I'm an eight teen year old, "male", that thinks of him/herself more as a female, but hers the catch, I like females more then I like males. What is happening to me, and how can I solve my minds agany?
The only solution is to worship satan.
>>>/lgbt/
there's nothing special about your situation no offense
>>16556118
See a therapist.
>re: setting up a threeway
The thing is, these two girls are super close friends - sisters basically - and have known each other for decades. They think the same, they act the same, they have their own incomprehensible communication language and they're extremely open and comfortable with one another. I've almost never seen them not be instantly on the same page about everything. So it would make sense for one to be attracted to the other's boyfriend, right?
The other night we were all stoned and they made a couple jokes about us being in a threeway relationship, first my gf said something, then my gf's friend. It could have been more like a "we're hanging out a lot" oriented joke, or it could have been a "I kinda want that" way. Am I crazy? Would you make a joke like that if you weren't sort of thinking about it though? Her friend is exiting a messy breakup and got shot down by a crush recently, so she's having a bad time and she's been crashing with us here and there. I said nothing though, being stoned/paranoid and naturally risk-averse. But like any guy, yes, that would be *awesome*. I've mentioned a threesome before in the context of a discussion or two about my gf's bisexuality (she's bi, btw), and she tells her friend everything. They have to know I think it would be sexy, right? My gf's friend isn't the hottest around, but she's pretty enough and she's a blast to be around. My gf and I are imo better with each other when she's around (but that might just be an "in polite company" thing). If I was being honest with myself, (and I -think- I am), I would say she is in fact sexually attracted to me. Wishful thinking? Can't tell. And my girl hides a certain amount of attraction to her friend, I believe, which is not reciprocated.
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But did I mention my girlfriend is cripplingly jealous? Oh yeah. She's kind of pathological about it, even though she's an extremely sexual person, which is sometimes difficult. Under non-jealous circumstances I would just bring it up, jokingly, and if it happened it happened. But there's risk, too - I like the friend as a friend, genuinely. I love my girlfriend and we're going to be together a long time and so her friend will be too, and I don't want to fuck that up. I don't want to make it awkward, or turn my gf into a blubbering mess which happens...
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Don't do it
>girlfriend is jealous
If you love her and want to stay with her, don't do it.
If you value the idea of going to bed with 2 girls more tham your current relationship, do it.
No need to go so further in detail. Believe it or not, its that simple
I'm lonely and due to various problems in my life unable to socialise. This means no friends or intimacy.
How do I get over this? I feel like shit 24/7. During my early 20s I didn't give a shit but now I feel fucking terrible and am constantly longing friendships and relationships.
Is there a magic pill I can take or something? Video games and anime no longer help.
I only have friends because I joined a church group. You could try that.
>>16555918
One of my problems is agoraphobia. I only leave the house when absolutely necessary (medical reasons), so I can't join a church group, unfortunately.
Nothings going to change until you stop making excuses and actually deal with the things you don't like about yourself.
Why do guys I like never stick around? What can I do to change this?
>>16555873
Suck their dick 24/7.
>>16555873
If they never stick around, the problem is you. Sorry.
http://ask.fm/explisis
Potential /r9k/ waspnest incoming. Please try to avoid it. (I am not and will never be from there.)
Why does it seem that trying to find women to have casual sexual encounters with, even to the level of manipulation, is more noble in the eyes of society than trying to find a committed partner? This is how it seems to me. I'm hearing this from men and women alike.
It doesn't make any sense because nobody will say one thing and stick with it.
Because like gravitates to like. You're presumably young- in high school or college and you've presumably slept around a fair bit or used to. So your circle of friends and acquaintances reflects the view that big number = good. If that doesn't apply to you then for one reason or another you fell into a group of friends who it does apply to and you are now the outlier.
>>16555777
Sweet double trips.
>>16555777
Love hurts sex doesn't, nice trips btw.
I had this idea for a tattoo, "Saoirse" on my forearm. *Not like in the picture.
I kinda want a general consensus. I've thought about it a lot but would this be something that is alright to ink on my arm?
Also, first tattoo general advice?
So long as you plan on living in a trailer park or exclusively traveling in low or no-class circles, tattoos on your forearm are a great idea. But kiss the possibility of gainful careers goodbye and embrace working for the people who work for me.
>middle class pretending to have money detected
>>16555781
You're talking about tattoos in general? I don't live in a trailer park or even a trashy neighborhood. I'm doing better off than most of my classmates (with the exception of a few). although I do have a blue collar job. I am fully aware that I have little room to move up in the world already so I'm not really restricting myself.
Gf just asked if she can go to a strip club with a bunch of her friends. What do
I know girls in groups can get problematic
Other men please give input thanks
>>16555733
Politely say you're not comfortable with it.
>>16555743
Tell that bitch to go and never come back.
>>16555733
wait what is your problem with it? the fact that she's going to a strip club or she's hanging out with a group of girls?
Gf stopped responding me out of the blue last night. Hasn't been online since.
It's the other day already here and nothing. No sign. Can't call her either.
I have bad anxiety and I'm dying here. What do I do?
>>16555689
Is it possible to go to her house?
My gf blocked me and not even her mom is responding.
>>16555689
>Hasn't been online since
Online gf? Not much you can do
IRL gf? Go to her house
>>16555703
IRL, but she lives like an hour and a half away dude.
I was molested when I was 8 by uncle and my best friend gave me the chance to track him down and kill/hurt him, his family's really rich and he's connected so I could actually do it. It took about a minute and every fiber of my being pulling in the same direction to say no as it's something I've thought about and played in my head for years now. I don't know how to get rid of this insatiable desire for revenge and I know that doing that was brave and good and whatever but I just feel weak.
>>16555675
You could try confronting him with backup or going to the police. Killing is not the answer.
>>16555675
Kill the fucker.
You didn't provide enough information to make a case for either of you so I'm just talking your word for it.
>>16555701
Confronting with backup might be the best option to be honest, but I don't know how that would go
I'm 22. Yesterday I learned that I have no sense of humor.
I don't really talk to a lot of people but my ldr girlfriend on skype.
She has said, a very nice way, that I don't have her sense of humor (implicit that others do). Yesterday she invited another guy to our skype\ call and he just seemed to fun, and she seemed t o have fun. He as not even that funny. He just made light stupid comments/observations/jokes about what he was doing and some jokes here and there that my girlfriend would respond to in kind. And he'd chuckle as he'd say those things...
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>>16555604
A moment of silence for someone who got keked in a skype chat in a LDR
If you truly had no sense of humor someone would have noticed that before you grew out of childhood.
>>16555614
Who would have noticed it? As I said I don't talk to people too often. And who's to say they haven't? I think I used to be more playful though, I suppose I accidentally "grew out of it".
First of all, I'm of Chinese origin, and I lived in Shanghai for the first twenty years of my life. Then I had an opportunity to study in France. I majored in English literature and minored in French. I liked foreign languages and I enjoyed my studies very much (during my university years, I also took Spanish classes, and speak it well enough). Now I'm twenty-five and I've just pocketed my master degree (with honours) in English studies.
At the beginning of this year, my university counsellor suggested that I should continue to do the doctoral degree,...
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Your written English is fine. Your accent may be thick, especially if you are mixing it with French-accented English.
>>16555517
>french
>frog pic
Is this a pun or what
Anyway, can you visit/study in an English-speaking country for a few months? That should help clean up the accent.
Where do I go to practice socializing and develop my social skills? At home? and how?
To the people who had anxiety before ; what "changes" do I need to make?
jobs?
>>16555371
Yeah how can I get a job if I'm anxious?
How can I not be anxious if I don't have a job?
It's meat and pudding
Find interest groups and clubs for people interested in the same things you are. This ensures that you have something in common with the first people you talk to, which makes for a good set of training wheels.
I've been chatting with a girl on some dating app (not Tinder - we didn't "match", the app just told me she wanted to chat)
She's 19 years old, and seems experienced.
I've been forward and told her I want to be the first to ever give her multiple orgasms, and I want to eat her out. Asked her when she wants to meet up, and she said her schedule is quite full, but she wants to slot me in sometime soon.
She might be stringing me along and laughing about it with her friends, I don't know and I don't care, but in case she's...
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12 years is a good age gap.
Give her a nice back massage.
Give her orgasms.
She will appreciate you if you always remain calm, especially if you are arguing.
Your mates may be jealous, just tell them love knows no age.
>>16555335
I appreciate advice on how to best be around young girls. I got fairly good game with women my age, but I guess I could pick up some to dos and not to dos.
Why would I be arguing though? I'm a pleasant and calm man in most situations. Good social skills desu.
I'm specifically looking for points to bring up if someone brings up the age gap, even if the girl in question is having doubts because of it.
I'm not looking for love. I just want to fuck a nineteen year old.
>>16555475
You're both adults and it's nobody else's fucking business. That's all you need to say.
So, I like physics, but I also like finding a job and not living in the streets. This is why I thought that physeng would be a good compromise between the two things. It should allow for a wider array of jobs while still allowing me to study what I love. Where am I wrong? Or where am I right?
In your answer, keep in mind that I live in Italy and I cannot afford getting a degree abroad. It is a bit of a meme, but notoriously most people with a physics degree in our country end up washing dishes. The only thing you may say as an answer to this is "no but Italian physicists are really appreciated all around the world", but something makes me doubt that.
P.s. This thread was originally on sci but they deleted it because they thought it was just about picking a college. It's actually more in general about the subject of PhysEng and whether it's worth taking as a compromise between physics and a stable job
Bump for interest
I have no idea how it could be that bad for physics people over there. Usually a physics degree is very versatile and lets you get into a wide variety of careers. It's absolutely one of the best degrees to have.
Source: got my degree in physics. Now working in finance.
>>16555529
It's really just that both public and private research in Italy suck hard, both because of low funding and general lack of interest in scientific progress. Things are slowly starting to change but not in the least fast enough for one to feel sure with a physics degree
This high school teacher who I kept in contact with is currently doing a part-time PhD out of interest. Is it a bad idea to jokingly say "you seem like someone who likes his job" in my Facebook messages to him?
I know that this is a minor question, but hey, nobody answered my question here >>16555109
Why do you want to say that?
It seems like a harness statement.
>>16555318
I bet that frog is delicious. I'd lick it, well worth it.
>>16555318
w-what?