Military here
Been using dating app (plenty of fish) recently and talking to girl.
Based on how she speaks, she's looking for someone for a deep relationship.
The problem is I leave the country next April
Do I tell her?
Previous dates, it's killed all relationships.
Do I tell her?
>>17312948
A lot can happen between now and April.
Up to you, I wouldn't say anything unless it got serious.
>>17312948
As a young white male that is 20, is plenty of fish for older people only?
>>17312983
I'm not white, but I am 20. I've had no luck on there. Tinder and OKC have been great though.
suit advice needed. For the first time I am finding work and i want to work in an office so I believe I will need a suit. Give me all the advice and tips you got. my plans are as follows: navy suit (I like blue), black shoes, white work shirts.
cheap as hell btw cus Im a broke fatass.
>>17312939
If you're not making 6 figures, don't wear a fucking suit.
If you are, go see a tailor.
Asking a bunch of shut-ins about suits is useless.
Unless you're in Australia, it's hot as hell right now. You can probably get away with just a button-up top, tie, and dress pants.
Just remember, the shirt needs to be lighter than the tie.
>>17312995
Britain but its a pretty hot summer for a fatty like myself so it may be acceptable. I'll try to remember that
>>17312965
It's gonna be an apprenticeship for HR staff hopefully so I think it really is needed
>Going to a girls house with my friend to drink
>It's going to be four of us (2 guys, 2 girls)
>Been speaking to one of the girls over the internet for a couple of months and apparently she kinda likes me
>Can't talk to girls irl without sperging out
>Can barely talk to people I don't know
>Overwhelming anxiety, been having heart palpitations all day
>Don't...
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My mind is fucking racing and I can't sit still, I feel like I'm waiting to be executed
Imagine the worst thing possible happens by sperging out when you go. Is it really that bad?
Besides, NOT going will be 100x worse. If you're really that nervous just drink beforehand.
OP, when I'm stressed I watch this girls music videos. It's quite calming, and sometimes they are motivating.
I thought this one is appropriate for you. It's about opening doors
https://youtu.be/QAD0BtEv6-Q
Hey /adv/, I don't know how fast this board moves so going to post here, stay a while and hope it's still around in about 12 hours when I'm awake again, but there's some pretty heavy shit coming up.
>Been lonely, a bit retarded and down all my life
>Mostly had no friends until 11 (Year 4)
>Teacher introduced me to fellow loner, J
>Cool guy, we stuck together every day for a year and a half
>We made...
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>>17312937
Oh dear
It's like a sad movie. ;-;
>>17312937
This gets much darker
>Relationship doesn't work out, I'm overly attached and S moves away
>Still very close to N through it all, much more than S
>Things get toxic between us
>Constant crying and insanity every day
>this goes on for over a year
>Constantly drinking and smoking grass
>Develop...
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>>17312981
Gets far worse
>Find out great grandfather has passed
>Soon after two other family members
>Life seems okay for a bit after that though
>Big house with the family, actually want to live life
>Mid May
>Find out over Facebook that closest cousin died
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I drank a bottle of nyquil yesterday with acetaminophen in it. Today, the next day, my tummy still hurts. What can i do to make it feel better.
Kys. Works everytime
>>17312936
Drink a bottle of water, after go to the doctors or the emergency room? Or go to an emergency room?
Do you have a history of using NSAID's?
You're probably fine, drink some milk, settle ol' girl, maybe try and take a poop. Laxatives, yadda yadda if you think you need to. If there's a worrysome amount of blood in the stool, and the pain persists, you might just wanna go to a hospital.
Hey, my girlfriend finally wants sex after 1.5 years. Long story, but basically she just thought she was asexual and I eventually changed that haha.
Alright so I've gotten pretty good at foreplay over all this time because that was all we'd do, but some help on the how to transition to more thing would be nice because we've been stuck here for ages.
We're both girls so I'm mostly talking going down on her. Any tips? I'm just nervous I'm gonna mess up, I figured this would never happen for so long.
>>17312895
>never fuck gf in 1.5 years because "assexual"
>sudently she changed mind
>>17312911
Yeah, well being young and uncomfortable with yourself and having untreated bipolar disorder does a lot to kill sex drive and that was the case until this spring so.
pls help
Where do people have sex with a prostitute?
>>17312881
At mom's house, while mom bring cookies and milk, you bang her. Also mom comment how good you're doing.
>>17312881
Where they can easily dispose of the body afterwards.
In a car if you have one. If not, an isolated alley corner. Or a motel.
Is there a way I can discreetly call someone without them knowing my phone number?
call them from a payphone
I can hide my number in the settings on my phone, but I then appear as "hidden number" so it looks shady as hell
Call from skype.
I need some sort of assurance /adv/.
So I've been dating this woman for about 3 years, & for awhile she had been telling me that she wanted to date and experience a Asian girl. Every time she told me this, i expressed to her that I'd feel like she'd be stepping out of the relationship & betraying me. She would understand at first but later get emotional & guilt me about it. Eventually I allowed it.
At that point we considered our relationship a open one because a true romantic relationship is between two people.
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Bump
Please anyone
Yes, you are in the wrong. What she did was with your permission. Even if you truly didn't want to allow her to sleep with another person you still told her it was okay.
Look, the relationship is finished. Just end it so both of you can move on. She's an immature bitch for pressuring you into making the relationship open. Both of you are guilty for the downfall of the relationship. There's no trust or communication in this relationship so it's time to move on.
>>17313030
All of this.
I want to work in a field that requires working together in a group to get better ideas. Is there anything in computer science or Network Managing? I don't like spending my time on the computer unless I have to.
> computer science
>I don't like spending my time on the computer
dude what
>>17312863
I can maybe do 5 hours a day, but I want to be moving around and doing things. I'm OK with working on a computer, but I need social interaction throughout the day.
>>17312868
You can be a business/product manager at any number of tech companies.
>GF said she likes me
>But her best friend is her crush, and she would be her gf anytime he wanted.
>Talked with her about it, first denied it.
>I asked her (politely) to not play with me, since i'm looking for a serious, no-shit relationship
It seems that I'm the one to blame because "it's different" and he's the "love that never worked".
I didn't called her whore, never offended her, just...
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You are putting way too much blame on yourself. You had every reason to be mad/concerned/(jealous? I don't know another way to put it, not exactly in that tone of the word...) Honestly think about it. Whats the point in joking about being deeply in love with each-other? There's no punchline. There is truth behind that joke. Personally, I would pull out, but this is your situation. I have no idea whats going on, but seriously, thing of the situation objectively. Jokes without punchlines aren't jokes. And again, she basically already admitted you wouldn't be...
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>>17312857
It's a good thing people like you get jealous, otherwise you'd just be another cuck.
Dump her, fuck her gay friend, dump him too and move on.
>>17312890
Not madly jealous. More like dissapointed. One of my biggest weak points is that I trust very much in a relationship. All the time I trusted her and never thought about it, now that happened and I hate being worried about it. I don't think I should fight for a place or to be "the one she really loves". I wil start moving on, more than a year with her, is going to be hard
How can I find out if a girl has a boyfriend or not? She also happens to be my superior... But on the bright side she has shown me a lot of signs of interest
>>17312806
That's the fastest fucking way to destroy your livelihood. Search on Facebook.
Or, do this "Hey, I saw you at the movies last weekend with your boyfriend, what did you guys watch?"
She will respond two ways, "I don't have a boyfriend" or "We didn't go to the movies last weekend."
Machiavelli, Art of War, read it.
>>17312818
Unless she actually did go to the movies with her boyfriend.
Also chances are you just think she's interested, when she isn't.
Also don't fucking fuck your fucking superior, that shit will blow up like a Muzzie at a Bar Mitzvah.
>>17312839
Well she is really attractive and dtf if I am not completely mistaken. I also don't care that much about my job
Hi /adv/
I'm a 20 yo guy, who's a medstudent. I always learnt very well, was first in my class in high school and college, however I invested way too much time into studying, and it was very detrimental for my social life. So I recognized at 20 that I'm a complete social retard.
I can't hold a conversation with anyone, I always find people boring, I can't really do anything with subjective opinions. I got used to dealing with facts and strong evidence that I just subconsciously find anything that's not backed up by strong evidence...
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>>17312762
Dude, you're a 20-year-old med student. It could be astronomically worse.
Hang in there. When it's all said and done, you will only have to show face at events/bars/whatevz and when someone asks "What do you do?" and you say "I'm a Doctor," you've instantly hit the top of the food chain.
>>17312762
>How to cure social obliviousness and retardedness?
It'll cure itself in your profession.
>>17312877
>It could be astronomically worse.
No doubt about that. Having no friends and generally being cringey is awful though.
>you've instantly hit the top of the food chain.
That only means people want to exploit me. It doesn't make me actually likeable as a person.
>>17312878
I doubt it. I'm ok with test tubes and patients if they actually have some problem I can solve, but...
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as a child i'd ask myself why does everyone around me act like animals
then i learned we are nothing more but worse than animals cancer cells that need to be eradicated before we destroy earth and the universe
if you could press the nuke button, would you?
i would
Don't worry, OP. Someday, you won't be 16 anymore and you'll grow out of your edgelord phase
Maybe, but not for that reason. Personally I feel that reproduction in general is immoral since no one ever consented to be born.
Regardless, all life on earth will go extinct in 400 million years when the sun's increasing luminosity causes runaway evaporation of all water. And then some time much later the universe itself will die.
>>17312754
sure, check pol
also im way past that, behind 7 ideologies
My gf is just over two weeks late for her period and I'm getting a little concerned. She's usually pretty irregular anyway, typically by a few days or a week but I don't really remember two weeks elapsing before. Should I be worried? Should I go buy one of those home test kits?
Yes.
Buy a test. Then you can be worried.
>>17312726
Yes I should be worried or yes get the test and then worry?
>>17312730
Get the test. Good luck