Hey /adv/. I'm dating a younger girl, She's 16, i'm 26. First time dating someone this young.
She was raped by her uncle at an younger age, who she regularly sees. She didn't file anything agaisnt because she didn't want trouble with family/ruin his life/yadda yadda. She just asked him to get groceries for her, he is going to her house with the stuff. It seems she asks him things like this often.
Thing is, i told her i was bothered by it, and she says he won't do anything and that he has a boyfriend. She asked for a ''kiss'',...
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You are fucking a child, and you're complaining that SHE isn't moral enough? Fuck you.
Seriously, please be fucking trolling. If not, this is all kinds of fucked up m8
>>16553335
You act like a 16 year old, so I guess she's a good match for you. Enjoy getting kucked by a pedophole, ephebophile.
I'm a senior in high school. I know I am. I'm someone who's obsessed with instant gratification pretty much.
So its around the time to start applying for colleges, and I know I'm going to have to go to community college. I got abysmal grades in high school, I have no excuse for my academics at all. I was/am basically a stoner in high school, I don't and never really smoked every day and I barely do anymore but I'm still in that mentality. I do hard drugs occasionally because I am an idiot. I'm just a shithead who knew I was throwing...
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>>16553313
But I'm worried about my major. I'm fucking horrible at STEM. Like, plain awful. I'm shit at math and was in the lowest classes in high school. I like some aspects of science but any of it is conceptual shit, and popsci bullshit like 'oh wow space and physics are coool man'. My good classes were history related courses and english. You can guess where this is going. I want to major in History but it's fucking history. I'm afraid I'm wasting my parents money... college is kind...
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>>16553339
tl;dr family is poor, I'm a failure, going to CC and worried about my major because my passion is History and I know that I could learn what I'm passionate about studying shit by myself and keeping it as a hobby.
I just want to be happy and let my parents die knowing that I sort of got my life together and their hard work wasn't squandered.
Optimal solution is easily tradeschool. It isn't that hard to learn, you learn from a apprentice and you get paid a solid wage right after you get licensed.
After that you work for a number of years and then go pursue your history degree on your own time with no pressure whatsoever.
The suboptimal would be going to university getting a degree in history, taking a loan and not getting a job at all.
The optimal solution is the best. Trades is for people who like to get hands on but get paid nicely as well. You can read history on your spare time and tell...
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How much do people actually cheat?
Beats would have me believe girls are angels but people like on TheRedPill subreddit say women are children with no conscience ready to hop on dick at any opportunity.
Is it worth trusting people and putting yourself in a vulnerable position? Or does everybody nowadays cheat and there's no point deluding yourself into finding a romantic and monogamous relationship?
>>16553200
Somewhat less than half of all women have cheated at least once in their lives. Somewhat less than 2/3 of men have cheated.
>>16553200
Studies vary but show between 10% to around 20% of people cheat. So they are the minority.
Ask yourself, have you or would you ever cheat? If they answer is "no, of course not", then that's good enough evidence to believe there are other people out there exactly like you.
>>16553200
My motto is "Enjoy the ride but don't compromise"
Just assume whoever you are with is already cheating on you an don't expect any less of them.
Is it possible for a woman to piss during an orgasm? I've never had one, but I've gotten close, and always fear that I'm going to pee once the release is there.
Can that actually happen or is this an irrational fear?
It's physiologically possible, but it's also very unlikely. You'd be amazed by the amount of muscle control you maintain even in the midst of spasms.
Common problem. Whenever that happens play the pomf pomf song in your head and yell "onii-chan yamete kyaaaa" and then make his penis melt inside of you. You'll be golden but not the shower kind.
Try peeing before masturbating/having sex if you're worried?
I had sex for the first time today, overall it was a good experience but there were three major issues that I need help figuring out.
1. We went at it for six and a half hours (I wish I was kidding) and at no point did I edge or cum, the girl didn't really mind it but I was surprised and disappointed in myself. I have two theories as to why I couldn't cum: I masturbated and edged for like two hours before I met her, or it may be due to my excessive porn consumption, I've been fapping at least once per week for the past seven years and I vaguely remember...
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>>16553058
You are at risk for STDs and she's at risk for pregnancy. Have you had her take Plan B? It needs to be taken within 3 days after unprotected sex. Here is when you should get tested for certain things.
>not wearing a condom
wew lad definitely get tested but she could also become pregnant if she's not on any birth control
>>16553072
how do I "get tested" though? I never had to do it before. I live in Canada.
What porn do you watch with your gf/bf/spouse? I want to watch porn with my wife and she agreed, but I'm not sure where to start... downloaded some xconfessions and I'm considering xart, but I wonder if there's anything else that's fem friendly?
I remember her eyes going wide when she saw Fassbender's dick in "Shame", but I wonder if women really do see huge dicks as a turn on... She's obviously be ashamed to admit it to me, even though I'm cool with it (it's not like my dick is small so I honestly don't care).
Any...
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>>16552917
my ex liked watching anything where the women/women enjoyed themselves, no bimbo or hardcore stuff.
She mostly wanted to see lesbians or amateur stuff.
Uh maybe her eyes going wide was just the fact that she was surprised? I'd be too, doesn't mean I like big dicks or anything I actually don't care about the size. What I like most about a man are his hands anyway.
As for your question I think Hegre-Art could fit your description? But yeah I'm not really well versed in that subject
I personally like Dane Jones' stuff and also Babes. Where the girl and guy both seem to be having fun and its respectful but also hot.
So I recently found out that my girlfriend identifies as a non-binary gendered asexual. I don't really have a good understanding of what that entails and when I try to read up on it I start feeling really anxious and terrible.
I don't have any idea how to brooch this with her (him? them?). I feel really great when we're together but when I think about all this I feel like screaming. I like to think I'm the kind of person who shouldn't be bothered by this but idk. Am I a bad person if it does bother me?
tl;dr: non-binary asexual gf, freaking out a little
>her (him? them?)
Unless she says otherwise, her is fine. She's aware of her sex. She just doesn't feel comfortable with gender roles.
>asexual
Her interest in people is based on every feeling except sexual attraction. Think of all the other good feelings you have around her. She has them too.
>Am I a bad person
No.
If she was truly asexual their wouldn't be a relationship. Tell the bitch to stfu and suck your dick.
>>16552855
nice troll post
This is pathetic but here goes.
Every relationship I have goes great until sex. I under perform and they break up soon after.
I go to 'body rub escort' and was wondering if I should go full service with her but ask her if she could teach me how women like to have sex. The goal wouldn't be for me to enjoy it so much as to try lots of positions and for her to guide me through doing it well. I figure if we do that a couple times I'd be more confident and prepared for the future
I know it's beta as fuck but how else can I overcome this?
you just need practice. probably better to get that from fat/ugly girls than from a whore.
>>16552827
This makes no sense. Don't learn from inexperienced land whales.
Practice with the escort.
>>16552818
What do you mean under perform? You either have sex or you don't.
If they're breaking up with you after the first time you have sex you're probably doing something weird or being really weird. Or changing personality or something.
Practising positions is fine, but it's not really going to help you since you already know what to do. I'd suggest you fuck the escort if you're so concerned you can't have sex with a girl properly since an escort doesn't care no matter...
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A person who I've been friends with since I was very young has grown to become one of the douchiest people I have ever met. Recently he's talk shit about me getting rejected by this one girl I liked and while normally I can ussually get over him saying shit like that he's also called my sister a bitch and a slut. He thinks he's funny and that he's hot shit when his girlfriend is a confirmed slut. (I realize I may be sounding like a hypocrite here.)
Yesterday was the last straw for me as he started insulting my sister in a group chat in front of some...
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He called your sister a slut... I think almost anyone would want to smack him around a bit,if they were in your shoes. No one can fault you for feeling that way.
>>16552871
The trouble with me fighting is the fact that I got a bad right shoulder. It's been dislocated twice and I'm not sure if I wanna risk that shit again.
Have a chat with him, only you two, and bring the subject up.
"Dude, I understand you don't give a fuck, but please do not say shit about my sister. It isn't funny, it's gross and I feel mad with that."
If he is your friend, he might whine but he'll understand you. If he isn't, well, then you can beat him without fear of losing a friend.
/adv/ how can I become a good introvert.
I'm just an awkward stoner. I lived in different countries so I don't know how to talk to everyone.
I like weed. Helps me sleep.
I actually hate my self every before I go to sleep, just for opening my mouth. Kind of sad.
Have same problem hate myself cuz I talk to much and make people feel bad. It makes me happy. I feel like dipshit.
>>16552779
Why would you think it makes them feel bad? If you can talk a lot and actually say legit shit wouldn't you be an extrovert?
>>16552772
>how can I become a good introvert
>posts picture of what appears to be a woman in a mental institution
Sorry for being completely unhelpful, I just found that funny.
we both just got dumped pretty hard is he trying to get in my pants or something?
hes always complaining about being single and i usually ignore it
Maybe? Is he a good choice for a rebound?
>>16552800
this is pretty much my first major break up so i've never had a rebound BUT
hes a great friend and hes attractive
but i'm worried of ruining our friendship
Why aren't you telling him that? Move in together if you want, then after a few weeks if you're comfortable with it try being together.
This board wouldn't even exist if people just communicated instead of being whiney wanna be introverts.
>Mom has $300 left credit on credit card, $200 cash withdrawal power
>Has to make payment in four days of about $55
>Take credit card, withdraw $100 using an ATM buy drugs
>Father filed for bankruptcy, were poor, moving into one bedroom apartment in different state because a friend of brother is letting us live there for free
How do I stop being a sack of shit that hates his family so I can get on with my life and not be a toxic burden?
>>16552758
quit doing drugs.
Stop using drugs if u are able to work go work ur assoff to earn and go live seperatelly dont use alchohol and dont be a fuking burden to your parents
Stay fit and active, get at least an hours sunlight per day, read a lot and help others when you can. These 4 things are enough to make 99% of human beings consistently happy and well rounded.
In your case I'd say also take a second job and contribute more to the rent or find another way to help financially until you improve yourself enough to move onto something new.
Share stories and help each other.
Hey guys, a few months ago, I made a post here which really helped me quite a bit. I wanted to start by thanking the anons who did help me by influencing me to go to the gym and keep me out of depression. Long story short:
>be 20
>be cheated on in worst way
>fall into deep depression
>lose house, family is not there for me
>turn to drugs to cope
>post...
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>>16552715
I'd go to a support group, you can meet peopel who know what you feel like
>>16552726
I've done that in the past. But when I get there, I'm always overshadowed by someone who like killed their kid over some heroin, which objectively makes sense. And I know it sounds like I'm making excuses, but I honestly feel trapped just listening to these people everytime I've gone.
>>16552715
>>16552715
>a girl cheated on me
>and now i want to kill myself
thats literally how pathetic you sound.
>i want to get clean but then ill have to face that alone and that sounds worse than just killing yourself.
then just kill yourself. as dr suess said 'Whether you like it or not, alone is something you'll be quite a lot!'.
being...
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Was using bf computer - when I open chrome a little history window comes up and its all videos for "hairy grandma porn"
It makes me feel weird. I am only 29. Does he think I am a grandma? Is he having an affair with an older woman?
i always search stuff like that and that doesn't mean it gets me off or anything like that. i'm just curious
Do not attempt to conflate weird porn with realistic sexual fantasy. Literally nothing to worry about.
>>16552696
Well ... It has me feeling kind of weird. He told me to look through his history its pretty much only granny porn.
He said "I think all woman are beautiful even if they are older," and "I use to be really into it years ago."
There was a small smattering of ethnic porn (about 4 videos) and two "big clit" but everything else was grandmas.............
The only girl I've ever had feelings for told me it was ok that I was shy, and then left me for someone else precisely because I was shy. It brought up a lot of trust/confidence issues and I developed chronic depression as a result but I decided not to let it affect my future and applied for a Master's programme. The tuition fees put me even further in debt, and I just about manage to cover my basic living costs by working a shitty part-time job with long unsociable hours. I don't have enough money for a social life, and I work/study so much that I don't...
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>I don't have enough money for a social life
Nigga what
Just go to some party's or get a new hobby where you can meet some people, money is not a requirement.
I suggest this a lot, but I really suggest people start lifting weights. It's not a magic pill, but the exercise really makes a huge difference in your overall mood. You feel better and more confident in yourself.
>>16552634
>Go to some party's
Ok, who with? Most of the people on my course don't live at the university, and have social lives at home. The people I live with are mostly foreign students (mainly Chinese) who don't socialise. Even if I did get invited to a party, I don't have enough money to buy alcohol or pay to go to clubs afterwards, which is what most people do at around 10-11pm after a party.
>>16552637
Gym...
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