bothering him. That's the only way.
Initiate physical contact. If he outright rejects you, it's most likely stress. Then just cuddle or leave him be.
>>17244015
I tried but he acts like nothing is wrong/ he only talks about his work. We're not that old, it's ridiculous.
where the fuck do you meet girls
>no girls at work
>no girls on internet
>no girls in my daily life
how the fuck do normies even get a gf?
Do you not have friends or something?
>>17243958
None on the internet? So you have or haven't tried online dating/tinder?
>>17243962
I meant outside of dating websties and social media shit
otherwise yeah there are tons of girls but they are assaulted by 1000s of horny men
For the past month i've been going out with this girl who keeps giving me signs. Most times we were hanging out with my friends or hers, but it felt like we were dating.
I was just waiting for the perfect time to make my move (kissless 19yo here, so you know...)
Last night I overhear her chatting with a friend about another guy that she likes. After a couple drinks her friends start joking about her wanting to fuck him.
Same night this is happening she keeps hugging me (not in a "friend" way) and joking about us having an affair.
>...
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What do you want advice on?
>>17243950
>it felt like we were dating
To you.
>about another guy that she likes
She doesn't like you. She's stringing you along.
>>17243954
>She's stringing you along.
Or not at all and OP is just an autist who can't tell when a girl is being civil or friendly
Is there ever any real reason not to commit suicide?
The world is just an endless parade of pointless inconveniences forever. Why not skip to the end?
Because basically this will 'probably' only a feeling you have for a small portion of your life.
I constantly thought about killing myself and I didn't. Now life is alright, and I'm a musician. I'm not going to tell you life is splendid. Because from time to time it's not. But you'll never experience the good parts if you quit.
Good luck Anon, keep strong.
Also here's a cat for you!
>>17243953
Life has always been an endless series of pointless inconveniences. It always will be.
I will have to work for the rest of my life. I'll have to deal with haircuts, relationships, bird shit on my car, taxes and chores and chores and chores forever. I can't picture any realistic scenario where I wouldn't.
Even if I happened to marry some gay filthy rich sugar daddy with an ugly fetish, who was capable of taking care of all the other problems for me, I would still have to tolerate him and...
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>>17243978
Yeah that's life alright, and if you start seeing those things as more than just pointless chores it will be alright. May I ask how old you are? Because this obviously is pretty important.
Ok /adv/,
I'm finally going to be with a girl next weekend. How do I deal with my pubic hair?
>>17243930
Just trim it short
>>17243930
Trim or leave it.
Anything but shaving it bare
I've basically started an online relationship with a girl who lives in another state but we haven't actually talked about what we 'have' and set boundaries.
So is it cheating or morally wrong if I hook up with other girls irl? I have romantic feelings for this girl and want to be in a relationship with her, but only after we've met and maybe have a plan to move closer to each other. The girl I want to hook up with is a friend who I don't have romantic feelings for but am very close to. I'm kind of worried that if things get serious...
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I'd consider it cheating, but I acknowledge that it's a grey area. Would she be hurt if she found out? Would you be hurt if she did the same to you?
>>17243910
I honestly don't really know how she'd react. She mentions stuff about hoping I don't fall in love with other girls and stuff but she also doesn't seem to be jealous when I talk about hanging out with girls - although I guess she could be hiding it.
I'd be hurt I think, but I also feel like I'd get over it fairly easily seeing as we haven't said anything about being official. It just feels weird putting my life on hold for someone that isn't my girlfriend.
>>17243920
>She mentions stuff about hoping I don't fall in love with other girls and stuff
Anon, don't hook up with that other girl if you want a chance with this girl. Of course it's going to hurt her, if she has an interest in you. Keep it in your pants.
So for the past several months I've had several girls confess to me. But here's the catch: I've had a girlfriend for the past 4 months now. I love here more than anyone or anything. She quite literally saved my life and I can't love anyone else. But the problem is some of my best female friends have started to come out to me and obviously I'm not going to break up with my gf for any of them even if they are some of the best friends I've ever had. But that's exactly it, they're my friends. I'm a nice guy and I wanna support my friends...
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>>17243858
There's no real way to do it without making them feel like shit. Just say hey, I don't view you in that way, but I'm sure you'll find someone else that's right for you. Say you want to remain friends - in some cases, they'll say no. There's nothing you can do about that.
>Advice for turning down girls?
>I've had a girlfriend for the past 4 months now
Um, you say "Sorry, but I have a girlfriend." Why the fuck does this require a thread?
I'm not asking what to say to them, I'm just asking how to not feel like such an ass about it. I'm the kinda fag that gets guilty over everything so I'm honestly kinda prepared for the 'kys' posts and shit to roll in, I guess it was pretty stupid of me but I just wanted some closure; just some reassurance that I'm not a bad person for making other people feel like shit even if I can't really control it.
Hey /adv/, how do i stop having fear around people?
Explain this fear to me.
What exactly do you fear? Around what kind of people do you get this fear? Do you feel more comfortable by yourself?
Alcohol
>>17243839
Kek