Advice on meeting new people?
I'm gonna be upfront. I broke up with my girlfriend of 2.5 years and moved away from my old neighborhood. I have no friends, no real hobbies, and I experience excruciating loneliness on a daily basis.
My old friends were faggots with no personality whom deeply hated me because of my relationship and my demeanor. I tried to be a good friend, but they all disliked me and I knew that they spoke poorly of me behind my back.
Needless to say, I have a complete fresh start and I want to start surrounding myself with positive...
Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Bump.
Drinking vodka alone on a Friday night isn't my ideal night out.
Join clubs
Sorry you didn't get any advice yet. This board has really gone to shit recently.
You must have some hobbies. Think about it. What do you like to do?
Do you have a job? A job in hospitality or retail can help with meeting people.
If you truly have no hobbies, you should try to find out what you like to do. Having a hobby that you are passionate about will not only give you a shared connection with others but also something to do when you are bored and alone.
There's a club out there for just about every interest you can think of, but if...
Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>have no social skills
>no friends
>go to company party
>get drunk
>still quiet as fuck
>listen to conversations
>never know how to contribute
>try to talk to someone
>they always leave and go talk to their friend instead, or go to the bathroom
help /adv/.. how do i become good at socializing?
>>16529955
>don't post pictures more interesting than your question
>>16529955
Git gud. It takes years, but git gud.
Here's the thing. To become good at socialising, you actually need to socialise. So practice. Do some after work stuff where you're in a group and can make more friends. Find what's interesting to you and do it. Make sure it's something that has other people involved there with you in the activity (i.e. don't join something which is not a team or class environment). Conversations flow when you have a common interest to talk about.
Welcome to the NEET and Shut-in advice thread!
(Version 119.5, running since Oct. 31st, 2013)
Drop out of school due to anxiety? Haven't left the house in a few years? Maybe you have a job, but don't leave the house or talk to people for any reason outside of it? Finding a job sure is hard these days.
The best time to change your life was 5 years ago. But the good news is, the second best time is right now!
>NEETmap
https://www.zeemaps.com/map?group=1663835
>Chat
http://chat.mibbit.com/#[email protected]Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>NEET and Shut-In Advice
>by other NEETs
kek
Old thread: >>16504237 *
Remember to shitpost rampantly!
>>16517569
>Post two good things and two bad things about you so we can understand who posts here better
Pros
Been told I'm nice/hard to hate :^)
Body is in great health for the most part.
Cons
Terrible with commitment
Anxious af/mental health isn't that great
Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered
Keep your questions short and sweet for more answers.
And please no derailing arguments.
Avoid asking these common questions:
>Is it normal for me to go to a club/bar by myself?
Yes. Stop overthinking this.
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
Some do, some don't.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Think positive, and get...
Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
For both genders: Is marriage possible?
I'm finding it pretty fucking hard to believe with the divorce rates. You either have someone who cheats, marry for money, or fail to get a divorce because they're too far down the road, and have marriage benefits.
Does anyone here want to get married? To those of you who are married, how are you doing?
>>16539025
This is going to turn into a shitstorm and derail the thread. Please make your own thread if you want to discuss marriage.
>>16539025
I'm a guy who recognizes that not everyone in the world is me, which makes it much easier to understand why others might legitimately value marriage. All too often I see people who categorically shit on marriage being really ignorant of why people around the globe get married and how those marriages go. Of course problems can happen. Life is not defined solely by the risks, but the benefits to which those risks are also tied. Benefits vary dramatically from spouse to spouse, couple to couple. For that reason...
Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered
Keep your questions short and sweet for more answers.
And please no derailing arguments.
Avoid asking these common questions:
>Is it normal for me to go to a club/bar by myself?
Yes. Stop overthinking this.
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
Some do, some don't.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Think positive, and get...
Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
men, if your woman wants sex and you're tired or not in the mood, do you decline or perform half assedly? Do you pleasure her till she gets off?
>>16535722
If I'm really tired, I'll say not tonight and go to sleep.
>>16535743
my man does the half ass thing. I've stopped initiating because if he's not in the mood I'll end up fucking his body but Buster Keaton's face
Been a stronger energy to this thread recently.
Thinking if I should bother trying to have kids.
I might be a broken failure, but my genes could be very useful and viable given the right conditions. Part of me wants to create something that succeeds where I have failed, and doesn't suffer from the same problems I acquired. It's like wanting to create an idealized version of my younger self. And I do not think I'll ever be able to truly shake this.
Raising children is always an engineering project to some extent. I want to create something that has the capacity to do and become whatever it wants,...
Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Was | | this close of subtly telling a girl I have a crush on her
Wouldnt do it if it were just any gril, but I have a feeling she might have some feels for me
Gdamit
>tfw the feeling isn't mutual
it hurts to live
Girl who dumped me back in high school 5 years ago.
>>16535436
aaaaaaaaaaaaannnd you've killed any tension.
But seriously, wait until she replies and we can go from there.
>>16535436
>giving a girl closure and feeding her ego
You fucked up.
I like that you laid it out bare, since girls tend to dance around topics, but I have to agree with:
>>16535460
Hey, /adv/
I'm a student in the UK (18) and want to attend a US college, however, i'm curious about my chances of getting into a good college, seeing as i'll be coming from the british system.
I have A level grades, and have done the SAT once and got a score of 2040, however I have no SAT II subject tests, or a GPA (that metric isn't used in UK).
I was wondering if anyone could provide some insight into how likely it is that i'll be able to make it to a decent college in the US with these qualifications, I have 1 more SAT sitting...
Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16535371
bump - forgot to mention that i'll likely be majoring in finance, although i'm still not 100% decided on that.
>>16535371
What's your ACT scores, you need both.
>>16535393
I haven't done the ACT, I believe I can get in to most colleges with just the SAT?
I told a friend I couldn't pick him up b/c I have no gas. I assumed this meant we weren't hanging out but instead he walked all the way over to my house in the rain. I had to kick him out and make him walk back home because I'm busy cleaning right now. It was rather embarrassing because it was in front of my family. Sometimes I feel like he's an overly attached girlfriend. WTF do I do to get him to chill the fuck out? I think it's b/c he's never had an older brother (I'm much older than him).
>>16535293
you sound like a fucking asshole. why didn't you just tell him you couldn't hang out?
>>16535300
"come hang out"
"no I have no gas"
pretty self explanatory.
Not to mention I was saying we could later but he got out of wifi before then.
>>16535300
Yeah, kinda sounds like OP couldn't say what was actually on her mind and then got upset because the dude took her word at face value instead of reading her mind.
Men are not mind readers.
Has anyone had success with getting back their girlfriend after a nasty breakup? I left her one morning and we patched up she begged me to come back that same day then I said something very hurtful and mean about her health condition (hep c) and she said i should leave and didn't want to see me anymore. Dated for 3 months were both in love deeply. What to do?
This was 3 weeks ago. She blocked me on all social media and her phone number. Plan on giving her space for a while before trying things over. She's the angry and easily pissed off type tho
>>16535178
What is hep c
you are not emotionally ready for a relationship dude. Gotta control yourself. that was a dick move to go for her health condition. And what makes you think it will be any different if you get back together and then leave her again like you've done twice already?
>3 months
People talk about orgasms like they feel amazing but all it is is your vagina twitching and pulsating
Is that it?
>>16534937
Women cum too. Smelly, sticky white jizz. It's just an internal penis with some added gadgets.
>>16534939
But what's the point of cumming when it doesn't even feel that great? It's just your pussy pulsating
>>16534949
Orgasms doesn't feel great?
I think you might need to see a doctor for that
Hello /adv/, long time no see.
I have a very peculiar situation for you guys today. My girlfriend has a very good male friend who she claims is very gay, although I don't know for sure. They've known each other since middle school. She is going to see him soon because it's been a while. There is going to be alcohol involved as well, so she will be staying the night. Despite feeling uneasy about it, I decided not to voice my discomfort and let her go without talking about it. I'd say we have a pretty serious relationship, but It still makes me feel...
Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Depends on if he's gay or not, have you tried to meet the guy?
>>16534823
No, he lives about 2 hours from here, so I really haven't had a chance to. I haven't really looked at his facebook account either because I've decided to trust my girlfriend on this. Guess I'm here because I want a second opinion.
>>16534838
FB stalk that shit. Everyone does that. If the roles were reversed and you were going to visit and stay at a lesbian friend's house you bet your ass your GF would at the BARE MINIMUM FB stalk that shit.
I need general dating advice for elderly women
at this dancing course there is this Milf ass woman who:
>always pics me as her dancing partner:
>she is in like her 40s (im 23, so our age gap is big)
>is a doctor in a hospital, has 2 kids and is not married (inb4 kek 1st kid is a spaniard, 2nd is german)
>really good looking, looks like pic related
>gives me all kinds of compliments like "you are the hottest...
Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16534816
bump adv pls
really fucking no-one?
i thought this is a normie board
>>16534816
>40s
>elderly
what the fuck am I reading?
I've got big cheeks. will lifting and cutting help cure that?
>>16534791
No.
But losing fat percentage does help. not by much though. Your face is mostly skin, tissue, muscle, with a slight bit of fat mostly around the eye sockets, ears, jaw, and lips.
>>16534799
so I'm fucked?
>I've got big cheeks
And i can not lie
I can't handle fast food work. It stresses me out way too much and I don't know how to interact with people. I guess I can kiss this McDonalds job goodbye. 5th FastFood job, this one lasted two days. I was literally hired because I'm white, and the only one there.
Fast food just stresses me out so bad. I hate pressing buttons on a screen trying to take an order. Why can't I just work at Walmart or something 3rd shift?
>can't because no experience
>can't because not diagnosed with mental...
Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16534485
yep, im in the same boat, except i don't take fast food jobs, but that's just because they don't pay enough money to make a living, i would do it if they paid well
Grow the fuck up. If you can't hold down a shit tier job then no one will trust you to do a job that requires some level of competence or responsibility.
Suck it up princess.
>>16534506
Not really helpful but you have a point. OP, no one's going to want you to work for them if you keep quitting your jobs only a few days/weeks/months in. No employer will trust you to be dedicated with a long list of hit-it-n-quit-its.
OP, I feel your pain. However, I'm at an up-end grocery store, but am still in hell. I can handle the customers well, but I fucking hate it. Even at nicer stores they mistreat you. Some people expect you to almost literally kiss their asses. I can't imagine what...
Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.